Champions of Forgiveness – #126

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Matthew 18:21-35

Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times! Because of this, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlements, a debtor was brought to him owing ten thousand talents. Since the man was unable to pay, the master ordered that he be sold to pay his debt, along with his wife and children and everything he owned. Then the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Have patience with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ His master had compassion on him, forgave his debt, and released him. But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii. He grabbed him and began to choke him, saying, ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ So his fellow servant fell down and begged him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you back.’ But he refused. Instead, he went and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay his debt. When his fellow servants saw what had happened, they were greatly distressed, and they went and recounted all of this to their master. Then the master summoned him and declared, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave all your debt because you begged me. Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant, just as I had on you?’ In anger his master turned him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should repay all that he owed. That is how My heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart.”

My Thoughts 

God’s expectations for us to be like Him are high, especially in the area of forgiveness. This exercise of imitation takes five steps to becoming a Champion of Forgiveness;

  1. Understand the righteousness and justice of God
  2. Understand how sinful we are in the eyes of God
  3. Experiencing the forgiveness of God
  4. Extending the same forgiveness to others
  5. Teach others to do the same

That’s the most logical process to follow when we stop and think about it. So why is it so hard to do? I like to say “Our forgetery is better than our memory.” We forget how far gone we were in our own sin. That applies to the adulterer as well as the teenager who stole candy from the convenient store. The penalty is the same, death. There may be degrees of sin but they all lead to the same destination. God is obligated by the demands of His character to levy justice. And yet, He is as equally obligated by that same character to love and provide a way for mercy and grace. (Notice I said He is obligated to His own character, not to us). The choice is our own to receive and respond appropriately in repentance and faith. But if our response is to take His mercy and grace for granted and not extend the same to others, we are in great danger of fooling ourselves into believing we are “owed” such a gift. We are mistakenly under the impression that God is obligated to us to extend His lovingkindness with no regard for our personal response to it.

As disciple-makers, we realize that being a disciple of Jesus means becoming like Him. We also realize that He is the model of our influence on others. He was the Champion of Forgiveness. We need to not only be champions like Him but to help those we disciple to do the same.

My Story

My mom and dad started out to be pretty evil people. The pain and suffering they inflicted on my brothers and me was cruel and perverted. And yet, when I came to Christ, I forgave them. My reasoning? I was a cruel and perverted person myself. As I became acquainted with the holiness of God, I saw the absolute disparity between Him and I. As I read in the Bible about the penalty for such rebellious acts, I became deathly afraid I would spend all eternity in hell separated from Him. And as I began to grasp His heart for me to turn to Him and be forgiven, like the first man in Jesus’ parable, I readily and eagerly received it. But unlike the man in the story, when I was given the opportunity to forgive others like my own mother and father, I lavished forgiveness on them the way Jesus lavished it on me. I’m no fool. I know a good thing when I see it.

My dad started following Jesus about the same time I did when I was twenty years old. It was easy to tell him “I forgive you.” However, I had been estranged from my mother since I was eight. When I was 29 I learned of her condition and that she was living in Fort Stockton, Texas. I was on my way to El Paso from Georgia and decided to stop along the way to tell her in person that I forgave her. I made a phone call to meet her at her “house.” To my surprise and shock, she was living in two single wide trailers crammed together in the middle of a junk yard. Her place was filthy and she was just as drunk as I remembered her being when she abandoned us four boys when I was eight years old. Instantly , memories of neglect and abuse came flooding back. I swallowed my pride and anger and told her, “I forgive you for everything you did to us.” It was awkward and the words didn’t come out the way I rehearsed but I felt an immediate sense of peace and hoped she did as well. I left thinking I would probably never see her again. 

Fast forward another 25 years. We had moved to San Antonio, Texas and somehow learned that my mom had moved just an hour and half away. When Deb and I decided to visit her, I was just as surprised as my first visit but this time in a good way. She was living in a clean apartment, she was sober, and although cancer had ravished her body, she was glowing with a sweet peaceful spirit. She had come to know Jesus 10 years after my last visit. When I asked her how she came to Christ she responded, “I was at the end of my rope and reading the Bible where Jesus is hanging on a cross and praying, ‘Father, forgive them for they know not what they are doing.’ I told God He was exactly right. I didn’t know what I was doing. I gave my life to Jesus Christ that day and He changed me.” My mom died a couple of months later but I was so glad she went knowing that both Jesus and I had forgiven her. 

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas;

  • Do an inventory of the people who have hurt or wronged you in some way. Forgive them from your heart.
  • Ask those you are discipling, “How are you doing at forgiving others.”
  • Answer these questions; “Can you forgive and forget? and “Can you forgive from your heart?”

Jesus makes it clear that forgiveness is not an option. We need to be Champions of Forgiveness like He is and teach others to do the same.

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Campeones del Perdón – #126

¡Bienvenidos de nuevo! Hoy analizaremos los Evangelios de Mateo para ver qué dice Jesús sobre el perdón de Dios y cuál debe ser nuestra respuesta como discípulos y hacedores de discípulos.

Comencemos.

