They Don’t Get It – #119

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be looking at the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke to see how even the Master disciple-maker found it hard to get His point across.

So let’s get started.

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Matthew 17:22–23, Mark 9:30–32, Luke 9:43b–45

Going on from there, they passed through Galilee. But Jesus did not want anyone to know, because He was teaching His disciples. When His disciples gathered together in Galilee, Jesus told them, “Let these words sink into your ears: The Son of Man is about to be delivered into the hands of men. They will kill Him, and on the third day He will be raised to life.” And the disciples were deeply grieved and did not understand this statement, it was veiled from them so that they could not comprehend it, and they were afraid to ask Him about it.

My Thoughts 

As disciple-makers it is important to get concentrated time with those you are mentoring. I’ve mentioned before that Jesus got time alone with His disciples in a boat, a mountain top, and even on the shores of the Mediterranean near Tyre and Sidon. You can obviously see why He wanted to get time alone with them for this important announcement. But even being alone, without distraction, and focused on the few, they still didn’t get what He was trying to communicate. And here’s another crucial lesson for us as we pour our lives into others. Despite our best efforts, the men and women we are training may not comprehend our “crucial” lessons. 

Here’s eight tips to navigate this tough but common circumstance when disciples “just don’t get it.”

  1. Be patient! – Put yourself in their shoes and try to remember the times when some of the most simple truths eluded your understanding.
  2. Pray – Notice that “it was veiled” from the disciples’ understanding. It may take Divine intervention to reveal a clear picture of what you are trying to explain.
  3. Use Scripture – The Word of God is a powerful agent to bring understanding.
  4. Tell Stories – Jesus was the Master Storyteller. As we try to get our point across, it may take putting the cookies on the lowest shelf with a simple story.
  5. Draw It – Illustrations can be very helpful. A picture is worth a thousand words.
  6. Questions – Encourage them to ask questions and ask questions yourself to verify understanding through feedback.
  7. Come back and teach it again – Repetition is one of your secret weapons as a mentor. Repeat yourself in a repetitive manner. 🙂
  8. Use the “Cool Uncle” – Deb and I learned this from raising our sons. Have a relative or a friend teach the lesson from their perspective. You might get a comment from the mentee like “Why didn’t you ever teach me this?” Just roll with it.

Communication will always be challenging. This is especially true in discipleship where we have an enemy constantly trying to muddy the waters. Be persistent. Eventually, they will get it.

My Story 

I’ve been a disciple of Jesus for 45 years now and I’m amazed about how much I don’t understand about walking with Him. I’ve read my Bible daily, done intense Bible studies, and even been to Bible College and Seminary (some might say that explains everything, the seminary part that is). Yeah, I must confess, there are times when someone I’m discipling drops a little truth bomb on me and I let them know, “I’ve never seen that before!” I figure I’m talking to a pretty self-aware and humble crowd so I know I’m in good company. 

Now some might quote James to me at this point, “Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, knowing that as such we will incur a stricter judgment.” (James 3:1) But there are two problems;

  1. Jesus has commanded us to teach! Check it out… (Matthew 28:18-20).
  2. No teacher teaches everything accurately except for the Great Teacher Himself.

So you and I are stuck with a divine tension; To teach or not to teach, that is the question?

Here’s what helps me sleep at night. I teach people to read the Bible for themselves. This is a great safeguard for the disciple-maker and the best way to get to know the Master. So…if you’re reading my blog and not getting enough time in the Word, skip my blog and get the straight scoop from a Person who always gets it right! 

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas:

  • Create a “Learner’s Environment” for those you are discipling. It’s safe to not know all the answers, make mistakes, and ask questions.
  • Share your weaknesses and misunderstandings with them creating a level and humble playing field.
  • Do a Bible study with them and answer this question; “Did Jesus ever model weakness in front of His disciples?”

Well, there you have it, even Jesus faced challenges getting His message across, so let’s keep pourin’ into others with patience and trust they’ll catch on. Just keep sharing the Word, telling stories, and leaning on the Master Teacher to make it all clear to them in time.

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No lo entienden – #119

¡Bienvenidos de nuevo! Hoy analizaremos los Evangelios de Mateo, Marcos y Lucas para ver cómo incluso al Maestro hacedor de discípulos le costó transmitir su mensaje.

Comencemos.

Mateo 17:22-23, Marcos 9:30-32, Lucas 9:43b-45

De allí, pasaron por Galilea. Pero Jesús no quería que nadie lo supiera, pues estaba enseñando a sus discípulos. Cuando sus discípulos se reunieron en Galilea, Jesús les dijo: «Que estas palabras les penetren en los oídos: El Hijo del Hombre está a punto de ser entregado en manos de los hombres. Lo matarán, y al tercer día resucitará». Y los discípulos se entristecieron profundamente y no entendieron esta declaración; les estaba velada, de modo que no podían comprenderla, y tenían miedo de preguntarle al respecto.

Mis Pensamientos

Como hacedores de discípulos, es importante dedicar tiempo a la consciencia de quienes mentorean. Ya he mencionado que Jesús pasó tiempo a solas con sus discípulos en una barca, en la cima de una montaña e incluso en las orillas del Mediterráneo, cerca de Tiro y Sidón. Es evidente por qué quiso pasar tiempo a solas con ellos para este importante anuncio. Pero incluso estando solos, sin distracciones y centrados en unos pocos, seguían sin entender lo que Él intentaba comunicar. Y aquí hay otra lección crucial para nosotros al dedicar nuestra vida a los demás. A pesar de nuestros mejores esfuerzos, los hombres y mujeres que capacitamos pueden no comprender nuestras lecciones cruciales.

Aquí tienes ocho consejos para afrontar esta difícil pero común situación en la que los discípulos simplemente no lo entienden.

  1. ¡Ten paciencia!: Ponte en su lugar y recuerda las veces en que algunas de las verdades más sencillas se te escaparon.
  2. Ora: Observa que estaba velado para la comprensión de los discípulos. Puede que se requiera la intervención divina para que se revele una imagen clara de lo que intentas explicar. 
  3. Usa las Escrituras: La Palabra de Dios es un medio poderoso para brindar comprensión.
  4. Cuenta historias: Jesús fue el maestro narrador. Al intentar transmitir nuestro mensaje, puede que tengamos que dejar las galletas en el último estante con una historia sencilla.
  5. Dibuja: Las ilustraciones pueden ser muy útiles. Una imagen vale más que mil palabras.
  6. Preguntas: Anímalos a hacer preguntas y a hacerlas tú mismo para verificar la comprensión mediante la retroalimentación.
  7. Regresa y enséñalo de nuevo: La repetición es una de tus armas secretas como mentor. Repítelo de forma repetitiva. 🙂
  8. Usa el “Tío Genial”: Deb y yo aprendimos esto criando a nuestros hijos. Pide a un familiar o amigo que enseñe la lección desde su perspectiva. Podrías recibir un comentario del aprendiz como “¿Por qué nunca me enseñaste esto?”. Simplemente sigue adelante.

La comunicación siempre será un desafío. Esto es especialmente cierto en el discipulado, donde tenemos un enemigo que constantemente intenta enturbiar las aguas. Sé persistente. Con el tiempo, lo entenderán.

