You Can’t Push a Rope – #68

Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be looking at the Gospel of Matthew to see how disciple makers ought to respond to highly resistant people.

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The Gospel – Matthew 12:38-42

Then some of the scribes and Pharisees said to Him, “Teacher, we want to see a sign from You.” Jesus replied, “A wicked and adulterous generation demands a sign, but none will be given it except the sign of the prophet Jonah. For as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the great fish, so the Son of Man will be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth. The men of Nineveh will stand at the judgment with this generation and condemn it; for they repented at the preaching of Jonah, and now One greater than Jonah is here. The Queen of the South will rise at the judgment with this generation and condemn it; for she came from the ends of the earth to hear the wisdom of Solomon, and now One greater than Solomon is here.

My Thoughts

Wait a minute, wait a minute! You’re kidding me right?! That’s how I would have responded if I were Jesus. I mean, they had already witnessed several signs. Even one of their number, Nicodemus, a Pharisee, says;

“Rabbi, we know that You have come from God as a teacher; for no one can do these signs that You do unless God is with him.” (John 3:2).

So what’s the deal with these guys? Why are they asking for another sign and why does Jesus respond this way?

First, I think those who are resolute unbelievers are not looking for a way to believe. They are leaning toward unbelief and even if you moved heaven and earth, it wouldn’t be good enough for them. Secondly, these guys are spiritually blind. They are not seeking truth. They are in control (as much as the Romans will let them be) and living a very comfortable life. They have wealth, respect, and the “moral high ground.” Who needs the truth? (tongue in cheek). They wouldn’t recognize a sign if it came up and slapped them in the face.

And Jesus’ answer? Jesus is being Jesus. Mysterious and succinct. He definitely lets them know they are way off target. He calls them “a wicked and adulterous generation.” But then He talks about His death and resurrection using the story of Jonah. I got to be honest. I probably would have been looking at Jesus like a dog that just heard a strange whistle with my head cocked to one side. On the other hand, I hope I wouldn’t have missed healing a leper, raising the dead, turning water into wine, feeding 5000, and the list goes on. No. For the person that wants to believe, that would have been plenty. Jesus is really just giving the religious leaders what they want. Nothing.

Now what does this have to do with disciple making? I have a saying; “You can’t push a rope.” In other words, if people don’t want to believe or do something, you can’t make them. I’ve watched pushy evangelists get to the point where they have the recipient in a spiritual head lock with their high pressure sales tactics to get them to make a profession of faith. The weak and polite will play along just to get the guy off their back. The only thing that can stop these persistent apologists is a hard red light. Jesus didn’t do this. He was a “take or leave it” kind of evangelist. He wasn’t going to manipulate or make anyone do anything. Sure He contended for the faith, but it was usually when the religious leaders were attacking Him.

How did Jesus do it? How could He take a “Embrace it or erase it” attitude? Because He knew only those of whom the Father was calling would believe;

No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him up on the last day. (John 6:44)

My Story

This story is so ridiculous that it’s hard to believe but it’s true nonetheless. When I was a chaplain for the US Army Ranger School, I was giving a service in the Mountain Phase at Camp Merrill. After the service a ranger student came up to me and said; “Chaplain, I’m very close to believing in God!” I responded, “Good! What would push you over the edge?” He replied, “Well, when we were on patrol I prayed and told God if He was real, strike me with lightning. And a few minutes later a lightning bolt struck so close, it knocked me and some of my buddies to the ground.” I was dumbfounded! I said; “Number 1 – don’t pray those kinds of prayers around me! Second, Don’t be praying for a piano to fall out of the sky! And third – Hasn’t God shown you enough?” He said, “I’m close chaplain, I’m real close.” I walked away scratching my head.

Our Action Plan

How do we help disciple makers develop a good strategy for dealing with stubborn and unbelieving people? Here’s some ideas;

Look at all the ways Jesus deals with stubborn and unbelieving people
Give them ample warning about these kinds of people
In your times together, help them focus on how to feed the hungry and not spend much time on how to force feed the spiritually anorexic

It’s so important to teach budding disciple makers where to spend their time. Don’t let them waste too much time on those who really don’t want it or side track them from the mission.

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No Puedes Empujar Una Cuerda – #68 – Mateo 12:38-42

¡Bienvenido! Hoy, veremos el Evangelio de Mateo para ver cómo los hacedores de discípulos deben responder a las personas altamente resistentes.

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Mateo 12:38-42

Entonces respondieron algunos de los escribas y de los fariseos, diciendo: Maestro, deseamos ver de ti señal. Él respondió y les dijo: La generación mala y adúltera demanda señal; pero señal no le será dada, sino la señal del profeta Jonás.Porque como estuvo Jonás en el vientre del gran pez tres días y tres noches, así estará el Hijo del Hombre en el corazón de la tierra tres días y tres noches. Los hombres de Nínive se levantarán en el juicio con esta generación, y la condenarán; porque ellos se arrepintieron a la predicación de Jonás, y he aquí más que Jonás en este lugar.La reina del Sur se levantará en el juicio con esta generación, y la condenará; porque ella vino de los fines de la tierra para oír la sabiduría de Salomón, y he aquí, Uno mayor que Salomón en este lugar.

Mis Pensamientos

¡Espera un minuto, espera un minuto! Estás bromeando, ¿verdad? Así es como yo habría respondido si fuera Jesús. Quiero decir, ya habían sido testigos de varias señales. Incluso uno de ellos, Nicodemo, un fariseo, dice;

“Rabino, sabemos que has venido de Dios como maestro; porque nadie puede hacer estas señales que Tú haces, si Dios no está con Él”. (Juan 3:2).

Entonces, ¿qué es lo que les pasa a estos tipos? ¿Por qué piden otra señal y por qué Jesús responde de esta manera?

Primero, creo que aquellos que son incrédulos resueltos no están buscando una manera de creer. Se inclinan hacia la incredulidad, e incluso si movieras cielo y tierra, no sería lo suficientemente bueno para ellos. En segundo lugar, estos tipos son espiritualmente ciegos. No están buscando la verdad. Tienen el control (tanto como los romanos les permiten) y viven una vida muy cómoda. Tienen riqueza, respeto y la “autoridad moral”. ¿Quién necesita la verdad? (irónicamente). No reconocerían una señal si apareciera y les diera una bofetada en la cara.