Mateo 18:21-35

Entonces Pedro se acercó a Jesús y le preguntó: «Señor, ¿cuántas veces debo perdonar a mi hermano que peca contra mí? ¿Hasta siete veces?» Jesús respondió: «Te digo que no solo siete veces, sino ¡hasta setenta veces siete! Por eso el reino de los cielos es como un rey que quiso ajustar cuentas con sus siervos. Al comenzar a ajustar cuentas, le presentaron a un deudor que debía diez mil talentos. Como el hombre no podía pagar, el amo ordenó que lo vendieran para pagar su deuda, junto con su esposa, sus hijos y todo lo que tenía. Entonces el siervo cayó de rodillas ante él. «Ten paciencia conmigo», le rogó, «y te lo pagaré todo». Su amo, compadecido, le perdonó la deuda y lo soltó. Pero cuando ese siervo salió, encontró a uno de sus consiervos que le debía cien denarios. Lo agarró y comenzó a estrangularlo, diciendo: «¡Págame lo que me debes!». Entonces su consiervo se postró y le rogó: «Ten paciencia conmigo, y te lo pagaré». Pero él se negó. En cambio, fue y mandó meter al hombre en la cárcel hasta que pudiera pagar su deuda. Cuando su compañero Los siervos, al ver lo sucedido, se angustiaron mucho y fueron a contarle todo esto a su amo. Entonces el amo lo mandó llamar y le dijo: «¡Siervo malvado! Te perdoné toda la deuda porque me lo rogaste. ¿No debías haberte compadecido de tu compañero, como yo lo hice contigo?». Enfurecido, su amo lo entregó a los verdugos para que lo torturaran hasta que pagara todo lo que debía. Así les tratará mi Padre celestial a cada uno de ustedes, a menos que perdonen de corazón a su hermano.

Mis Pensamientos

Dios espera mucho de nosotros que seamos como Él, especialmente en cuanto al perdón. Este ejercicio de imitación consta de cinco pasos para convertirnos en un Campeón del Perdón:

  • Comprender la rectitud y la justicia de Dios
  • Comprender cuán pecadores somos a los ojos de Dios
  • Experimentar el perdón de Dios
  • Ofrecer el mismo perdón a los demás
  • Enseñar a otros a hacer lo mismo

Ese es el proceso más lógico a seguir cuando lo pensamos. Entonces, ¿por qué es tan difícil? Me gusta decir: «El olvido es mejor que la memoria». Olvidamos lo profundo que estábamos en nuestro propio pecado. Esto aplica tanto al adúltero como al adolescente que robó dulces de la tienda. La pena es la misma: la muerte. Puede haber grados de pecado, pero todos conducen al mismo destino. Dios está obligado por las exigencias de su carácter a impartir justicia. Y, sin embargo, está igualmente obligado por ese mismo carácter a amar y a proveer un camino para la misericordia y la gracia. (Observen que dije que Él está obligado a su propio carácter, no a nosotros). Es nuestra decisión recibir y responder apropiadamente con arrepentimiento y fe. Pero si nuestra respuesta es dar por sentado su misericordia y gracia y no extenderlas a los demás, corremos el gran peligro de engañarnos creyendo que se nos “debe” tal don. Erróneamente, creemos que Dios está obligado a extender su bondad amorosa sin importar nuestra respuesta personal.

Como hacedores de discípulos, comprendemos que ser discípulos de Jesús significa asemejarnos a Él. También comprendemos que Él es el modelo de nuestra influencia en los demás. Él fue el Campeón del Perdón. Necesitamos no solo ser campeones como Él, sino también ayudar a quienes discipulamos a hacer lo mismo.

Mi Historia

Mis padres al principio fueron personas bastante malvadas. El dolor y el sufrimiento que nos infligieron a mis hermanos y a mí fue cruel y perverso. Sin embargo, cuando llegué a Cristo, los perdoné. ¿Mi razonamiento? Yo mismo era una persona cruel y pervertida. Al conocer la santidad de Dios, vi la absoluta disparidad entre Él y yo. Al leer en la Biblia sobre el castigo por tales actos de rebeldía, me entró un miedo terrible de pasar la eternidad en el infierno, separado de Él. Y al comprender su deseo de que me volviera a Él y fuera perdonado, como el primer hombre de la parábola de Jesús, lo acepté con entusiasmo. Pero a diferencia del hombre de la historia, cuando tuve la oportunidad de perdonar a otros, como a mi madre y a mi padre, los perdoné generosamente como Jesús me lo hizo a mí. No soy un necio. Reconozco algo bueno cuando lo veo.

Mi padre empezó a seguir a Jesús casi al mismo tiempo que yo, cuando tenía veinte años. Fue fácil decirle “te perdono”. Sin embargo, había estado distanciado de mi madre desde los ocho años. A los 29, me enteré de su condición y de que vivía en Fort Stockton, Texas. Iba de camino a El Paso desde Georgia y decidí hacer una parada en el camino para decirle en persona que la perdonaba. La llamé para encontrarme con ella en su “casa”. Para mi sorpresa y conmoción, vivía en dos caravanas individuales apiñadas en medio de un desguace. Su casa estaba sucia y ella estaba tan borracha como recordaba que estaba cuando nos abandonó a los cuatro, cuando yo tenía ocho años. Al instante, los recuerdos de abandono y abuso me invadieron. Me tragué el orgullo y la ira y le dije: “Te perdono por todo lo que nos hiciste”. Fue incómodo y las palabras no salieron como las había ensayado, pero sentí una paz inmediata y esperé que a ella también. Me fui pensando que probablemente no la volvería a ver.