Mi Historia

Llevo 45 años siendo discípulo de Jesús y me asombra lo mucho que no entiendo sobre caminar con Él. He leído la Biblia a diario, he realizado estudios bíblicos intensos e incluso he ido a un instituto bíblico y a un seminario (algunos dirían que eso lo explica todo, al menos el seminario). Sí, debo confesar que a veces alguien a quien discipulo me suelta una pequeña bomba de verdad y le digo: “¡Nunca había visto eso!”. Supongo que estoy hablando con un grupo bastante consciente y humilde, así que sé que estoy en buena compañía.

Ahora bien, algunos podrían citarme a Santiago en este punto: “Hermanos míos, no os hagáis muchos maestros, sabiendo que como tales recibiremos un juicio más severo” (Santiago 3:1). Pero hay dos problemas:

¡Jesús nos ha mandado a enseñar! Fíjense bien… (Mateo 28:18-20).

Ningún maestro enseña todo con precisión, excepto el Gran Maestro mismo.

Así que tú y yo nos encontramos atrapados en una tensión divina: ¿Enseñar o no enseñar? Esa es la cuestión.

Esto es lo que me ayuda a dormir por las noches: enseño a la gente a leer la Biblia por sí misma. Esta es una gran protección para quien hace discípulos y la mejor manera de conocer al Maestro. Así que… si lees mi blog y no dedicas suficiente tiempo a la Palabra, ¡sáltatelo y obtén la información directa de una persona que siempre acierta!

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es momento de aplicar. Aquí tienes algunas ideas:

Crea un ambiente de aprendizaje para quienes estás discipulando. Es seguro no saber todas las respuestas, cometer errores y hacer preguntas.

Comparte tus debilidades y malentendidos con ellos, creando un ambiente de igualdad y humildad.

Organiza un estudio bíblico con ellos y responde a esta pregunta: “¿Alguna vez Jesús demostró debilidad frente a sus discípulos?”.

Bueno, ahí lo tienen: incluso Jesús enfrentó dificultades para transmitir su mensaje, así que sigamos inculcándolo a otros con paciencia y confiando en que lo entenderán. Simplemente sigan compartiendo la Palabra, contando historias y apoyándose en el Maestro para que con el tiempo se lo aclare todo.

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Frustrated Disciple-Makers – #117

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be looking at the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke to see how Jesus got frustrated with His disciples.

So let’s get started.

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Matthew 17:14–17, Mark 9:14–24, Luke 9:37b–42a

They returned to the other disciples and they saw a large crowd around them, and scribes arguing with them. As soon as all the people saw Jesus, they were filled with awe and ran to greet Him. “What are you disputing with them?” He asked. Suddenly a man came up to Jesus and knelt before Him. “Lord, Teacher, I beg You to look at my son, for he is my only child. I brought You my son, who has a spirit that makes him mute. Have mercy on him,” he said. “A spirit keeps seizing him, and he screams abruptly. It throws him into convulsions so that he foams at the mouth. He has seizures and is suffering terribly. Whenever it seizes him, it throws him to the ground. He foams at the mouth, gnashes his teeth, and becomes rigid. He often falls into the fire or into the water. It keeps mauling him and rarely departs from him. I brought him to Your disciples, I begged them to drive it out, but they were unable to heal him.”

“O unbelieving and perverse generation!” Jesus replied. “How long must I remain with you? How long must I put up with you? Bring the boy here to Me.” So they brought him, and even while the boy was approaching, the demon seeing Jesus slammed him to the ground and immediately threw the boy into a convulsion and he rolled around, foaming at the mouth. Jesus asked the boy’s father, “How long has this been with him?” “From childhood,” he said. “It often throws him into the fire or into the water, trying to kill him. But if You can do anything, have compassion on us and help us.” “If You can?” echoed Jesus. “All things are possible to him who believes!” Immediately the boy’s father cried out, “I do believe; help my unbelief!”

My Thoughts 

Now remember this series is primarily focused on disciple-makers not on the disciples per say. Most writers would look at this passage and write about the father’s response, “I believe help me with my unbelief.” Certainly, that’s a very appropriate and timely topic to address with all people. But there’s something here that I seldom hear leaders writing or preaching about and yet it’s just as important as the man’s faith (or lack thereof). Do you know what I’m talking about my fellow disciple-maker?

Yes! It’s the fact that Jesus is frustrated! 

“O unbelieving and perverse generation!” Jesus replied. “How long must I remain with you? How long must I put up with you?

As a disciple-maker do you ever get frustrated? If you haven’t, you will. And a lot of times we may feel guilty about it. But let me remind you that Jesus was sinless. He was able to be peeved and even express it without crossing the line of being unloving or untrue. Jesus’ frustration in this moment reveals His deep longing for His disciples to grasp the truth and grow in faith. As disciple-makers, we may feel similar frustrations when those we mentor struggle to understand or apply what we teach. Yet, like Jesus, we can channel that frustration into passionate perseverance, continuing to guide with patience and love, trusting that growth takes time. His example shows us that feeling frustrated doesn’t mean we’ve failed—it means we care deeply about the spiritual journey of those we lead.

Now let me give a warning. We will get frustrated at one time or another. But notice Jesus addresses the disciples and the crowd directly. He doesn’t go to John the Baptist and say, “Man, bro, I hope the men you’re discipling are better than the ones I got! What a bunch of boneheads!” No, that would be gossip and oh, by the way, sin. Oftentimes we complain about our frustrations to others and not to those who really need to hear it so they can make corrections themselves. If you’re frustrated, talk to the people you’re frustrated with. 

My Story

Confession Time! I’m more pastoral than prophetic. My idea of lowering the boom on someone with the truth is like tapping them with a Q-Tip. So most of the time the ones I’m discipling have to ask, “Did you just rebuke me?” Now I have friends that are much better at getting your attention when you’re messing up. And I have to say I admire these “truth tellers.” There have been times in my life where a more prophetic person asked a question and totally ticked me off! Ironically, those people had the most significant life transforming effect in my walk with Jesus. And that’s why I love them. 

Now I have had to tell some of the same people “Ratchet it Down a Bit.” There are times when the truth was not “received” in love. Delivery is just as important as the message. But let’s not vote the prophets off the island just because we got our feelings hurt or we didn’t like the delivery. The truth is the truth and if we are going to be transformed in the image of Christ, we desperately need these kinds of people around us.

Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But deceitful are the kisses of an enemy.

(Proverbs 27:6)

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas;

  • Take inventory – When’s the last time you had to confront someone and did it in love?
  • Are you as good at the delivery as much as you are at speaking the truth?
  • Do you need to learn how to be more shepherding or more prophetic? Work on it.

Well friends, disciple-making ain’t always easy, but Jesus shows us it’s okay to feel frustrated as long as we guide with love and patience. Let’s keep speaking truth, delivering it kindly, and trusting God to grow those we lead!

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Discipuladores Frustrados – #117

¡Bienvenidos de nuevo! Hoy analizaremos los Evangelios de Mateo, Marcos y Lucas para ver cómo Jesús se frustró con sus discípulos.

Comencemos.