¿Y la respuesta de Jesús? Jesús está siendo Jesús. Misterioso y sucinto. Definitivamente, les hace saber que están muy lejos del objetivo. Él los llama “una generación malvada y adúltera”. Pero luego habla de su muerte y resurrección usando la historia de Jonás. Tengo que ser honesto. Probablemente habría estado mirando a Jesús como un perro que acaba de escuchar un silbido extraño con la cabeza ladeada hacia un lado. Por otro lado, espero no haberme perdido la curación de un leproso, resucitar a los muertos, convertir el agua en vino, alimentar a 5000, y la lista continúa. No. Para la persona que quiere creer, eso habría sido suficiente. Jesús realmente solo les está dando a los líderes religiosos lo que quieren. Nada.

Ahora, ¿qué tiene esto que ver con hacer discípulos? Tengo un dicho: “No puedes empujar una cuerda”. En otras palabras, si la gente no quiere creer o hacer algo, no puedes hacerlo. He visto a evangelistas agresivos llegar al punto en que tienen al destinatario en una llave de cabeza espiritual con sus tácticas de venta de alta presión para que hagan una profesión de fe. Los débiles y educados seguirán el juego solo para quitarse esa tarea de encima. Lo único que puede detener a estos apologistas persistentes es una luz roja dura. Jesús no hizo esto. Era un tipo de evangelista de “tómalo o déjalo”. No iba a manipular ni hacer que nadie hiciera nada. Claro, Él contendió por la fe, pero generalmente era cuando los líderes religiosos lo atacaban.

¿Cómo lo hizo Jesús? ¿Cómo podría adoptar una actitud de “Abrázalo o bórralo”? Porque sabía que solo aquellos a quienes el Padre llamaba creerían;

Ninguno puede venir a mí, si el Padre que me envió no le trajere; y yo le resucitaré en el día postrero (John 6:44).

Mi Historia

Esta historia es tan ridícula que es difícil de creer, pero es cierta. Cuando era capellán de la Escuela de Rangers del Ejército de los EE. UU., estaba oficiando un culto en la Fase de Montaña en Camp Merrill. Después del culto, un estudiante de guardabosques se acercó a mí y me dijo: “¡Capellán, estoy muy cerca de creer en Dios!” Respondí: “¡Bien! ¿Qué te llevaría al límite?” Él respondió: “Bueno, cuando estábamos patrullando, oré y le dije a Dios si Él era real, que me golpeara con un rayo. Y unos minutos más tarde, un rayo cayó tan cerca que nos tiró a mí y a algunos de mis amigos al suelo. ¡Me quedé estupefacto al escucharlo! Y le dije: “Número 1: ¡No hagas ese tipo de oraciones a mi alrededor! Número 2: ¡no ores que un piano del cielo te caiga! Y número 3: ¿Dios no te ha mostrado lo suficiente?” Él dijo: “Capellán, estoy cerca; estoy realmente cerca.” Me alejé de él rascándome la cabeza.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

¿Cómo ayudamos a los hacedores de discípulos a desarrollar una buena estrategia para tratar con personas obstinadas e incrédulas? Aquí hay algunas ideas;

– Mira todas las formas en que Jesús trata con personas tercas e incrédulas

– Adviérteles ampliamente sobre este tipo de personas

– En sus momentos juntos, ayúdelos a concentrarse en cómo alimentar a los hambrientos y no dedicar mucho tiempo a cómo forzar a alimentar a los espiritualmente anoréxicos

Es muy importante enseñar a los hacedores de discípulos en ciernes dónde pasar su tiempo. No dejes que pierdan demasiado tiempo con aquellos que realmente no lo quieren o que se desvíen de la misión.

The Darkside – #67

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be combining the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke to learn how to avoid the mistake of taking too much ownership of our ministries.

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Matthew 12:29–37, Mark 3:27-30, Luke 11:21-22

When a strong man, fully armed, guards his house, his possessions are secure. Indeed, no one can enter a strong man’s house to steal his possessions unless someone stronger attacks and overpowers him, he takes away the armor in which the man trusted, ties up the strong man, and then he divides up his plunder.

He who is not with Me is against Me, and he who does not gather with Me scatters. Truly I tell you, the sons of men will be forgiven all sins and blasphemies, as many as they utter. But the blasphemy against the Holy Spirit will never be forgiven; he is guilty of eternal sin.” Whoever speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but whoever speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the one to come. Jesus made this statement because they were saying, “He has an unclean spirit.”

Make a tree good and its fruit will be good, or make a tree bad and its fruit will be bad; for a tree is known by its fruit. You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks. The good man brings good things out of his good store of treasure, and the evil man brings evil things out of his evil store of treasure. But I tell you that men will give an account on the day of judgment for every careless word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.”

My Thoughts

Jesus is bringing a full court press against the religious leaders of His day. They had accused Him of being in league with the Devil. And now Jesus is exposing them for their real motives. He is getting after the heart. He begins by explaining His plan of attack against Satan by comparing him as a strong man to be disarmed and plundered. Jesus is stronger and has overcome him. He continues by describing the Pharisees real allegiance to Satan by ascribing the works of God to the Devil and actually committing the unpardonable sin of blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. And finally, Jesus reveals that the fruit of their spiritual debauchery is rooted in an evil heart. They are an orchard of bad trees. The religious leaders were completely out of alignment with God.

As disciple-makers (spiritual leaders), we have to ask the question, “How did they get so far off target?” Well, several times the Scripture describes these men as envious (Mark 15:10), jealous (Acts 5:17-18, 13:45), petty (Matthew 23:23), and hypocritical (Matthew 23:1-15). They were trying to protect their turf and their reputation. (John 11:45-57).

I have discovered over the years there’s a fine line between trying to protect the flock and protecting ourselves. We may step across that line when we feel like our reputation, our methods, or our influence is being questioned or down right threatened by other disciple-makers. And then all of a sudden, things like envy, jealousy, pettiness, and even bitterness creeps in and Voilà! We go into full on self preservation mode just like the Pharisees.