Veinticinco años después. Nos mudamos a San Antonio, Texas, y de alguna manera nos enteramos de que mi mamá se había mudado a solo una hora y media de distancia. Cuando Deb y yo decidimos visitarla, me sorprendí tanto como en mi primera visita, pero esta vez para bien. Vivía en un apartamento limpio, estaba sobria y, aunque el cáncer la había devastado, irradiaba un espíritu dulce y apacible. Había conocido a Jesús 10 años después de mi última visita. Cuando le pregunté cómo llegó a Cristo, respondió: «Estaba al límite de mis fuerzas, leyendo la Biblia donde Jesús está colgado en una cruz y orando: ‘Padre, perdónalos, porque no saben lo que hacen’. Le dije a Dios que tenía toda la razón. No sabía lo que hacía. Le entregué mi vida a Jesucristo ese día y Él me cambió». Mi mamá falleció un par de meses después, pero me alegré mucho de que fuera sabiendo que tanto Jesús como yo la habíamos perdonado.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es momento de aplicar. Aquí tienes algunas ideas:

  • Haz un inventario de las personas que te han herido o agraviado de alguna manera. Perdónalas de corazón.
  • Pregunta a quienes estás discipulando: “¿Cómo te va perdonando a los demás?”.
  • Responde estas preguntas: “¿Puedes perdonar y olvidar?” y “¿Puedes perdonar de corazón?”.

Jesús deja claro que el perdón no es una opción. Necesitamos ser campeones del perdón como él y enseñar a otros a hacer lo mismo.

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Confronting Correctly – #125

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Matthew 18:15–20

If your brother sins against you, go and confront him privately. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’ If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, regard him as you would a pagan or a tax collector.

Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. Again, I tell you truly that if two of you on the earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by My Father in heaven. For where two or three gather together in My name, there am I with them.”

My Thoughts 

A big part of making disciples is identifying errors and correcting them. Now we live in an age where any confrontation is considered a personal assault. We are so adverse to correction we automatically whip out the “judgment card.” But is that wise? Aren’t we just cutting off our nose to spite our face when we allow no one to critique our actions or even our motives? And as disciple-makers, we are the ones doing the correcting, making the process even more arduous.

Part of our sensitivity to correcting and being corrected is that we’ve experienced some horrible examples of a rebuke or admonition. We were embarrassed as children or young adults. We’ve felt the sting of false accusation when we were trying to do something good. Or our motives were called into question when in fact we had very good reasons for our actions. And when we tried to admonish someone in the gentlest possible way, World War III broke out. Yes, we’ve all experienced the crushing blow of careless correction or backlash from trying to help. But should we throw the baby out with the bathwater since we’ve been wounded?

The fact of the matter is that we all desperately need people in our lives to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). We need someone to tell the Emperor (us and the men and women we disciple) that he has no clothes on. But there is a way to go about doing that and Jesus gives us a starting point for correcting correctly. He outlines the following steps perfectly. (Of course, we would expect nothing less from Jesus).  

  1. Confront in private – Go to your brother alone
  2. Confront with two or three – Bring others that care about the brother’s well being
  3. Confront in the family of God – Bring the family into the matter to prompt repentance

Now this is just one of many pointers on how to correct someone. We will find many more in Jesus’ teaching and Scripture. As we keep making disciples and guiding people in the Way, we need to be on the look out for other tips to help people adjust and align their lives with the Master’s.

Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But deceitful are the kisses of an enemy. (Proverbs 27:6)

My Story

I have been corrected many times in my lifetime. And as mentioned before sometimes in a “not so loving” manner. But I can point to three very critical seasons in life when I was corrected and it made significant changes, conforming me more closely with the image of Christ.

What is that? – I was disgusted with the way I was awarded an Army medal for performance and my mentor asked this question. I answered it was an Army Commendation Medal and they had scratched the previous owner’s name off the back. It was someone else’s medal! He then told me it was going to go the way of all things temporal and I had a pride problem. From that point on I started thinking about what was eternal versus temporal. 

What does that have to do with Jesus? – Again my mentor asked this question after I had shared some fancy theological hobbyhorse. The question caught me off guard and made me more than just a little angry. But after some marinating from the Holy Spirit I got the point. From that time on I made Jesus not only the center of my ministry but He would become the primary object of my loyalty and affection. 

When was the last time you shared the gospel? – I was in a meeting where the guest speaker asked this question in an innocent and gentle manner. Once again the Holy Spirit took my embarrassment and anger and flipped it on its head. That question, once I realized its weight, formed a conviction to share the gospel often and with a passion that communicated grace and truth.

Questions are a huge help for beginning the conversation on subjects that can be hard and confrontational. God the Father actually asked Adam and Eve four questions when confronting them in the garden. The Omniscient asking questions! Now there’s a lesson! 

Confrontation is not only potential, it’s actually healthy when done correctly. I am so glad someone loved me enough to confront me on my errors and do it in such a way that I was able to receive it.