Mateo 17:14-17, Marcos 9:14-24, Lucas 9:37b-42a

Volvieron con los demás discípulos y vieron una gran multitud a su alrededor, y escribas discutiendo con ellos. En cuanto todos vieron a Jesús, se llenaron de asombro y corrieron a saludarlo. “¿Qué discuten con ellos?”, preguntó. De repente, un hombre se acercó a Jesús y se arrodilló ante él. “Señor, Maestro, te ruego que cuides a mi hijo, porque es mi único hijo. Te traje a mi hijo, que tiene un espíritu que lo deja mudo. Ten piedad de él”, dijo. Un espíritu se apodera de él y grita de repente. Le provoca convulsiones que le hacen echar espuma por la boca. Tiene convulsiones y sufre terriblemente. Cada vez que se apodera de él, lo tira al suelo. Echa espuma por la boca, rechina los dientes y se queda rígido. A menudo cae al fuego o al agua. Lo ataca constantemente y rara vez se aparta de él. Lo traje a tus discípulos, les rogué que lo expulsaran, pero no pudieron sanarlo.

¡Oh, generación incrédula y perversa! —respondió Jesús—. ¿Cuánto tiempo he de permanecer con ustedes? ¿Cuánto tiempo he de soportarlos? Traigan al niño acá. Así que lo trajeron, y mientras el niño se acercaba, el demonio, al ver a Jesús, lo tiró al suelo e inmediatamente lo arrojó con convulsiones, rodando por el suelo, echando espuma por la boca. Jesús le preguntó al padre del niño: —¿Cuánto tiempo lleva con esto? —Desde niño —respondió. A menudo lo arroja al fuego o al agua, intentando matarlo. Pero si puedes hacer algo, ten compasión de nosotros y ayúdanos. —¿Si puedes? —repitió Jesús—. ¡Todo es posible para el que cree! —Al instante, el padre del niño exclamó: —Creo; ¡ayuda mi incredulidad!

Mis Pensamientos

Recuerden que esta serie se centra principalmente en quienes hacen discípulos, no en los discípulos en sí. La mayoría de los escritores analizarían este pasaje y escribirían sobre la respuesta del padre: “Creo, ayúdame con mi incredulidad”. Sin duda, es un tema muy apropiado y oportuno para abordar con todas las personas. Pero hay algo aquí que rara vez escucho a los líderes escribir o predicar, y sin embargo, es tan importante como la fe del hombre (o la falta de ella). ¿Saben a qué me refiero, mi compañero hacedor de discípulos?

¡Sí! ¡Es la frustración de Jesús!

“¡Oh generación incrédula y perversa!”, respondió Jesús. ¿Hasta cuándo debo permanecer con ustedes? ¿Hasta cuándo debo soportarlos?

Como hacedores de discípulos, ¿se frustran alguna vez? Si no, lo harán. Y muchas veces nos sentimos culpables por ello. Pero permítanme recordarles que Jesús no tenía pecado. Podía estar enojado e incluso expresarlo sin cruzar la línea de la falta de amor o la falsedad. La frustración de Jesús en ese momento revela su profundo anhelo de que sus discípulos comprendieran la verdad y crecieran en la fe. Como hacedores de discípulos, podemos sentir frustraciones similares cuando a quienes asesoramos les cuesta comprender o aplicar lo que enseñamos. Sin embargo, al igual que Jesús, podemos canalizar esa frustración hacia una perseverancia apasionada, guiando continuamente con paciencia y amor, confiando en que el crecimiento lleva tiempo. Su ejemplo nos muestra que sentirse frustrado no significa que hayamos fracasado, sino que nos importa profundamente el camino espiritual de quienes guiamos.

Ahora, permítanme darles una advertencia. Nos frustraremos en algún momento. Pero noten que Jesús se dirige directamente a los discípulos y a la multitud. No se dirige a Juan el Bautista. Bautista y decir: “¡Hermano, espero que los hombres que estás discipulando sean mejores que los que yo tengo! ¡Qué idiotas!”. No, eso sería chisme y, por cierto, pecado. Muchas veces nos quejamos de nuestras frustraciones con otros y no con quienes realmente necesitan escucharlas para poder corregirlas. Si te sientes frustrado, habla con quienes te frustran.

Mi Historia

¡Hora de confesar! Soy más pastoral que profético. Mi idea de calmar a alguien con la verdad es como darle un golpecito con un hisopo. Así que la mayoría de las veces, quienes discipulo tienen que preguntar: “¿Acabas de reprenderme?”. Ahora tengo amigos que son mucho mejores captando tu atención cuando te equivocas. Y debo decir que admiro a estos “veraces”. ¡Ha habido momentos en mi vida en que una persona más profética me hizo una pregunta y me molestó muchísimo! Irónicamente, esas personas tuvieron el efecto transformador más significativo en mi caminar con Jesús. Y por eso las amo.

Ahora he tenido que decirles a algunas de esas mismas personas: “Bájale un poco”. Hay momentos en que la verdad no fue “recibida” con amor. La forma de transmitirla es tan importante como el mensaje. Pero no descartemos a los profetas solo porque nos hirieron los sentimientos o no nos gustó cómo la transmitieron. La verdad es la verdad, y si vamos a ser transformados a la imagen de Cristo, necesitamos desesperadamente este tipo de personas a nuestro alrededor.

Fieles son las heridas del amigo, pero engañosos los besos del enemigo.

(Proverbios 27:6)

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es momento de aplicar. Aquí tienes algunas ideas:

Haz un inventario: ¿Cuándo fue la última vez que tuviste que confrontar a alguien y lo hiciste con amor?

¿Eres tan bueno comunicando la verdad como diciendo la verdad?

¿Necesitas aprender a ser más pastor o más profético? Esfuérzate.

Bueno, amigos, hacer discípulos no siempre es fácil, pero Jesús nos muestra que está bien sentirse frustrado siempre que guiemos con amor y paciencia. ¡Sigamos hablando la verdad, comunicándola con amabilidad y confiando en que Dios hará crecer a quienes guiamos!

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I’d Rather Be Humble than Be Humbled – #112

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be looking at the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke to see how Jesus addressed Peter’s pride and lack of insight into the ways of God.

So let’s get started.

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Matthew 16:21–23, Mark 8:31-33, Luke 9:22

From that time on Jesus began to teach and show His disciples that He, the Son of Man, must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things at the hands of the elders, chief priests, and scribes, and be rejected by them and that He must be killed and on the third day be raised to life. He spoke this message quite frankly, and Peter took Him aside and began to rebuke Him. “Far be it from You, Lord!” he said. “This shall never happen to You!” But Jesus, turning and looking at His disciples, rebuked Peter and said, “Get behind Me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to Me. For you do not have in mind the things of God, but the things of men.”

 My Thoughts 

Peter would later write this promise and warning in his first epistle;

You younger men, likewise, be subject to your elders; and all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, for GOD IS OPPOSED TO THE PROUD, BUT GIVES GRACE TO THE HUMBLE. Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time…

1 Peter 5:5-6

He had experience. He knew what it was like to go from hero to zero in a matter of minutes. Just a minute earlier he was being blessed by his Master and the next he was labeled one of the worst villains in the universe; Satan. Yes, Peter warns us from his own combat experience, “Take it from me, humble yourself because when God humbles you, it ain’t pretty.”