So how do we stay on the right side and not slip into the dark side? Here’s some things to consider;

All sheep belong to God. Hold them in an open hand.
Stay humble
Stay teachable
Know Thyself
Know the difference between a wolf and a big sheep
Stay in the Word
Be a team player
Protect but do not Possess
Die to yourself

There is an appropriate level of preservation and stewardship of one’s self and ministry. But like I said, there can be a fine line between doing what is right as a disciple-maker and being a spiritual jerk. Watch out for the warning signs (envy, jealousy, pettiness, bitterness) when associating with other servants of the Lord.

My Story

I was reading John chapter 17 and I noticed something interesting. Jesus is praying to the Father and states that the men (the 11 remaining Apostles) were given to Him by the Father. I thought that it was incredible that even the Son of God received His ministry from the Father. Jesus became a steward of the little flock that was entrusted to Him. He acknowledges that these men were a gift from God when He says; “They were Yours and You gave them to Me.” (John 17:6).

Now if men had to be given to the Son of God, I thought, where do the men and women I’ve been entrusted with come from?! The same! They are a gift from God. He places them in my hand, so to speak, to shepherd in His ways. But I also realized that I needed to keep an open hand because I may only be their mentor for a season. Then He may give them to someone else to “water” what I “planted.” (1 Corinthians 3:6-7). I called this my “Open Hand Policy.”

It wasn’t very long before my new found “Policy” was tested. A guy we just moved into Deb and I’s home was immediately invited to another disciple-makers home for life-on-life discipleship. Without notice, the guy, up and moved out. You can imagine the feeling we were having at that moment. “Wait a minute! That’s my sheep!” Actually, no. All sheep belong to Jesus. We are just the under-shepherds. Envy, jealousy, pettiness, and bitterness are not options when you realize you don’t “own” the sheep. Oh, I could have tightened my grip on what I thought was rightfully mine but I’ve found it is very painful when God has to pry your fingers away from someone He wants to give to some other disciple-maker. Keep an open hand with God’s sheep!

Our Action Plan

Now we’ll look at some ideas on how to help us as disciple-makers avoid the pitfall of the Pharisees;

Do I have the “Open Hand Policy” with God’s sheep?
Do a study on how the Body of Christ disciples people and not just one individual
Point people to Jesus as their Master Shepherd

Take a moment to pray and give those who have been entrusted to you to their rightful Owner. Root out any envy, jealousy, pettiness, and bitterness you may have with other brothers and sisters. Now we are in proper alignment with the Master Shepherd and can steward the flock appropriately.

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El Lado Oscuro – #67

¡Bienvenido! Hoy, combinaremos los Evangelios de Mateo, Marcos y Lucas para aprender cómo evitar el error de apropiarnos demasiado de nuestros ministerios.

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Mateo 12:29-37, Marcos 3:27-30, Lucas 11:21-22

Cuando un hombre fuerte, completamente armado, guarda su casa, sus posesiones están seguras. De hecho, nadie puede entrar en la casa de un hombre fuerte para robar sus posesiones a menos que alguien más fuerte lo ataque y lo domine, le quite la armadura en la que confiaba el hombre, ate al hombre fuerte y luego se reparta su botín.

»El que no está de mi parte está contra mí; y el que conmigo no recoge esparce. Por eso digo que a todos se les podrá perdonar todo pecado y toda blasfemia, pero la blasfemia contra el Espíritu no se le perdonará a nadie.A cualquiera que pronuncie alguna palabra contra el Hijo del hombre se le perdonará, pero el que hable contra el Espíritu Santo no tendrá perdón ni en este mundo ni en el venidero.

»Si tienen un buen árbol, su fruto es bueno; si tienen un mal árbol, su fruto es malo. Al árbol se le reconoce por su fruto. Camada de víboras, ¿cómo pueden ustedes que son malos decir algo bueno? De la abundancia del corazón habla la boca. El que es bueno, de la bondad que atesora en el corazón saca el bien, pero el que es malo, de su maldad saca el mal. Pero yo les digo que en el día del juicio todos tendrán que dar cuenta de toda palabra ociosa que hayan pronunciado. Porque por tus palabras se te declarará inocente y por tus palabras se te condenará».

Mis Pensamientos

Jesús está ejerciendo una presión judicial contra los líderes religiosos de su tiempo. Lo habían acusado de estar aliado con el Diablo. Y ahora Jesús los está exponiendo por sus verdaderos motivos. Está persiguiendo el corazón. Comienza explicando su plan de ataque contra Satanás comparándolo como un hombre fuerte que debe ser desarmado y saqueado. Jesús es más fuerte y lo ha vencido. Continúa describiendo la verdadera lealtad de los fariseos a Satanás al atribuir las obras de Dios al Diablo y cometiendo el pecado imperdonable de blasfemia contra el Espíritu Santo. Y finalmente, Jesús revela que el fruto de su libertinaje espiritual está arraigado dentro de un corazón malvado. Son un huerto de árboles malos. Los líderes religiosos estaban completamente desalineados con Dios.

Como hacedores de discípulos (líderes espirituales), tenemos que hacernos la pregunta: “¿Cómo se desviaron tanto del objetivo?” Bueno, varias veces las Escrituras describen a estos hombres como envidiosos (Marcos 15:10), celosos (Hechos 5:17-18, 13:45), mezquinos (Mateo 23:23) e hipócritas (Mateo 23:1-15). Estaban tratando de proteger su territorio y su reputación. (Juan 11:45-57).

A lo largo de los años he descubierto que hay una delgada línea entre tratar de proteger al rebaño y protegernos a nosotros mismos. Podemos cruzar esa línea cuando sentimos que nuestra reputación, nuestros métodos o nuestra influencia están siendo cuestionados o directamente amenazados por otros hacedores de discípulos. Y luego, de repente, cosas como la envidia, los celos, la mezquindad e incluso la amargura se arrastran y ¡Allí está! Entramos de lleno en modo de autoconservación al igual que los fariseos.