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas;

  • Think about some recent conflicts you’ve had with people. Did it follow Jesus’ three step process? Were there questions asked to bring clarity?
  • Teach those you are discipling Jesus’ three step process for confrontation and have a discussion on the topic.
  • Do a Bible study on the “Questions of God.”

No one likes confrontation but it is an absolute necessity for spiritual growth. When it’s done correctly it can actually bring restoration and peace. Let’s follow Jesus’ instructions and example on how to handle confrontation. 

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Confrontando correctamente – #125

¡Bienvenido de nuevo! Hoy miraremos el Evangelio de Matthew para ver qué dice Jesús sobre cómo corregir a alguien que está en error.

Así que comencemos.

Mateo 18:15–20

Si tu hermano peca contra ti, ve y confréntalo en privado. Si te escucha, te has ganado a tu hermano. Pero si no escucha, lleva uno o dos otros, para que “cada asunto pueda establecerse por el testimonio de dos o tres testigos”. Si se niega a escucharlos, cuéntelo a la iglesia. Y si se niega a escuchar incluso a la Iglesia, considerelo como lo haría con un pagano o un recaudador de impuestos.

Verdaderamente te digo, lo que sea que te unas a la tierra estará atado en el cielo, y lo que pierdas en la tierra se desgarrará en el cielo. Una vez más, te digo realmente que si dos de ustedes en la tierra están de acuerdo en cualquier cosa que pidas, mi Padre lo hará en el cielo. Para donde dos o tres se reúnen en mi nombre, estoy con ellos ”.

Mis Pensamientos

Una gran parte de hacer discípulos es identificar errores y corregirlos. Ahora vivimos en una época en la que cualquier confrontación se considera un asalto personal. Somos tan adversos a la corrección que eliminamos automáticamente la “tarjeta de juicio”. ¿Pero eso es sabio? ¿No estamos simplemente cortándonos la nariz para impedir nuestra cara cuando no permitimos que nadie critique nuestras acciones o incluso nuestros motivos? Y como creadores de discípulos, nosotros somos los que corremos, lo que hace que el proceso sea aún más arduo.

Parte de nuestra sensibilidad a corregir y corregir es que hemos experimentado algunos ejemplos horribles de una reprimenda o advertencia. Estábamos avergonzados como niños o adultos jóvenes. Hemos sentido el aguijón de la falsa acusación cuando estábamos tratando de hacer algo bueno. O nuestros motivos fueron cuestionados cuando, de hecho, teníamos muy buenas razones para nuestras acciones. Y cuando tratamos de amonestar a alguien de la manera más gentil posible, estalló la Segunda Guerra Mundial. Sí, todos hemos experimentado el golpe aplastante de la corrección descuidada o la reacción violenta al tratar de ayudar. ¿Pero deberíamos tirar al bebé con el agua del baño desde que hemos sido heridos?

El hecho es que todos necesitamos desesperadamente personas en nuestras vidas para decir la verdad en el amor (Efesios 4:15). Necesitamos a alguien que le diga al Emperador (nosotros y los hombres y mujeres que discipulamos) que él no tiene ropa. Pero hay una manera de hacer eso y Jesús nos da un punto de partida para corregir correctamente. Él describe los siguientes pasos perfectamente. (Por supuesto, no esperaríamos nada menos de Jesús).

Confrontado en privado – ve a tu hermano solo

Confrontar con dos o tres: traiga a otros que se preocupen por el bienestar del hermano

Confrontar en la familia de Dios: traiga a la familia al asunto para provocar arrepentimiento

Ahora, este es solo uno de los muchos consejos sobre cómo corregir a alguien. Encontraremos muchos más en la enseñanza y las Escrituras de Jesús. Mientras seguimos haciendo discípulos y guiando a las personas en el camino, debemos estar atentos a otros consejos para ayudar a las personas a ajustar y alinear sus vidas con la maestría.

Los fieles son las heridas de un amigo, pero los besos de un enemigo son los besos de un enemigo. (Proverbios 27: 6)

Mi Historia

Me han corregido muchas veces en mi vida. Y como se mencionó antes a veces de una manera “no tan amorosa”. Pero puedo señalar tres temporadas muy críticas en la vida cuando fui corregido e hizo cambios significativos, ajustándome más estrechamente con la imagen de Cristo.

¿Qué es eso? – Estaba disgustado con la forma en que me otorgaron una medalla del Ejército por su desempeño y mi mentor hizo esta pregunta. Respondí que era una medalla de elogio del Ejército y habían arañado el nombre del propietario anterior de la parte posterior. ¡Era la medalla de otra persona! Luego me dijo que iba a seguir el camino de todas las cosas temporales y que tenía un problema de orgullo. A partir de ese momento comencé a pensar en lo que era eterno versus temporal.

¿Qué tiene eso que ver con Jesús? – Una vez más, mi mentor hizo esta pregunta después de haber compartido un elegante caballo de pasatiempo teológico. La pregunta me tomó por sorpresa y me hizo más que un poco enojado. Pero después de marinar del Espíritu Santo, obtuve el punto. A partir de ese momento hice a Jesús no solo el centro de mi ministerio, sino que él se convertiría en el objeto principal de mi lealtad y afecto.