Here’s five indicators of true humility;

  1. Self-Aware: A humble person recognizes their strengths and weaknesses without arrogance or self-deprecation, staying grounded in who they are. Pride can come in two forms – elevating oneself or putting oneself down. Both are focused on self. (Romans 12:3)
  2. Grateful: They express appreciation for what they have and give credit to others, rather than acting entitled or self-focused. (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
  3. Teachable: They listen, accept feedback, and admit mistakes, showing they don’t claim to have all the answers. (Proverbs 12:15)
  4. Others Focused: They prioritize others’ needs or perspectives with kindness and respect, not for recognition but out of genuine care. (Philippians 2:3-4)
  5. Generous: Humble individuals give freely—of their time, resources, or support—without expecting anything in return, reflecting a lack of ego in their actions. (Luke 6:38)

My Story

I was in the Chaplain’s Basic Course as a brand new chaplain but not a brand new soldier. I had already served as an infantryman for 19 years. I knew I needed to enter into this new phase of my career with some humility but the obstacle course got the better of me. With a spirit of competition and pride swelling in my chest, I attacked each obstacle like I was 19 years old. One problem, I was actually 38! I did finish the course in record time and showed I was the man…with two broken ribs and a wacked out spine. I didn’t let on that I was in pain at the moment of my “grand victory.” But the next morning standing in formation with all my fellow chaplains, I crumpled to the ground in pain. They had to physically carry me to the ER. Pride comes before the fall…and pain.

Tisk, tisk. I keep reminding myself; “humble yourself before you get humbled…under the mighty hand of God.”

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas;

  • Study the Bible to find instances where Jesus’ disciples acted arrogantly and note His response or actions.
  • Share the insights from your Bible study with those you are mentoring.
  • Take time in church to confess prideful behaviors in your lives.

There is great safety in the bunker of humility. Let’s learn from Peter’s combat experience and dodge those “Pride Mines.”

Prefiero ser humilde que humillado – #112

¡Bienvenidos de nuevo! Hoy analizaremos los Evangelios de Mateo, Marcos y Lucas para ver cómo Jesús abordó el orgullo de Pedro y su falta de comprensión de los caminos de Dios.

¡Comencemos!

Mateo 16:21-23, Marcos 8:31-33, Lucas 9:22

Desde entonces, Jesús comenzó a enseñar y a mostrar a sus discípulos que él, el Hijo del Hombre, debía ir a Jerusalén y sufrir mucho a manos de los ancianos, los principales sacerdotes y los escribas, y ser rechazado por ellos, y que debía ser ejecutado y resucitar al tercer día. Les habló con toda franqueza, y Pedro lo tomó aparte y comenzó a reprenderlo. «¡Lejos de ti, Señor! —dijo—. ¡Esto nunca te sucederá!». Pero Jesús, volviéndose y mirando a sus discípulos, reprendió a Pedro y le dijo: «¡Quítate de delante de mí, Satanás! Me eres tropiezo. Porque no piensas en las cosas de Dios, sino en las de los hombres».

Mis Pensamientos

Pedro escribiría más tarde esta promesa y advertencia en su primera epístola:

Ustedes, jóvenes, igualmente, estén sujetos a sus ancianos; y todos, revístanse de humildad unos con otros, porque Dios se opone a los soberbios, pero da gracia a los humildes. Humíllense, pues, bajo la poderosa mano de Dios, para que él los exalte a su debido tiempo…

1 Pedro 5:5-6

Él tenía experiencia. Sabía lo que era pasar de héroe a cero en cuestión de minutos. Un minuto antes estaba siendo bendecido por su Maestro y al siguiente era etiquetado como uno de los peores villanos del universo: Satanás. Sí, Pedro nos advierte desde su propia experiencia de combate: «Créanme, humíllense, porque cuando Dios los humilla, no es agradable».

Aquí hay cinco indicadores de verdadera humildad:

Consciente de sí mismo: Una persona humilde reconoce sus fortalezas y debilidades sin arrogancia ni autodesprecio, manteniéndose firme en su identidad. El orgullo puede manifestarse de dos maneras: enalteciéndose o despreciándose. Ambas se centran en uno mismo. (Romanos 12:3)

Agradecido: Expresa su aprecio por lo que tiene y reconoce el mérito de los demás, en lugar de actuar con presunción o egocentrismo. (1 Tesalonicenses 5:18)

Educable: Escucha, acepta la retroalimentación y admite sus errores, demostrando que no pretende tener todas las respuestas. (Proverbios 12:15)

Enfocado en los demás: Prioriza las necesidades o perspectivas de los demás con amabilidad y respeto, no buscando reconocimiento, sino por un interés genuino. (Filipenses 2:3-4)

Generoso: Las personas humildes dan libremente —de su tiempo, recursos o apoyo— sin esperar nada a cambio, lo que refleja una falta de ego en sus acciones. (Lucas 6:38)

Mi Historia

Estaba en el Curso Básico de Capellán como capellán flamante, pero no como soldado novato. Ya había servido como soldado de infantería durante 19 años. Sabía que debía afrontar esta nueva etapa de mi carrera con humildad, pero la carrera de obstáculos me venció. Con un espíritu de competencia y un orgullo que me inundaba el pecho, afronté cada obstáculo como si tuviera 19 años. ¡Un problema, tenía 38! Terminé el curso en tiempo récord y demostré que era el hombre… con dos costillas rotas y la columna vertebral destrozada. No dejé entrever el dolor que sentía en el momento de mi “gran victoria”. Pero a la mañana siguiente, en formación con todos mis compañeros capellanes, me desplomé en el suelo de dolor. Tuvieron que cargarme físicamente a urgencias. El orgullo precede a la caída… y al dolor.

Tic, tic. Sigo recordándome a mí mismo: “Humíllate antes de ser humillado… bajo la poderosa mano de Dios”.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es momento de aplicarlo. Aquí tienes algunas ideas:

Estudia la Biblia para encontrar ejemplos de cómo los discípulos de Jesús actuaron con arrogancia y observa su respuesta o acciones.

Comparte las enseñanzas de tu estudio bíblico con tus mentores.

Dedica tiempo en la iglesia a confesar comportamientos orgullosos en tu vida.

Hay gran seguridad en el refugio de la humildad. Aprendamos de la experiencia de combate de Pedro y evitemos esas minas del orgullo.

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Chapter 28 – Flight and the Final Tests

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They will mount up with wings like eagles.

Isaiah 40:31

Flight School

The morning sun painted Reynard 3’s sky in shades of amber and rose, casting long shadows across the fertile fields surrounding the base. Wade inhaled deeply, letting the rich scent of damp soil fill his lungs. Around him, the whine of anti-grav engines and the thunderous roar of atmospheric thrusters created a familiar symphony – one that had once filled him with childlike awe. Now, each sound carried a different weight, each vessel overhead a reminder of missions yet to come.

Beside him at the edge of the landing pad, Jay and Metro stood in contemplative silence. The moss beneath their boots released its earthy fragrance with each shift of their weight. Metro’s fingers absently traced the raised scar tissue on his forearm – a permanent reminder of their firefight on Carthis 7. The gesture wasn’t lost on Wade; every mark they carried told a story of survival, of lessons learned in blood and fire.

“Three months,” Metro murmured, his voice barely audible above the ambient hum of the base. “Feels like three lifetimes.” The words hung in the air, heavy with shared memories of lost comrades and near misses.

The barracks welcomed them with the sterile efficiency of military quarters, their gear stowed with the practiced precision that had become second nature. When dawn broke the next day, they found themselves facing a different kind of challenge. Gone were the thundering voices and predatory stares of their previous instructors. This phase of Ranger training carried a deceptive gentility, but Wade knew better – sometimes the deadliest predators wore the most disarming smiles.