Entonces, ¿cómo nos mantenemos en el lado correcto y no caemos en el lado oscuro? He aquí algunas cosas a tener en cuenta;

– Todas las ovejas pertenecen a Dios. Sujétalos con las manos abiertas.

– Mantente humilde

– Mantente enseñable

– Conócete a ti mismo

– Conoce la diferencia entre un lobo y una oveja grande

– Permanece en la Palabra

– Sé un jugador en equipo

– Vas a proteger pero no a poseer

– Muere a ti mismo

Hay un nivel apropiado de preservación y mayordomía de uno mismo y del ministerio. Pero como dije, puede haber una delgada línea entre hacer lo que es correcto como hacedor de discípulos y ser un déspota espiritual. Está atento a cualquiera señal de esto (envidia, celos, mezquindad, amargura) al asociarte con otros siervos del Señor.

Mi Historia

Estaba leyendo el capítulo 17 de Juan y noté algo interesante. Jesús está orando al Padre y afirma que los hombres (los 11 apóstoles restantes) le fueron dados por el Padre. Pensé que era increíble que incluso el Hijo de Dios recibiera Su ministerio del Padre. Jesús se convirtió en administrador del pequeño rebaño que le fue confiado. Él reconoce que estos hombres fueron un regalo de Dios cuando Él dice; “Eran tuyas y me las diste“. (Juan 17:6).

Ahora, si los hombres tuvieran que ser entregados al Hijo de Dios, pensé, ¿de dónde vienen los hombres y mujeres que me han confiado? ¡Igualmente! Son un regalo de Dios. Él los pone en mi mano, por así decirlo, para pastorearlos en Sus caminos. Pero también me di cuenta de que necesitaba mantener la mano abierta porque puede que solo sea su mentor por una temporada. Entonces Él puede dárselas a otra persona para que “riegue” lo que yo “sembré”. (1 Corintios 3:6-7). Llamo a esto mi “Política de las Manos Abiertas”.

No pasó mucho tiempo antes de que mi nueva “Política” fuera probada. Un chico al que nos acabábamos de mudar a mi casa y de Deb, fue invitado inmediatamente a otro hogar de hacedores de discípulos para el discipulado de vida – en vida. Sin previo aviso, el tipo, se levantó y se marchó. Te puedes imaginar la sensación que estábamos teniendo en ese momento. “¡Espera un minuto! ¡Esa es mi oveja!” En realidad, no. Todas las ovejas pertenecen a Jesús. Nosotros solo somos los pastores inferiores. La envidia, los celos, la mezquindad y la amargura no son opciones cuando te das cuenta de que no eres el “dueño” de las ovejas. Oh, podría haber apretado mi agarre sobre lo que pensé que era legítimamente mío, pero he descubierto que es muy doloroso cuando Dios tiene que apartar tus dedos de alguien que quiere darle a algún otro hacedor de discípulos. ¡Mantén las manos abiertas con las ovejas de Dios!

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora veremos algunas ideas sobre cómo ayudarnos a nosotros, como hacedores de discípulos, a evitar la trampa de los fariseos;

– ¿Tengo la “Política de las Manos Abiertas” con las ovejas de Dios?

– Haz un estudio sobre cómo el Cuerpo de Cristo discipula a las personas y no solo a un individuo

– Señala a las personas a Jesús como su Maestro Pastor

Tómate un momento para orar y entregar a aquellos que te han sido confiados a su legítimo Propietario. Arranca de raíz cualquier envidia, celos, mezquindad y amargura que puedas tener con otros hermanos y hermanas. Ahora estamos en la alineación adecuada con el Pastor Maestro y podemos administrar el rebaño de manera apropiada.

“That’s of the Devil!” – #66

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be combining the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke to see how demonizing someone’s ministry has its dangers.

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The Gospel – Matthew 12:22-28, Mark 3:22-26, Luke 11:14-20

Then a demon-possessed man who was blind and mute was brought to Jesus, and He healed the man so that he could speak and see. The crowds were astounded and asked, “Could this be the Son of David?” But when the Pharisees and the scribes who had come down from Jerusalem heard this, they said, He is possessed by Beelzebul and only by Beelzebul, the prince of demons, does this man drive out demons.” And others tested Him by demanding a sign from heaven.

Knowing their thoughts, Jesus called them together and began to speak to them in parables: “How can Satan drive out Satan? Every kingdom divided against itself will be laid waste, and every city or household divided against itself will not stand but will fall. If Satan drives out Satan, he is divided against himself. How then can his kingdom stand? If Satan is divided and rises against himself, how can his kingdom stand? He cannot stand; his end has come.

After all, you say that I drive out demons by Beelzebul. And if I drive out demons by Beelzebul, by whom do your sons drive them out? So then, they will be your judges. But if I drive out demons by the finger of God, His Spirit, then the kingdom of God has come upon you.

My Thoughts

If anyone should have recognized Jesus for His good works, (let alone being the Messiah,) it should have been the religious leaders of His day. How disappointing it must have been for God to show up and not only remain unrecognized but “demonized” for His work. Obviously the Pharisees were in the wrong but as Deb and I got to talking about it, we realized Jesus actually “demonized” people too.

The first example that comes to mind is when Peter rebukes Jesus for talking about the cross. Jesus says; “Get behind Me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to Me; for you are not setting your mind on God’s interests, but man’s.” (Matthew 16:23).

The second example is when He’s saying to the Jews; “You are of your father the devil.” (John 8:44).

Before we run off and start demonizing people like Jesus and the Pharisees, let’s hit the pause button and ask some questions;

Were the Pharisees accurate in their assessment of Jesus?
Was Jesus accurate in His assessment of Peter and the Pharisees?

The Pharisees were way off and their “demonizing” was probably motivated by their jealousy and envy. On the other hand, Jesus was dead-on when He associated Peter and the Pharisees with being in league with the devil. Jesus is right and the Pharisees are wrong.

So what does all this “demonizing” have to do with disciple-making? A lot actually. How many times have we jumped the gun and demonized someone or a church for practicing different methods or different ideas than those we have? Or am I the only one who thinks I have all the right ways to do something and the most effective tools? Uh, yeah, I thought so. You struggle in this area as well. It’s one thing to acknowledge differences and it’s another to see others as inferior. And sometimes, if we are honest, we take it to a whole nother level when we say what they’re doing or saying is “of the devil!”