¿Cuándo fue la última vez que compartiste el Evangelio? – Estaba en una reunión donde el orador invitado hizo esta pregunta de una manera inocente y gentil. Una vez más, el Espíritu Santo tomó mi vergüenza y ira y la volteó sobre su cabeza. Esa pregunta, una vez que me di cuenta de su peso, formó una convicción para compartir el evangelio a menudo y con una pasión que comunicaba la gracia y la verdad.

Las preguntas son una gran ayuda para comenzar la conversación sobre temas que pueden ser difíciles y confrontativos. Dios, el Padre en realidad le hizo cuatro preguntas a Adán y Eva al confrontarlas en el jardín. ¡El omnitiant haciendo preguntas! ¡Ahora hay una lección!

La confrontación no es solo potencial, en realidad es saludable cuando se hace correctamente. Estoy muy contento de que alguien me amara lo suficiente como para enfrentarme en mis errores y hacerlo de tal manera que pude recibirlo.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es el momento de la aplicación. Aquí hay algunas ideas;

Piense en algunos conflictos recientes que ha tenido con la gente. ¿Siguió el proceso de tres pasos de Jesús? ¿Se hicieron preguntas para traer claridad?

Enseñe a aquellos que está disciplinando el proceso de tres pasos de Jesús para la confrontación y tenga una discusión sobre el tema.

Haga un estudio bíblico sobre las “preguntas de Dios”.

A nadie le gusta la confrontación, pero es una necesidad absoluta para el crecimiento espiritual. Cuando se hace correctamente, en realidad puede traer restauración y paz. Sigamos las instrucciones y el ejemplo de Jesús sobre cómo manejar la confrontación.

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The Bottleneck to Ministry – #122

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be looking at the Gospels of Mark and Luke to see how Jesus addressed trying to protect the ministry with restrictions and centralization.

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Mark 9:38-41, Luke 9:49–50

John said to Him, “Teacher, Master, we saw someone else driving out demons in Your name, and we tried to stop him, because he does not accompany us.” “Do not stop him,” Jesus replied. “For no one who performs a miracle in My name can turn around and speak evil of Me. For whoever is not against us is for us and whoever is not against you is for you. Indeed, if anyone gives you even a cup of water because you bear the name of Christ, truly I tell you, he will never lose his reward.

My Thoughts 

The clique had formed. “If you ain’t part of our little group, you don’t get to play.” Sounds pretty immature doesn’t it? And yet, like John and his companions, we do it all the time. I call it the “curse of centralization.” In an effort to protect and preserve we start to narrow the “who can and who can’t” circle. 

Now don’t get me wrong. I like the fact that we have a centralized driver’s training and license distribution system (if you have driven in other countries, you know what I mean). I’m also glad we don’t just let any old Joe perform brain surgeries. So there’s a place for qualifications, restrictions, and vetting. This all comes under the desire to protect people and therefore we centralize. 

But in Christendom we have taken it way too far. I call them bottlenecks to the gospel (and watch out, I’m about to step on some toes). The first is “who can and who can’t share the gospel.” Don’t laugh, I’ve actually heard people say that it’s the pastor’s job and anyone else, well, they’re just not qualified. The problem is, we are all commanded to share the gospel (Matthew 28:18-20, Mark 16:15).

Two more are “who can and who can’t” baptize and serve the Lord’s supper. We are told you have to have certain credentials to do either one of these. Really? Where in the Bible does it say that? First, we are again commanded to baptize. The great commission informs us that we are to make disciples. This means making disciples by going, teaching all of His commands, AND baptizing. Have you ever heard a preacher say “Only obey ¾ of the Great Commission but leave the baptisms to me.” I bet you have, in so many words, you just might be recognizing it for the first time. 

And what about the Lord’s supper, communion? Who says you can’t remember Jesus as a family around the dinner table or as a group of normal everyday disciples enjoying a sunset on the beach. We do see it’s a serious offence to abuse the Lord’s Supper (1 Corinthians 11:17-34). Some people were even dying as a result of their misconduct. So does that give us a reason to ratchet down and make one person the “communion expert” to protect the poor ignorant people from killing themselves? I don’t think so!

Ananias and Sapphira died when they abused the spiritual discipline of giving. Why don’t we save the people from themselves by having the pastor practice all the charity? If I’m sounding a bit snarky it’s because I’m terribly disturbed by the bottleneck we’ve created for the gospel and ministry for the sake of protecting it. These are all moves to “protect” the sanctity of the spiritual discipline. Protection and restriction are not the answer, education and training are.

My Story

I am a big champion of the Priesthood of the Believer (1 Peter 2:9). I think we should be training people to do the ministry and not outsourcing it to paid professionals. Once upon a time I was a paid professional and was the very bottleneck I just spoke about. But three things have compelled me to change. The example of Jesus, the Scriptures, and the immense need for laborers to reach the world for Christ. 

I see Jesus delegating elements of ministry to men that the “paid professional” of the day would never let do the ministry. By John chapter 4, the disciples were doing all the baptisms. By Matthew 9 and Luke 9 they were healing the sick and casting out demons. Yes, Jesus modeled, taught, and trained these men (and women) but He also deployed them pretty quickly. And remember these weren’t the sharpest knives in the drawer and one of them wasn’t even in the kingdom.