Their first test waited below on the practice course: the Badger hovercraft. Its sleek hull caught the alien sunlight like liquid mercury, beautiful and lethal in equal measure. Wade’s pulse quickened at the sight. He’d survived combat drops and close-quarters firefights, yet something about this elegant machine made his mouth go dry. Perhaps it was the way it demanded perfection, offering no margin for the brute force solutions that had sometimes served him in training and combat.

“Sergeant Kovacs.” The instructor’s voice carried the calm assurance of someone who had seen countless recruits face this moment. “Show us what you got.”

The Badger’s cockpit enveloped Wade like a second skin, familiar yet foreign. His fingers found the controls, feeling the subtle vibrations that spoke of barely contained power. No violent shaking like the drop pods, no brutal impact of atmospheric entry – this was a dance of precision, of finesse.

The craft lifted with a whisper, responding to his touch like a living creature. Wade felt sweat bead on his forehead as he guided it forward, the rocky course stretching before him like an obstacle course designed by a sadistic enemy. A massive boulder formation loomed ahead, its jagged surface a challenge he would have once approached with hesitation.

But the Corps had changed him. Where he once saw obstacles, he now saw opportunities. The Badger responded to his subtle adjustments, banking against the natural curve of the rocks. He wasn’t fighting the terrain anymore – he was partnering with it, using the formation’s own geometry to maintain his momentum while bleeding off excess speed.

“Better,” the instructor’s voice crackled through his helmet, carrying a note of approval that meant more than any shouted praise. “But remember, Kovacs – she’s not a weapon to be wielded. She’s a partner in the dance. Let her lead sometimes.”

From their position in the observation stand, Jay and Metro watched with the knowing eyes of men who had shared suffering and success. Metro’s fingers tapped an unconscious rhythm against his leg, his body tensed as if he could feel every adjustment Wade made. They’d seen this side of him before, in moments when split-second decisions meant the difference between life and death. It wasn’t just skill they were watching – it was the quiet confidence of a born leader.

The F2-90 Stellar Scout

The days blurred together as they mastered the Badger, each session building on the last until the craft felt like an extension of their will. Then came the transition to the F2-90 Stellar-Scout simulators. The cockpit welcomed Wade and Jay like an old friend, its neural interface headset settling against their temples with intimate familiarity. This wasn’t just about flying anymore – it was about fusion, about two minds working as one.

“Pilots,” the instructor’s voice carried through the PA system, “you’ve proven you can handle the basics. Now we’ll see if you can dance in the devil’s ballroom. This neutron star field simulation has humbled better crews than yours. Remember – out there, pride kills faster than any enemy.”

The simulation erupted around them in a symphony of light and shadow. Gravimetric warnings screamed across Wade’s console like banshees, but beneath the chaos, he felt something clicking into place. This wasn’t about raw calculations anymore – it was about rhythm, about feeling the ship’s pulse and anticipating Jay’s next move before he made it.

“Gravitational shear spiking,” Jay reported, his voice carrying the same steady calm he’d maintained during their worst circumstances in training and combat. His hands moved across the controls with surgical precision, threading their way between competing gravity wells that could tear their ship apart in seconds. “Need new vectors, Wade.”

Wade’s mind raced through possibilities, combat instincts merging with mathematical precision. Perfect solutions could get you killed – he’d learned that lesson watching better men die while chasing optimal outcomes. “Feeding you new vectors… now.”

The Stellar-Scout responded like a creature born to dance among the stars, riding gravitational currents with ethereal grace. Warning indicators cascaded from danger to safety, but neither man celebrated. They weren’t just surviving anymore – they were transcending.

Hours bled into days, days into weeks, each session building not just skill but understanding. Every simulation reinforced what combat had already taught them: that trust wasn’t just about faith in each other’s abilities, but about reading the microscopic tensions in a shoulder, the subtle shifts in breathing that telegraphed intentions before words could form.

Late one night, reviewing flight logs in his quarters, Wade found himself smiling at a realization. The eager recruit who had first arrived on Rinart 3 would have seen these challenges as hurdles to overcome, tests to pass. Now he understood – they weren’t obstacles at all, but gifts. Each simulation, each flight, was another chance to refine the skills that would keep his team alive when theory gave way to brutal reality.

The familiar terrain of Reynard 3 hadn’t changed, but its meaning had. Every field, every training course, every moment in the cockpit wasn’t just about personal achievement anymore. It was about preparation for the moment when skill and trust would mean the difference between bringing everyone home or adding more names to the memorial wall.

The moment of truth arrived when they finally got to tour an actual F2-90 Stellar Scout. Lieutenant Commander Goering, a veteran Navy Flight Instructor with weather-worn features and sharp eyes, met them at the landing pad where the sleek spacecraft waited.

“Gentlemen,” he said, running a hand along the Scout’s polished hull, “this beauty is going to become your second home. She’s built for deep space exploration and reconnaissance – the kind where you might not see another human face for months.”

Wade watched Jay’s eyes light up as they approached the vessel. The morning sun caught the Scout’s aerodynamic curves, highlighting its military precision while hinting at something more elegant.

Goering led them to a recessed panel in the hull. With a practiced gesture, he pressed his palm against the access pad, and a section of the hull smoothly retracted, revealing a compact lift system. “Primary access point,” he explained as they stepped inside. “Gets you directly to the main deck. There’s emergency access hatches too, but this is your day-to-day entry.”

The lift hummed softly as it carried them upward, depositing them just aft of the Central Command Station. “CCS is your nerve center,” Goering said, stepping into the cockpit. “Two-person crew configuration – pilot and nav/comms. Everything within arm’s reach, no wasted motion.”

“Twin VTOL engines,” he continued, gesturing to the holographic displays. “She’ll lift off and land smooth as silk on just about any terrain you can imagine. Those retractable landing struts aren’t just for show – they’ll adapt to everything from crystalline ice fields to volcanic rock.”

Moving aft, he opened a sealed compartment. “And here’s something you’ll want to get familiar with – stasis pods. Latest generation cryo-sleep systems. For those extra-long hauls where even Rangers need to conserve resources. Four pods, medical-grade monitoring systems. They’ll keep you fresh for the deep space legs of your mission.”

“Armament seems light,” Wade observed, noting the modest weapon systems on a nearby display.

Goering nodded. “She’s not built for slugging it out with hostiles. But don’t let that fool you – she’s got enough teeth to get you out of a pinch. Remember, your job is to observe and report, not pick fights.”

“What about communications range?” Jay asked, his technical curiosity evident.

Goering smiled. “Thought you’d ask. State-of-the-art microwave antenna array and military-grade encryption suite. You could probably call home from the edge of known space – assuming Command lets you.”

They explored the galley and common area, where clever storage solutions and transforming furniture showed the Scout’s dual nature as both military vessel and exploration craft. “Every cubic centimeter serves a purpose,” Goering explained. “Take the crew quarters – six individual berths, but they don’t feel cramped. The designers knew Rangers spend months out there. Had to make it livable.”

A narrow stairwell led them to the lower deck, where the lab and specimen storage spaces waited. “This is where the real science happens,” Goering said, gesturing to the advanced analysis equipment. “You’re not just Marines out there – you’re explorers.”