Jesus’ critique of others was always spot on. Mine? Not so much. So I try to be careful about bringing out the big guns and start demonizing what others are doing.

My Story

I was having lunch with a fellow disciple-maker whose ministry was way different from mine. I like to get with others that don’t use the same tools and even have different ideas about making disciples of Jesus than mine. It keeps me on my toes and I learn a lot. I may not adopt everything that they have to say, but to be honest, I have stolen most of my stuff from other people (and especially Jesus).

But on this particular day I ran into a buzz saw! As I was describing something I was doing in my ministry, he pronounced, “I think that’s of the pit of Hell!” As you can imagine I was shocked and speechless. And then we continued talking about his ministry. (I dare not say any more about mine.) The conversation ended, I was cordial but inside I was kind of ticked off.

As I drove home I realized I was going to have to revisit the “pit of Hell” statement with my brother. So a couple of days later, I gave him a call. When I told him I was offended by his statement, he was quick to apologize. The Holy Spirit had been working on him and he recognized that the statement was harsh and out of bounds. All was forgiven but it was a great lesson for me. Don’t drop the “Satan Card” unless you’re dead sure you are 100% right.

“Different” doesn’t automatically mean “Demons.”

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas.

Do a self assessment. Are you quick as a disciple-maker to see other’s ideas and methods inferior?
Are you building your ministry on a negative platform? (Everyone else is doing it wrong.)
Get some time out of your silo and meet with people who make disciples but are quite a bit different from you. Learn from them.

I’ve seen that very committed spiritually minded people can be quick to demonize others. Let’s push the pause button and make sure the devil doesn’t get all that credit before we drop the “Satan Card.”

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“¡Eso Es Del Diablo!” – #66

¡Bienvenido! Hoy, combinaremos los Evangelios de Mateo, Marcos y Lucas para ver cómo demonizar el ministerio de alguien tiene sus peligros.

Así que comencemos.

Mateo 12:22-28, Marcos 3:22-26, Lucas 11:14-20

Entonces un hombre poseído por un demonio, que era ciego y mudo, fue llevado a Jesús, y Él sanó al hombre para que pudiera hablar y ver. La multitud estaba asombrada y preguntaba: “¿Será este el Hijo de David?” Al oír esto, los fariseos y los escribas que habían bajado de Jerusalén dijeron: “Está poseído por Belcebú, y sólo este hombre expulsa a los demonios por Belcebú, el príncipe de los demonios”. Y otros lo pusieron a prueba exigiendo una señal del cielo.

Conociendo sus pensamientos, Jesús los convocó y comenzó a hablarles en parábolas: “¿Cómo puede Satanás expulsar a Satanás? Todo reino dividido contra sí mismo será desolado, y toda ciudad o casa dividida contra sí misma no permanecerá, sino que caerá. Si Satanás expulsa a Satanás, está dividido contra sí mismo. ¿Cómo, pues, puede permanecer su reino? Si Satanás está dividido y se levanta contra sí mismo, ¿cómo puede permanecer su reino? No puede mantenerse en pie; Su fin ha llegado.

Después de todo, dices que expulso a los demonios por Beelzebú. Y si yo echo fuera a los demonios por Beelzebú, ¿por quién los expulsan vuestros hijos? Así pues, ellos serán vuestros jueces. Pero si yo echo fuera a los demonios por el dedo de Dios, Su Espíritu, entonces el Reino de Dios ha llegado a vosotros.

Mis Pensamientos

Si alguien debiese haber reconocido a Jesús por sus buenas obras (además por ser el Mesías), deberían haber sido los líderes religiosos de su época. Cuán decepcionante debe haber sido que Dios apareciera y no solo permaneciera sin ser reconocido, sino que fuera “demonizado” por Su obra. Obviamente, los fariseos estaban equivocados, pero cuando Deb y yo empezamos a hablar de ello, nos dimos cuenta de que Jesús en realidad también “demonizó” a algunas personas.

El primer ejemplo que me viene a la mente es cuando Pedro reprende a Jesús por hablar de la cruz. Jesús dice; “Jesús se volvió y dijo a Pedro:”¡Aléjate de mí, Satanás! Quieres hacerme tropezar; no piensas en las cosas de Dios, sino en las de los hombres.” (Matthew 16:23).

El segundo ejemplo es cuando Él les dice a los judíos: “Ustedes son de su padre, el diablo,” (John 8:44).

Antes de que salgamos corriendo y comencemos a demonizar a personas como Jesús y los fariseos, presionemos el botón de pausa y hagamos algunas preguntas.

– ¿Eran precisos los fariseos en su evaluación de Jesús?

– ¿Fue Jesús exacto en su evaluación de Pedro y los fariseos?

Los fariseos estaban muy lejos y su “demonización” probablemente estaban motivados por sus celos y envidia. Por otro lado, Jesús dio en el clavo cuando asoció a Pedro y a los fariseos con estar aliados con el diablo. Jesús tenía la razón y los fariseos estaban equivocados.

Entonces, ¿qué tiene que ver toda esta “demonización” con la formación de discípulos? Mucho, en realidad. ¿Cuántas veces nos hemos precipitado y hemos demonizado a alguien o a una iglesia por practicar métodos diferentes o ideas diferentes a las que tenemos? ¿O soy el único que piensa que tengo todas las formas correctas de hacer algo y las herramientas más efectivas? Uh, sí, eso pensaba. Tú también luchas en esta área. Una cosa es reconocer las diferencias y otra es ver a los demás como inferiores. Y a veces, si somos honestos, lo llevamos a otro nivel cuando decimos que lo que están haciendo o diciendo es “¡del diablo!”

La crítica de Jesús a los demás siempre fue acertada. ¿La mía? No tanto. Así que trato de tener cuidado de no sacar la armas pesadas para empezar a demonizar lo que otros están haciendo.