From Acts it’s pretty evident that normal everyday disciples were sharing the gospel, sharing the Lord’s supper, and even being missionaries (Acts 2:46; 8:12; 11:19-21). When Luke talks about the gospel spreading so rapidly in certain regions it was not because Paul spoke to every person in Asia. It was because the residents of Asia took the ball and ran with it (Acts 19:10).

The job is too big and too important to cut out the major workforce needed to reach every tribe, tongue, and nation with the gospel. There’s just too much work to do to not train every single man and woman, boy and girl to make disciples and be the church to the best of their abilities. We need every believer putting their hands to the plow to advance the kingdom of God and complete the Great Commission. I’m pretty passionate about this, can you tell?

The answer to protecting the ministry is not restriction and centralization. The answer is good training and decentralization. 

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas;

My brothers and sisters, let’s quit bottling up the ministry with restrictions and let every believer share the good news and make disciples. Train ‘em up, send ‘em out, and watch God’s kingdom grow like the mustard seed!

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El Obstáculo del Ministerio – #122

¡Bienvenidos de nuevo! Hoy analizaremos los Evangelios de Marcos y Lucas para ver cómo Jesús abordó el intento de proteger el ministerio con restricciones y centralización.

Comencemos.

Marcos 9:38-41, Lucas 9:49-50

Juan le dijo: «Maestro, Maestro, vimos a otro expulsando demonios en tu nombre, y tratamos de impedírselo, porque no viene con nosotros». Jesús respondió: «No se lo impidan. Porque nadie que haga un milagro en mi nombre puede volverse atrás y hablar mal de mí. Porque el que no está contra nosotros, está con nosotros, y el que no está contra ustedes, está con ustedes. De hecho, cualquiera que les dé aunque sea un vaso de agua por el hecho de llevar el nombre de Cristo, de cierto les digo que no perderá su recompensa».

Mis Pensamientos

Se había formado la camarilla. «Si no formas parte de nuestro grupito, no tienes derecho a participar». Suena bastante inmaduro, ¿verdad? Y, sin embargo, al igual que John y sus compañeros, lo hacemos constantemente. Yo lo llamo la «maldición de la centralización». En un esfuerzo por proteger y preservar, empezamos a reducir el círculo de «quién puede y quién no».

No me malinterpreten. Me gusta que tengamos un sistema centralizado de formación y distribución de licencias de conducir (si han conducido en otros países, saben a qué me refiero). También me alegra que no dejemos que cualquiera realice neurocirugías. Así que hay lugar para requisitos, restricciones y verificaciones. Todo esto se enmarca en el deseo de proteger a la gente y, por lo tanto, centralizamos.

Pero en la cristiandad lo hemos llevado demasiado lejos. Yo los llamo cuellos de botella para el evangelio (y cuidado, estoy a punto de pisar algunos callos). El primero es «quién puede y quién no puede compartir el evangelio». No se rían, de hecho he escuchado a gente decir que es trabajo del pastor y que cualquier otra persona, bueno, simplemente no está calificada. El problema es que a todos se nos manda compartir el evangelio (Mateo 28:18-20, Marcos 16:15).

Dos más son “quién puede y quién no puede” bautizar y servir la Santa Cena. Se nos dice que hay que tener ciertas credenciales para hacer cualquiera de estas dos cosas. ¿En serio? ¿Dónde dice eso en la Biblia? Primero, se nos manda de nuevo bautizar. La Gran Comisión nos informa que debemos hacer discípulos. Esto significa hacer discípulos yendo, enseñando todos sus mandamientos y bautizando. ¿Alguna vez han escuchado a un predicador decir: “Solo obedezcan tres cuartas partes de la Gran Comisión, pero déjenme los bautismos a mí”? Apuesto a que sí, con tantas palabras que quizás lo estén reconociendo por primera vez.

¿Y qué hay de la Santa Cena, la comunión? ¿Quién dice que no se puede recordar a Jesús como una familia alrededor de la mesa o como un grupo de discípulos comunes y corrientes disfrutando de un atardecer en la playa? Vemos que abusar de la Cena del Señor es una ofensa grave (1 Corintios 11:17-34). Algunas personas incluso morían como resultado de su mala conducta. Entonces, ¿nos da eso razón para reducir la responsabilidad y convertir a una persona en el “experto en la comunión” para proteger a los pobres ignorantes de suicidarse? ¡No lo creo!

Ananías y Safira murieron cuando abusaron de la disciplina espiritual de dar. ¿Por qué no salvamos a la gente de sí misma haciendo que el pastor practique toda la caridad? Si sueno un poco sarcástico es porque me preocupa terriblemente el cuello de botella que hemos creado para el evangelio y el ministerio con el fin de protegerlos. Todas estas son medidas para “proteger” la santidad de la disciplina espiritual. La protección y la restricción no son la solución; la educación y la capacitación sí lo son.

Mi Historia

Soy un gran defensor del Sacerdocio del Creyente (1 Pedro 2:9). Creo que deberíamos capacitar a personas para ejercer el ministerio y no subcontratarlo a profesionales. Hubo un tiempo en que yo era un profesional remunerado y era precisamente el cuello de botella del que acabo de hablar. Pero tres cosas me han impulsado a cambiar: el ejemplo de Jesús, las Escrituras y la inmensa necesidad de obreros que alcancen al mundo para Cristo.