At last, they reached the rear cargo bay. Goering touched another control panel, and the massive rear ramp began to lower, hydraulics humming smoothly. Sunlight streamed in, illuminating a rugged Badger secured in its berth. “And here’s your ground transport,” he said, patting the vehicle. “Because sometimes the only way to explore is to get your boots dirty.”

Standing at the base of the ramp, looking back at the Scout, Wade felt a new appreciation for the vessel. Goering’s voice carried the weight of experience as he concluded, “The F2-90 isn’t the biggest or most powerful ship in the fleet. But for what you Rangers do – pushing the boundaries of known space, facing the unknown – there’s nothing better. Treat her right, and she’ll bring you home.”

Their transition from simulators to the actual F2-90 Stellar-Scout proved smoother than even their instructors anticipated. The countless hours spent in virtual training had built muscle memory that translated seamlessly to the real craft. Where most trainees required six weeks to achieve basic proficiency, Wade and Jay demonstrated advanced maneuvering capabilities in just three. Their natural synchronization in the cockpit drew attention from the senior instructors, who began using their flight recordings as teaching materials for other crews. The duo’s ability to anticipate each other’s actions and maintain perfect coordination during complex maneuvers spoke to something beyond mere technical skill – it was the kind of intuitive trust that couldn’t be taught, only earned through shared experiences both in combat and training.

The familiar had indeed become new again, transformed not by time or circumstance, but by the weight of purpose that now infused every action, every decision, every breath.

Romance and Revelations

The barracks’ overhead lights had dimmed to their night-cycle setting, casting long shadows across the titanium-alloy floor panels. Wade’s boots barely made a sound as he returned from his evening maintenance shift, mind still churning over the day’s training flights. He stopped short at the familiar cadence of a voice – soft, melodic, Japanese accent distinctly out of place in the utilitarian surroundings.

“I can’t say I miss all that adventure but I sure miss you,” Mayumi’s holographic message flickered in the dim light. “I even miss your terrible jokes.”

Wade froze, suddenly feeling like an intruder. Through the half-open door, he caught a glimpse of Jay sitting on his bunk, head bowed toward the projection, a smile playing at the corners of his mouth that Wade had never seen before. It wasn’t the practiced grin Jay wore during training or the fierce determination that emerged in combat – this was something entirely different, something private.

“I keep asking Commander Chen when our security status is going to be downgraded and I would be up for reassignment,” Mayumi continued, her translucent image seeming to glow with warmth. “She told me there’s no telling when, but…” She paused, her expression softening. “Just make sure you stay in one piece, okay? The stars aren’t quite as beautiful without you here to name all the constellations wrong.”

Wade backed away silently, his mind racing through calculations of a different sort. How long had this been going on? The Jay he knew from training was all precision and protocol – seeing this other side of him was like discovering a new dimension to a familiar star chart.

His thoughts shifted to Kristen. Could she still be waiting for him? Is there any possible way she saw through the ruse of him being dead? He had to believe that the promises they made to one another as they trusted God for their relationship had to be his resting place. He reminded himself; “Always.”

Hours later, in the quiet corner of the station’s observation deck, Wade found Jay staring out at Rinart 3’s three moons. The aurora painted sheets of green and purple across the star studded sky.

“So,” Wade said, settling against the railing. “You and Mayumi?”

Jay’s shoulders tensed for a moment before relaxing. He turned, and in the shifting light from the aurora, Wade could see both embarrassment and pride warring on his friend’s face. “After what you told me about her reassignment in the Delphi Quadrant, I tracked her down and sent her a message. Just to check in, you know? I know I shouldn’t be trying to connect with the security risk and all, but then…”

“One message became two, became twenty?” Wade finished, remembering his own fumbling attempts at trying to pace himself when he was dating Kristen, trying not to seem too obsessed.

“Something like that.” Jay’s fingers traced the handrail as he leaned toward the stars. “She understands things – not just the quantum mechanics she works with, but…” he struggled for words, unusual for someone so precise in the cockpit. “She gets what it means to be out here, on the edge of everything. To love the void as much as you fear it. And Wade, her relationship with Jesus has grown leaps and bounds. It’s very…attractive.”

Wade nodded, letting the silence stretch comfortably between them. He thought about their shared history – the terror of the Skravak ship, the grueling training that followed, sharing the gospel and leading her to Christ, the way life had carried them all in unexpected directions. Yet here they were, still finding new ways to surprise each other.

“You know what’s funny?” Jay said finally, his reflection overlapping with the stars beyond. “All our training, all the simulation hours, everything we’ve survived in combat… and sending that first message to her was still the scariest thing I’ve done since enlisting.”

Wade clapped his friend’s shoulder, feeling the familiar weight of their shared experiences and this new dimension of their friendship. “Well, for what it’s worth, now I know why your landing approaches have been a little off lately. Maybe you’re a little twitterpated?”

Jay’s laugh echoed into the darkness, genuine and unguarded. “Don’t you worry bro. Even twitterpated, I’m a better pilot than you.” Playfully punching Wade in the chest.

Jay’s expression turned serious. ‘Have you tried to contact Kristen at all? Since… you know.’

Wade’s shoulders slumped. ‘You know I can’t, Jay. Not with everything that’s happened. The security protocols are there for a reason.’

‘But surely there’s some way—’ Jay started.

‘No,’ Wade cut him off firmly, though his voice carried a weight of sadness. ‘I won’t put her at risk. Not even a chance of it. The conspiracy we uncovered… it runs deep. Until everything’s fully exposed and dealt with, contacting her would be selfish.’

Jay studied his friend’s face. ‘You really love her, don’t you?’

‘Yeah,’ Wade admitted quietly, flexing his prosthetic hand. ‘That’s why I have to protect her, even if it means staying away. But I haven’t lost hope. I’m trusting God’s timing on this one.’

‘Well,’ Jay said, bumping Wade’s shoulder with his own, ‘then I’ll keep praying. This isn’t the end of the story.'”

As they stood there, watching Rinart 3’s moons slowly set beneath the horizon, Wade realized that some of the most important discoveries in space weren’t made on distant planets among the stars. They happened in these quiet moments, when the Holy Spirit reminded you that even in the vastness of space, the human heart could still chart unexpected courses.

Exploration Training

The holographic alien landscape shimmered around them, so detailed that Wade could smell what seemed like rotting vegetation. The simulation had rendered a jungle world with triple-gravity and a toxic atmosphere – exactly the kind of environment Rangers were expected to handle. Sweat trickled down his spine inside the environment suit, each movement requiring conscious effort against the crushing gravitational pull.

“Contact, two o’clock,” Jay’s voice crackled through the comm, steady despite the strain. “Biological signature. Nothing in the database matches.”

Wade’s heads-up display highlighted the movement – something serpentine sliding through the phosphorescent underbrush. Their squad had already lost two holographic members to similar unknowns. The simulation was brutally effective at teaching survival priorities: analyze, adapt, or die.

“Hold position,” Wade commanded, forcing his breathing to steady as he activated his suit’s biological analysis suite. The crushing gravity made even the smallest movements exhaust precious oxygen reserves. “Running spectral analysis.”

The creature emerged into the clearing – a writhing mass of tentacles and what appeared to be photoreceptors. Wade’s scanner beeped a warning: highly acidic secretions detected. He remembered their xenobiology instructor’s words: “Out there, everything wants to kill you. Your job is to figure out how…before it succeeds.”