Mi Historia

Estaba almorzando con un compañero hacedor de discípulos cuyo ministerio era muy diferente al mío. Me gusta juntarme con otras personas que no usan las mismas herramientas e incluso tienen ideas diferentes a las mías sobre cómo hacer discípulos de Jesús. Me mantiene alerta y aprendo mucho. Puede que no acepte todo lo que tienen que decir, pero para ser honesto, he robado la mayoría de mis cosas de otras personas (y especialmente de Jesús).

¡Pero en este día en particular me encontré con un siervo muy particular! Mientras describía algo que estaba haciendo en mi ministerio, él pronunció: “¡Creo que eso es del abismo del infierno!” Como puedes imaginar, me quedé conmocionado y sin palabras. Y luego seguimos hablando de su ministerio. (No me atreví a decir nada más sobre la mía). La conversación terminó, yo estaba cordial pero por dentro estaba un poco molesto.

Mientras conducía a casa, me di cuenta de que iba a tener que volver a examinar la declaración del “pozo del infierno” con mi hermano. Así que un par de días después, lo llamé. Cuando le dije que su declaración me había ofendido, se apresuró a disculparse. El Espíritu Santo había estado obrando en él y reconoció que la declaración era dura y estaba fuera de los límites. Todo fue perdonado, pero fue una gran lección para mí. No sueltes la “Carta de Satanás” a menos que estés completamente seguro de que tienes razón al 100%.

“Diferente” no significa automáticamente “Demonios”.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es el momento de la aplicación. Aquí tienes algunas ideas.

1. Haz una autoevaluación. ¿Eres rápido, como hacedor de discípulos, a ver las ideas y

métodos de los demás como inferiores?

2. ¿Estás construyendo tu ministerio sobre una plataforma negativa? (Que todos los

demás están haciendo las cosas mal).

3. Sale por un tiempo de ti mismo y reúnete con personas que hacen discípulos pero

que son bastante diferentes a ti. Aprende de ellos.

He visto que las personas muy comprometidas con la espiritualidad pueden ser rápidas para demonizar a los demás. Apretemos el botón de pausa y asegurémonos de que el diablo no obtenga todo ese crédito antes de que soltemos la “Carta de Satanás”.

Over-Catalyzing Visionaries

Seven Dangers Visionaries Ought to Avoid

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When a visionary goes beyond the God given message and the recipients start to feel oppressed and manipulated by the constant drumbeat of the dream, people can be over-catalyzed. The weariness of an “overly catalyzed” soul resonates deeply with me. I have stood on both sides of this dynamic. At times I have overstepped my bounds as a visionary. And I’ve also been the recipient of a constant campaign of an ardent champion for the cause. I understand the fatigue and disillusionment that it can cause. While the catalyst plays a vital role in any community, excessive zeal can lead to unintended consequences.

In the ever-evolving landscape of faith communities, visionaries play a crucial role. Their passion, creativity, and ability to inspire change are essential for growth and transformation. However, like any powerful force, visionary leadership can become a double-edged sword. When overused or misdirected, it can lead to unintended consequences. In this blog post, we explore seven dangers that visionaries should be aware of and actively avoid in over-catalyzing their people.

1. Being Presumptuous with the Will of God

Visionaries often walk a fine line between divine inspiration and personal ambition. While it’s essential to seek God’s guidance, presuming that every idea or vision aligns perfectly with His will can be dangerous. Over-catalyzing visionaries may rush ahead without proper discernment, assuming that their plans are unquestionably God-ordained. The result? Missteps, missed opportunities, and potential harm to the community we serve.

The sin of presumption can be clearly seen in 1 Samuel 13. King Saul has rallied the troops to fight against the Philistines. The prophet Samuel had instructed the king to wait seven days and he would make appropriate sacrifices for Saul and his army. On the seventh day, when Samuel delayed and the army started to dissipate, Saul took it upon himself to offer the sacrifices which is strictly forbidden. As soon as he finished, Samuel showed up and rebuked Saul. Saul’s excuse;

“When I saw that the people were scattered from me, and that you did not come within the days appointed, and that the Philistines gathered together at Michmash, then I said, ‘The Philistines will now come down on me at Gilgal, and I have not made supplication to the Lord.’ Therefore I felt compelled, and offered a burnt offering.” (1 Samuel 13:11-12)

In the same way a catalyst can feel compelled and overstep their responsibility and/or authority. They begin to presume God is going to do things that may not be in accordance with His will. This is a very dangerous assumption on the visionary’s part and undermines the confidence of God’s people.

Solution: Be steeped in the Word of God and pray for discernment. Seek wise counsel and remain open to correction. Humility and a willingness to adjust course are vital.

2. Exaggerating the Results

Visionaries thrive on big dreams and audacious goals. However, when the pursuit of impact overshadows the actual outcomes, problems arise. Over-catalyzing visionaries may inflate their achievements, creating unrealistic expectations. This can lead to disappointment, disillusionment, and a loss of credibility.

When the Apostle Paul was encouraging the newly planted church in Galatia he also added this sobering admonition; “Through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God.” (Acts 14:22). Paul didn’t sugar coat and soft pedal the bad news along with the good news.

There are two sides to the coin of vision casting. The first is the exciting possibilities of what God can do. The second is the reality that God has a plan and we must obey His will no matter the outcome. The visionary needs to express both possibilities and the need to trust the sovereign hand of God for the results.

Solution: Celebrate progress, but remain grounded. Honesty about both successes and setbacks builds trust and authenticity.

3. Stretching the Word of God

The Bible is the inspired Word of God. It holds the blueprints for God’s plan and people. It gives us both direction and hope. However, Over-catalyzing visionaries may twist Scripture to fit their agenda. Whether misinterpreting passages or cherry-picking verses, this approach is misleading and undermines the integrity of the vision. It can also harm those who follow blindly.

While we cast vision for others, we dare not do what the Apostle Peter warns others had done to Paul’s writings and other Scriptures;

… just as also our beloved brother Paul, according to the wisdom given him, wrote to you, as also in all his letters, speaking in them of these things, in which are some things hard to understand, which the untaught and unstable distort, as they do also the rest of the Scriptures, to their own destruction. (2 Peter 3:15-16)

For example, I’ve heard and even used the tactic myself of trying to speed up the return of Christ by completing the Great Commission. In other words, let’s get busy sharing the gospel so that we can reach every people group on the planet and go home to heaven. It sounds noble and we whip the disciples into a frenzy. But the fact is WE never finish the job, an angel does.