Veo a Jesús delegando elementos del ministerio a hombres que los “profesionales remunerados” de la época jamás permitirían. Para Juan capítulo 4, los discípulos ya realizaban todos los bautismos. Para Mateo 9 y Lucas 9, sanaban a los enfermos y expulsaban demonios. Sí, Jesús modeló, enseñó y capacitó a estos hombres (y mujeres), pero también los desplegó con bastante rapidez. Y recuerden, estos no eran los cuchillos más afilados del cajón, y uno de ellos ni siquiera estaba en el reino.

De Hechos se desprende claramente que discípulos comunes y corrientes compartían el evangelio, la Santa Cena e incluso eran misioneros (Hechos 2:46; 8:12; 11:19-21). Cuando Lucas habla de la rápida propagación del evangelio en ciertas regiones, no fue porque Pablo hablara a todos los habitantes de Asia, sino porque los habitantes de Asia se pusieron manos a la obra (Hechos 19:10).

La tarea es demasiado grande e importante como para prescindir de la mano de obra necesaria para alcanzar a cada tribu, lengua y nación con el evangelio. Hay demasiado trabajo por hacer como para no capacitar a cada hombre, mujer, niño y niña para hacer discípulos y ser la iglesia al máximo de sus capacidades. Necesitamos que cada creyente ponga manos a la obra para avanzar el reino de Dios y completar la Gran Comisión. Me apasiona mucho esto, ¿se nota?

La respuesta para proteger el ministerio no es la restricción ni la centralización. La respuesta es una buena capacitación y la descentralización.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es momento de aplicar. Aquí les dejo algunas ideas:

Realicen un estudio bíblico sobre la diferencia entre el sacerdocio del antiguo pacto y el obrero del nuevo pacto.

Vean mi Parábola de los Pozos (Hagan clic en el enlace o busquen esto en YouTube).

MAWL los Discípulos: Modelar, Ayudar, Vigilar y Lanzar

Hermanos y hermanas, dejemos de limitar el ministerio y dejemos que cada creyente comparta las buenas nuevas y haga discípulos. ¡Formen a los creyentes, envíenlos y vean cómo el reino de Dios crece como la semilla de mostaza!

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Greatness is Not the Problem – #121

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be looking at the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke to see how Jesus addressed those who wanted to be great.

So let’s get started.

(Click here to get a copy of the Gospel Sync document) 

Matthew 18:1–5, Mark 9:33–37, Luke 9:46–48

An argument started among the disciples as to which of them would be the greatest. They came to Capernaum and while Jesus was in the house, He asked them, “What were you discussing on the way?” But they were silent, for on the way they had been arguing about which of them was the greatest. Then the disciples asked Jesus, “Who then is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” But Jesus, knowing the thoughts of their hearts, sat down and called the Twelve and said, “If anyone wants to be first, he must be the last of all and the servant of all.”

Jesus invited a little child to stand beside Him and taking the child in His arms, He said to them, “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes a little child like this in My name welcomes Me, and whoever welcomes Me welcomes not only Me, but the One who sent Me.” For whoever is the least among all of you, he is the greatest.”

My Thoughts 

Greatness is not the problem, it’s how we strive to get there. The problem with the Twelve is that they were so typically like the world, they were actually going the wrong direction. This is part of Jesus’ “Right Side Up” theology. 

“If anyone wants to be first, he must be the last of all and the servant of all.” 

The world has it upside down. According to the world you have to scrape, and scratch, and scheme your way to greatness. Jesus says you have to serve, submit, and sacrifice your way to greatness. 

As disciple-makers we will struggle with the desire ourselves and deal with this ambition in those we mentor. Notice Jesus didn’t squelch the desire to be great. He just showed them the right way to get there. We can unintentionally wield the heavy mallet of criticism, stifling ambition and dampening the zeal of Jesus’ disciples to excel and accomplish great things for God. We don’t want to turn the disciples of Jesus into a bunch of wet noodles. Instead, we should channel their passion and zeal, guiding them to pursue greatness through humble service, steadfast submission, and sacrificial love, as Jesus modeled, so they can boldly impact the world for His glory.

My Story

I like reading military history and after several years of analyzing conflict through the lens of some great writers I’ve come to realize that there are always two wars being fought simultaneously. The first is the war itself and the second is the internal conflict among generals within their own ranks. Usually this strife is associated with pride, ambition, and an intense desire to be recognized.  I think we see the same thing in the church; the spiritual battle and the battles amongst ourselves. I can think of several ways to avoid this inner squabbling:

  • Acknowledge we only have one King – Jesus is our ultimate authority and we do what He tells us to do.
  • Acknowledge the King has given different orders to different commanders – Stay in our lane and appreciate and support those in a different lane
  • Acknowledge our primary role as a servant of the King and others – Look for ways to ensure success not only of what we are doing but also the enterprise of others
  • Acknowledge that we can’t do it all and the mission can’t be accomplished without interdependence on others – We are part of a body with various gifts
  • Acknowledging that our individual contribution is just as important as others – We should throw our full weight behind whatever we are called to do for the sake of the whole

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas;

  • Are you striving for greatness…the way Jesus describes?
  • Teach and model servanthood for those you are discipling. 
  • Do a Bible study with those you are discipling on how Jesus served people (and how people expected Him to serve them).