“Pattern analysis suggests predatory behavior,” Metro reported from his position, the words coming in short bursts as he fought against the gravity. “Similar to the Skravak Sliders we studied from the Cygnus sector.”

Jay had already adjusted his position, using the terrain to create a crossfire zone. Three months ago, he would have just opened fire. Now, he waited, gathering data. Rangers weren’t just Marines; they were explorers, scientists, and when necessary, executioners of hostile life forms.

“Acid-based neurotoxin from the twin venom glands nestled beneath its iridescent carapace, it projects with laser-like precision.” Wade announced on the comms, watching the creature’s movements through his scope. “Similar to the Skravak’s secondary defense tactics. Metro, remember the countermeasures we developed during our last dance at the Zoo?”

“Already on it.” Metro’s suit dispensed a stream of base chemicals, creating a protective barrier around their position. The training scenarios weren’t random – they built upon real experiences, forcing the Rangers to apply past lessons to new threats.

The creature lunged, faster than its mass suggested possible. Wade’s squad responded with surgical persision, their movements economic in the crushing gravity. Their coordinated response wasn’t just about survival – it was about data collection, threat assessment, and preservation of valuable xenobiological samples.

“Clear,” Jay called out as the holographic creature dissipated. “But we’ve got atmospheric degradation incoming. Looks like this planet’s sun is about to go nova.”

Wade checked his suit’s readings. They had seventeen minutes of oxygen remaining, a damaged sample collection unit, and five kilometers of hostile terrain between them and their extraction point. In other words, a typical day in Ranger training.

“Status check,” he ordered, already calculating their optimal route.

“Suit integrity at sixty percent,” Metro reported. “But I saved the biological samples.”

“Nav system’s glitching from magnetic interference,” Jay added. “Going to have to do this old school.”

Wade allowed himself a grim smile behind his faceplate. Three months ago, this scenario would have seemed impossible. Now it was just another challenge to overcome. “Metro, take center with the samples. Jay, take point and plot us a course using stellar positioning. I’ll watch our six.”

As they moved through the hostile landscape, Wade reflected on how far they’d come. Flight school had taught them to master their vessels, but exploration training was teaching them to master themselves. Every challenge forced them to combine their skills in new ways – Jay’s intuitive grasp of spatial navigation, Metro’s encyclopedic knowledge of xenobiology, Wade’s tactical expertise.

The extraction ship appeared as a distant speck in the purple sky, a testament to their successful navigation. As the simulation faded around them, Wade caught Jay’s eye. They didn’t need words to express their shared understanding: this wasn’t just training anymore. This was preparation for a future where humanity would need every skill they were learning, and probably a few they hadn’t imagined yet.

The instructors had a saying: “In space, you improvise, adapt, and overcome or… you die. Rangers are masters of the first three.” With each passing day, Wade understood that philosophy more deeply. They were trained to the hilt and ready to graduate. They had passed the most extreme military gauntlet the Confederation had to offer. They were qualified Deep Space Rangers.

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Spiraling Out of Control – #94

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be combining the gospels of Matthew and Mark to see the downward spiral of poor decisions. 

So let’s dive in.

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Matthew 14:3–12, Mark 6:17–29 

For Herod himself had ordered that John be arrested and bound and imprisoned, on account of Herodias, his brother Philip’s wife, whom Herod had married. For John had been telling Herod, “It is not lawful for you to have your brother’s wife!” So Herodias held a grudge against John and she and Herod wanted to kill him, but had been unable, because Herod was afraid of the people, because they regarded John as a prophet. So Herod feared John and protected him, knowing that he was a righteous and holy man and when he heard John’s words, he was greatly perplexed; yet he listened to him gladly.

But on Herod’s birthday, her opportunity arose. Herod held a banquet for his nobles and military commanders and the leading men of Galilee. When the daughter of Herodias came and danced, she pleased Herod and his guests, so much the king said to the girl, “Ask me for whatever you wish, and I will give it to you.” And he swore to her, “Whatever you ask of me, I will give you, up to half my kingdom!” Then she went out and asked her mother, “What should I request?” And her mother answered, “The head of John the Baptist.” At once the girl hurried back to the king with her request prompted by her mother,: “I want you to give me the head of John the Baptist on a platter immediately.”

The king was grieved and was consumed with sorrow, but because of his oaths and his guests, he did not want to refuse her and he ordered that her wish be granted and sent to have John beheaded in the prison. So without delay, the executioner went and beheaded John in the prison. The man brought John’s head on a platter and presented it to the girl, who gave it to her mother. Then John’s disciples came and took his body and buried it. And they went and informed Jesus.

My Thoughts

Herod and his wife are making one bad decision after another and each one leads to deeper adverse consequences. Here’s a list of errors they made;

  • Getting married (Herod married his brother’s wife while he was still alive contrary to Jewish law)
  • Not listening to John the Baptist and repenting
  • Having his step daughter “dance” in front of all these men
  • Promising to give the daughter a blank check (up to ½ the kingdom)
  • Not being willing to do the right thing because of his reputation
  • Not having the moral courage to deny a request fueled by revenge
  • Having an innocent man executed (murdered) in order to save face

Now that’s what I call “spiraling out of control” with bad decision making. But that’s exactly what our enemy wants to do to us. He wants to start a chain reaction of sin that ultimately leads to our complete destruction. But God has given us an off-ramp for this craziness;

No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it. (1 Corinthians 10:13)

As disciple-makers, our responsibility extends beyond merely teaching principles; we must also embody them. It’s important to share our weaknesses and failures with those we mentor, as well as to provide examples of how to take the “off-ramp” when faced with temptations. This approach fosters authenticity and encourages growth in those we guide.

My Story

I’ve probably told this story before but it fits so appropriately, I have to share it again.

I had been training Ranger students for 36 hours straight and was finally back at the camp. I was tired and just wanted to get some sleep. But as I jumped off a helicopter, I saw my Platoon Sergeant waiting for me on the landing zone and he didn’t look happy. “Sergeant Wood,” he motioned for me to join him. “Did you tell a Ranger student to throw away ammo?” On the defensive I immediately said “No.” He relaxed his tense expression and said “I knew you of all people wouldn’t do anything stupid like that!” 

Only one problem. I had done something stupid like that. I had just lied to my Platoon Sergeant. He continued, “Well go talk to the Captain and tell him what you told me.” And here’s where things started to “spiral out of control.” I could have taken the “off-ramp” right there. But no, I told my Captain the same lie and he sent me to the Battalion Commander. And you can see where this is going. I was spiraling up the chain of command and spiraling out of control with my sin. I was getting ready to crash and burn.

The next morning during my time with Jesus I was reading the Psalms and I read;

I said in my alarm, “All men are liars.”  Psalm 116:11 

That was enough to cause me to repent and I immediately went to my Battalion Commander and told him the truth. Then I worked my way back down the chain of command, confessing my sin and telling them the truth. I was given a Letter of Reprimand by my C.O. but that wasn’t the worst of it. After the formal reading of the LOR my Captain said; “I thought you were a Christian Sergeant Wood?” That stung more than anything else.

I share this story for two reasons. First, I want to be real and share my weaknesses and failures. And second, I want all of us to see how easy it is to spiral out of control if we don’t immediately take the off-ramp.