And I saw another angel flying in midheaven, having an eternal gospel to preach to those who live on the earth, and to every nation and tribe and tongue and people. (Revelation 14:6)

The visionary must align him or herself squarely with the Scriptures. We cannot afford to add or subtract in order to make our case stronger. The power rests in the truth and the Word of God is able to stir the heart without embellishment or contrivance.

Solution: Study the Bible diligently, seek context, and interpret it faithfully. Let the Word shape your vision, not the other way around.

4. Ignoring Some of the Gifts and Contributions of the Body

Visionaries often see the big picture, but we mustn’t overlook the diverse talents and gifts within their community. Over-catalyzing leaders may bulldoze over others’ contributions, inadvertently stifling creativity and collaboration. Unity suffers when individual voices are drowned out.

The catalyst may be tempted to single-out certain gifts or individuals to see the vision through. Certainly, it’s going to take committed disciples of Jesus to see the work of God advance. But they come with all kinds of gifts, talents, and abilities. As Paul outlines in his letter to the Ephesians;

And He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers, for the equipping of the saints for the work of service, to the building up of the body of Christ; until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ. (Ephesians 4:11-13)

The visionary must take into account that the church, in its wholeness, will be God’s approach to fulfilling His vision.

Solution: Cultivate a culture of inclusivity. Recognize and appreciate the unique strengths each member brings.

5. Beating a Dead or Limping Horse

Visionaries are passionate about progress, but relentless pursuit can lead to burnout. Over-catalyzing leaders may push others and themselves beyond healthy limits. Like a rider flogging a tired horse, we risk exhaustion and diminishing returns. And then there are those who could care less about our vision and we relentlessly continue our campaign, thus beating a “dead horse.” But the over-catalyzing visionary’s motto is “No horse is too dead to beat.” We need to learn how to discern that we’ve reached a stopping point and push the pause button. Even Jesus knew when to say when;

“I have many more things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now.” (John 16:12)

In some cases the catalyst has gone too far and pushed too hard with willing participants. And this is where the savvy to know when to stop is essential. We can bend ‘em but not break ‘em.

Solution: Balance ambition with self-care. Rest, recharge, and recognize that sustainable growth requires pacing.

6. All Talk, Little Action

Visionaries excel at casting vision, but implementation matters. Over-catalyzing leaders may become enamored with ideas, neglecting practical steps. Promises of results without personal practice, modeling, and coaching erode trust and credibility. In the Army we wanted to make sure that we would never order anyone to do something we hadn’t done or wouldn’t do ourselves. Although this may be an unrealistic standard in every case, it was expected by leadership and subordinates alike in most situations.

Jesus chided the religious leaders with this statement;

“They tie up heavy burdens and lay them on men’s shoulders, but they themselves are unwilling to move them with so much as a finger.” (Matthew 23:4)

Jesus on the other hand, lived out His vision before the people. He modeled day-in and day-out the practical steps to reach the goal. Like Jesus, the catalyst must be willing to do the hard work we expect others to do to fulfill their vision.

Solution: Pair vision with action. Set achievable goals, create action plans, and execute them diligently with your people.

7. Unrealistic Expectations of God and His People

Visionaries often dream of miraculous breakthroughs. However, expecting constant supernatural interventions beyond what God wills can lead to disappointment. Over-catalyzing leaders may forget that God often works through ordinary means and gradual processes too. Those under the influence of a visionary that always has his head in the clouds can be perceived as chasing rainbows and unicorns instead of the will of God. We can become demanding and frustrated with the people we lead. This can only spell disaster if left unchecked. We must be grounded in the Word and will of God. We could even venture in the realm of the false prophets.

For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance to their own desires (2 Timothy 4:3)

As catalysts, we shouldn’t make promises that are not ours to keep.

Solution: Embrace faith without demanding constant fireworks. Trust God’s timing and appreciate the everyday miracles in the mundane.

There’s an old saying: “It takes one to know one.” You’ll notice that I have implicated myself in this article. I’ve committed all seven of the pitfalls. Deb and I were discussing this one day, and she provided a great illustration. She likened the catalyst to salt. Most recipes call for a pinch of salt to enhance flavor. However, if we use too much salt, it can ruin the dish. I confess to occasionally being a bit too salty. So as you read this, and if you feel any conviction, rest assured that the author is also repenting alongside you.

Visionary leadership is a gift, but it must be wielded with wisdom. By avoiding these pitfalls, visionaries can catalyze positive change without fleecing the flock. Let us honor the role of catalysts while remaining grounded in the Word and will of God.

A Kingdom Work Ethic – #65

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be combining the gospels of Mark and Luke to observe the work ethic of Jesus and His church.

So let’s dive in.

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Mark 3:20–21, Luke 8:1–3

Soon afterward, Jesus traveled from one town and village to another, preaching and proclaiming the good news of the kingdom of God. The Twelve were with Him, as well as some women who had been healed of evil spirits and infirmities: Mary called Magdalene, from whom seven demons had gone out, Joanna the wife of Herod’s household manager Chuza, Susanna, and many others. These women were ministering to them out of their own means. Then Jesus went home, and once again a crowd gathered, so that He and His disciples could not even eat. When His family heard about this, they went out to take custody of Him, saying, “He is out of His mind.”

My Thoughts

When you look at the “workforce” Jesus had assembled, you can’t do anything but admire the commitment, sacrifice, and work ethic of this band of brothers and sisters. Jesus had given them the invitation to follow Him and follow they did. They hit the road with Jesus as He preached the gospel of the kingdom, healed the sick, and cast out demons. They were His support crew, students, and fellow laborers in the harvest. This was no casual endeavor. They had left the comforts of family and home, hiking dusty roads, traversing stormy waters, and always being inundated with people. And when they returned home, there was no rest for the weary. They didn’t even have time to eat. The pace was so fernetic, His family had thought Jesus was crazy.