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application, here’s some ideas;

  • You and the people you’re mentoring memorize 1 Corinthians 10:13
  • Discuss the “Off Ramp.” What does this look like in some common temptations?
  • Share your weaknesses and failures with those you are discipling

Looking at both Herod’s tragic story and our personal experiences, we can see how a single poor choice can spiral into a tragic chain of consequences if we don’t take the “off-ramp” God always offers  through repentance. The key to avoiding such spirals lies in having the humility and courage to admit our mistakes early, turn back to truth, and accept the temporal consequences rather than compound our errors through pride or fear.

Espiral fuera de control – 94

¡Bienvenidos nuevamente! Hoy, combinaremos los evangelios de Mateo y Marcos para ver la espiral descendente de las malas decisiones.

Así que profundicemos.

Mateo 14:3-12, Marcos 6:17-29

Porque el mismo Herodes había ordenado que Juan fuera arrestado, atado y encarcelado, por causa de Herodías, la esposa de Felipe su hermano, con la cual Herodes se había casado. Porque Juan le decía a Herodes: «No te es lícito tener la esposa de tu hermano». Así que Herodías guardaba rencor contra Juan y ella y Herodes querían matarlo, pero no pudieron, porque Herodes tenía miedo del pueblo, porque éste consideraba a Juan un profeta. Por eso Herodes temía a Juan y lo protegía, sabiendo que era un hombre justo y santo. Cuando oyó las palabras de Juan, quedó muy perplejo; sin embargo, lo escuchó con gusto.

Pero el día del cumpleaños de Herodes, se le presentó la oportunidad. Herodes celebró un banquete para sus nobles, comandantes militares y los hombres principales de Galilea. La hija de Herodías llegó y danzó, y agradó a Herodes y a los invitados. El rey le dijo a la muchacha: «Pídeme lo que quieras y te lo daré». Y le juró: «Te daré todo lo que me pidas, hasta la mitad de mi reino». Ella salió y preguntó a su madre: «¿Qué quiero pedir?». Su madre le respondió: «La cabeza de Juan el Bautista». Inmediatamente la muchacha se apresuró a volver al rey y le dijo: «Quiero que me des en una bandeja la cabeza de Juan el Bautista».

El rey se entristeció y se entristeció mucho, pero a causa de sus juramentos y de los invitados, no quiso negarle nada y ordenó que se le concediera su deseo y mandó decapitar a Juan en la cárcel. El verdugo fue sin demora y decapitó a Juan en la cárcel. El hombre trajo la cabeza de Juan en una bandeja y se la presentó a la muchacha, quien se la dio a su madre. Entonces los discípulos de Juan fueron y tomaron el cuerpo y lo sepultaron. Luego fueron y se lo hicieron saber a Jesús.

Mis Pensamientos

Herodes y su esposa toman una mala decisión tras otra y cada una de ellas conduce a consecuencias adversas más profundas. Aquí hay una lista de errores que cometieron:

Casarse (Herodes se casó con la esposa de su hermano mientras aún estaba vivo en contra de la ley judía)

No escuchar a Juan el Bautista y arrepentirse

Hacer que su hijastra “baile” frente a todos estos hombres

Prometerle a la hija un cheque en blanco (hasta la mitad del reino)

No estar dispuesto a hacer lo correcto debido a su reputación

No tener el coraje moral para negar una solicitud impulsada por la venganza

Hacer que ejecuten (asesinen) a un hombre inocente para salvar las apariencias

Eso es lo que yo llamo “salir de control” con una mala toma de decisiones. Pero eso es exactamente lo que nuestro enemigo quiere hacernos. Quiere iniciar una reacción en cadena de pecado que, en última instancia, conduce a nuestra destrucción total. Pero Dios nos ha dado una salida para esta locura;

No os ha sobrevenido ninguna tentación que no sea común al hombre; Y fiel es Dios, que no os dejará ser tentados más de lo que podéis resistir, sino que dará también juntamente con la tentación la salida, para que podáis soportarla. (1 Corintios 10:13)

Como hacedores de discípulos, nuestra responsabilidad se extiende más allá de simplemente enseñar principios; también debemos encarnarlos. Es importante compartir nuestras debilidades y fracasos con aquellos a quienes guiamos, así como también dar ejemplos de cómo tomar la “rampa de salida” cuando nos enfrentamos a las tentaciones. Este enfoque fomenta la autenticidad y alienta el crecimiento en aquellos a quienes guiamos.

Mi Historia

Probablemente ya he contado esta historia antes, pero encaja tan bien que tengo que compartirla de nuevo.

Había estado entrenando a estudiantes de Rangers durante 36 horas seguidas y finalmente había regresado al campamento. Estaba cansado y solo quería dormir un poco. Pero cuando salté de un helicóptero, vi a mi sargento de pelotón esperándome en la zona de aterrizaje y no parecía feliz. “Sargento Wood”, me hizo un gesto para que me uniera a él. “¿Le dijiste a un estudiante de Ranger que tirara munición?” A la defensiva, dije inmediatamente “No”. Relajó su expresión tensa y dijo “¡Sabía que tú de todas las personas no harías algo tan estúpido como eso!”

Solo había un problema. Había hecho algo estúpido como eso. Acababa de mentirle a mi sargento de pelotón. Continuó: “Bueno, ve a hablar con el capitán y dile lo que me dijiste”. Y aquí es donde las cosas comenzaron a “salir de control”. Podría haber tomado la “rampa de salida” allí mismo. Pero no, le dije a mi capitán la misma mentira y él me envió al comandante del batallón. Y puedes ver a dónde va esto. Estaba subiendo en espiral por la cadena de mando y perdiendo el control con mi pecado. Me estaba preparando para estrellarme y arder.

A la mañana siguiente, durante mi tiempo con Jesús, estaba leyendo los Salmos y leí:

Dije alarmado: “Todos los hombres son mentirosos”. Salmo 116:11

Eso fue suficiente para hacerme arrepentir e inmediatamente fui a mi comandante del batallón y le dije la verdad. Luego volví a bajar por la cadena de mando, confesando mi pecado y diciéndoles la verdad. Mi oficial al mando me dio una carta de reprimenda, pero eso no fue lo peor. Después de la lectura formal de la carta de reprimenda, mi capitán dijo: “Pensé que eras cristiano, sargento Wood”. Eso me dolió más que cualquier otra cosa.

Comparto esta historia por dos razones. Primero, quiero ser real y compartir mis debilidades y fracasos. Y segundo, quiero que todos veamos lo fácil que es perder el control si no tomamos la salida inmediatamente.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es el momento de la aplicación. Aquí hay algunas ideas:

Usted y las personas a las que está asesorando deben memorizar 1 Corintios 10:13

Hablen sobre la “rampa de salida”. ¿Cómo se manifiesta esto en algunas tentaciones comunes?

Compartan sus debilidades y fracasos con aquellos a quienes están discipulando

Si analizamos la trágica historia de Herodes y nuestras experiencias personales, podemos ver cómo una sola mala decisión puede convertirse en una trágica cadena de consecuencias si no tomamos la “rampa de salida” que Dios siempre ofrece a través del arrepentimiento. La clave para evitar tales espirales radica en tener la humildad y el coraje de admitir nuestros errores pronto, volver a la verdad y aceptar las consecuencias temporales en lugar de agravar nuestros errores a través del orgullo o el miedo.

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