Can you imagine keeping pace with Jesus? Now we need to remind ourselves, it was for a season and they did get away for respites. (More on that later). But you have to acknowledge with awe the team, or dare I say “church,” Jesus put together. I am amazed and challenged!

When we look at the commitment and work ethic of these people, would you say you have a church like this?

My Story

One of the greatest gifts my father ever gave me was a model for a strong work ethic. Once I was “helping” him change out a transmission on a dump truck. We spent hours on our backs, laying on a gravel driveway, pulling this big bad boy out. Basically, all I was doing was handing him tools. He single handedly yanked the thing out and placed it on the ground.

Now you might be getting the idea that I was just a young boy watching his father act like superman but I was 45 and he was 65. Yeah, I didn’t quite pull my weight that day. But my dad was like that his whole life. A strong and hard worker.

Watching my dad and Jesus work that hard has really been an example for me throughout my life. I worked hard in the military and ministry. Quitting, although tempting at times, was never an option. Even this week was a banner week for Deb and I as we hosted several people in our home, shared the gospel, provided pastoral care, developed leaders, made disciples, and sent a missionary to Egypt. Not every week is like that but they are full. And I probably ought to remind you we are “retired.” 🤣

WARNING: If you are going to have a good work ethic, you also need a good “rest ethic.” As I said, more on that later.

Our Action Plan

How do we help disciples develop a good strong work ethic? Here’s some ideas;

Do a Bible Study with them on the work ethic of Jesus
Schedule times of intense ministry and see who shows up
Balance hard work with hard rest (Don’t be a slave driver)

If we’re going to be like Jesus, we need to learn how to train people to work just as hard for eternal things as they do for earthly things. We need to model the same commitment, loyalty, and sacrifice Jesus did for the kingdom.

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Una Ética de Trabajo del Reino – #65

¡Bienvenido! Hoy, combinaremos los evangelios de Marcos y Lucas para observar la ética de trabajo de Jesús y su Iglesia.

Así que comencemos.

Marcos 3:20-21, Lucas 8:1-3

Poco después, Jesús viajó de un pueblo y aldea a otro, predicando y proclamando las buenas nuevas del reino de Dios. Los Doce estaban con él, así como algunas mujeres que habían sido sanadas de espíritus malignos y enfermedades: María, llamada Magdalena, de la que habían salido siete demonios, Juana, la esposa del mayordomo de la casa de Herodes, Chuza, Susana, y muchas otras. Estas mujeres les ministraban con sus propios medios. Entonces Jesús se fue a su casa, y una vez más se juntó una multitud, de modo que él y sus discípulos ni siquiera podían comer. Cuando su familia se enteró de esto, salieron a custodiarlo, diciendo: “Está loco”.

Mis Pensamientos

Cuando miras el “grupo de trabajadores” que Jesús había reunido, no puedes hacer nada más que admirar el compromiso, el sacrificio y la ética de trabajo de este grupo de hermanos y hermanas. Jesús les había dado la invitación de seguirlo y lo hicieron. Salieron al camino con Jesús mientras predicaba el Evangelio del Reino, sanaba a los enfermos y expulsaba demonios. Eran su equipo de apoyo, estudiantes y colaboradores en la cosecha. Este no fue un esfuerzo casual. Habían dejado las comodidades de la familia y el hogar, caminando por caminos polvorientos, atravesando aguas tormentosas y siempre inundados de gente. Y cuando regresaron a casa, no había descanso para los cansados. Ni siquiera tuvieron tiempo de comer. El ritmo era tan frenético que su propia familia había pensado que Jesús estaba loco.

¿Te imaginas seguir el ritmo de Jesús? Ahora tenemos que recordarnos a nosotros mismos que fue por una temporada y se escaparon para tomar un respiro. (Más sobre esto más adelante). Pero hay que reconocer con asombro al equipo, o me atrevo a decir “la Iglesia”, que Jesús juntó. ¡Estoy asombrado y desafiado!

Cuando observamos el compromiso y la ética de trabajo de estas personas, ¿dirías que eres parte de una iglesia como esta?

Mi Historia

Uno de los mayores regalos que me dio mi padre fue el modelo de una fuerte ética de trabajo. Una vez lo estaba “ayudando” a cambiar la transmisión a un camión volcador. Pasamos horas de espaldas, acostados en una vereda de piedra, sacando a esta gran máquina que estaba mala. Básicamente, todo lo que yo hacía era entregarle herramientas a mi papá. Solo él sacó la máquina y la colocó en el suelo.

Ahora, es posible que te estés haciendo la idea de que yo era solo un niño viendo a su padre actuar como Superman, pero yo tenía 45 años y él 65. Sí, no me esforcé del todo ese día. Pero mi papá fue así toda su vida. Un hombre fuerte y trabajador.

Ver a mi papá y a Jesús trabajar tan duro ha sido realmente un ejemplo para mí a lo largo de mi vida. Trabajé duro en el ejército y en el ministerio. Renunciar, aunque tentador a veces, nunca fue una opción. Incluso esta semana fue una semana excepcional para Deb y para mí, ya que recibimos a varias personas en nuestra casa, compartimos el evangelio, brindamos atención pastoral, desarrollamos líderes, hicimos discípulos y enviamos a un misionero a Egipto. No todas las semanas son así, pero están llenos. Y probablemente debería recordarles que estamos “jubilados”. 🤣

ADVERTENCIA: Si vas a tener una buena ética de trabajo, también necesitas una buena “ética de descanso”. Como dije, hablaremos de eso más adelante.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

¿Cómo ayudamos a los discípulos a desarrollar una buena y sólida ética de trabajo? Aquí hay algunas ideas;

– Haz un estudio bíblico con ellos sobre la ética de trabajo de Jesús

– Programa momentos de ministerio intenso y a ver quién se presenta

– Equilibra el trabajo duro con el descanso duro (No eres dueño de esclavos)

Si vamos a ser como Jesús, tenemos que aprender a entrenar a las personas para que trabajen tan duro por las cosas eternas como lo hacen por las cosas terrenales. Necesitamos modelar el mismo compromiso, lealtad y sacrificio que Jesús hizo por el Reino.