So, let’s keep our hearts set on true greatness, the kind Jesus taught—humble service and sacrificial love. By channeling our zeal to lift others up, we’ll shine bright for His glory and make a real difference in this world.

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La grandeza no es el problema – #121

¡Bienvenidos de nuevo! Hoy analizaremos los Evangelios de Mateo, Marcos y Lucas para ver cómo Jesús se dirigió a quienes querían ser grandes.

Comencemos.

Mateo 18:1-5, Marcos 9:33-37, Lucas 9:46-48

Se suscitó una discusión entre los discípulos sobre quién de ellos sería el mayor. Llegaron a Capernaúm y, mientras Jesús estaba en casa, les preguntó: «¿Qué discutían por el camino?». Pero guardaron silencio, pues durante el camino habían estado discutiendo sobre quién de ellos sería el mayor. Entonces los discípulos le preguntaron a Jesús: «¿Quién es, pues, el mayor en el reino de los cielos?». Pero Jesús, conociendo sus pensamientos, se sentó, llamó a los Doce y les dijo: «Si alguno quiere ser el primero, que sea el último de todos y el servidor de todos». Jesús invitó a un niño pequeño a ponerse de pie junto a él y, tomándolo en brazos, les dijo: «Les aseguro que si no cambian y se hacen como niños pequeños, no entrarán en el reino de los cielos. Por lo tanto, el que se humille como este niño pequeño, ése es el mayor en el reino de los cielos. Y el que reciba a un niño pequeño como este en mi nombre, me recibe a mí; y el que me recibe a mí, no solo me recibe a mí, sino también al que me envió». Porque el más pequeño entre todos ustedes, ése es el mayor.

Mis Pensamientos

La grandeza no es el problema, sino cómo nos esforzamos por alcanzarla. El problema con los Doce es que, típicamente como el mundo, iban en la dirección equivocada. Esto forma parte de la teología del “Correcto”.

“Si alguno quiere ser el primero, que sea el último de todos y el servidor de todos”.

El mundo está patas arriba. Según el mundo, hay que luchar, arañar y maquinar para alcanzar la grandeza. Jesús dice que hay que servir, someterse y sacrificar para alcanzarla.

Como hacedores de discípulos, lucharemos con ese deseo y lidiaremos con esta ambición en aquellos a quienes asesoramos. Observen que Jesús no aplastó el deseo de ser grande. Simplemente les mostró el camino correcto para lograrlo. Sin querer, podemos usar el mazo de madera de la crítica, sofocando la ambición y apagando el celo de los discípulos de Jesús por sobresalir y lograr grandes cosas para Dios. No queremos convertir a los discípulos de Jesús en un montón de fideos mojados. En cambio, debemos canalizar su pasión y celo, guiándolos a buscar la grandeza a través del servicio humilde, la sumisión firme y el amor sacrificial, como lo modeló Jesús, para que puedan impactar con valentía el mundo para Su gloria.

Mi Historia

Me gusta leer historia militar y, tras varios años analizando conflictos a través de la perspectiva de grandes escritores, me he dado cuenta de que siempre se libran dos guerras simultáneamente. La primera es la guerra misma y la segunda es el conflicto interno entre los generales dentro de sus propias filas. Creo que vemos lo mismo en la iglesia: la batalla espiritual y las batallas entre nosotros. Se me ocurren varias maneras de evitar estas disputas internas:

  • Reconocer que solo tenemos un Rey: Jesús es nuestra máxima autoridad y hacemos lo que Él nos dice. Reconocer que el Rey ha dado órdenes diferentes a los distintos comandantes. Mantenernos en nuestro carril, apreciar y apoyar a quienes están en un carril diferente.
  • Reconocer nuestro papel principal como siervos del Rey y de los demás. Buscar maneras de asegurar el éxito no solo de lo que estamos haciendo, sino también de la iniciativa de otros.
  • Reconocer que no podemos hacerlo todo y que la misión no se puede cumplir sin la interdependencia de los demás. Somos parte de un cuerpo con diversos dones.
  • Reconocer que nuestra contribución individual es tan importante como la de los demás. Debemos poner todo nuestro esfuerzo en todo lo que se nos llama a hacer por el bien de todos.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es momento de aplicar. Aquí tienes algunas ideas:

¿Te esfuerzas por alcanzar la grandeza… como la describe Jesús?

Enseña y modela el servicio para quienes discipulas.

Realiza un estudio bíblico con quienes discipulas sobre cómo Jesús sirvió a la gente (y cómo esperaban que Él los sirviera).

Así que, mantengamos nuestros corazones puestos en la verdadera grandeza, la que Jesús enseñó: servicio humilde y amor sacrificial. Al canalizar nuestro celo para ayudar a otros, brillaremos para su gloria y marcaremos una verdadera diferencia en este mundo.

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The Miracle of Diplomacy – #120

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be looking at the Gospel of Matthew to see how Jesus used diplomacy to avoid offending others and when He didn’t.

So let’s get started.

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Matthew 17:24–27

After they had arrived in Capernaum, the collectors of the two-drachma tax came to Peter and asked, “Does your Teacher pay the two drachmas?” “Yes,” he answered. When Peter entered the house, Jesus preempted him. “What do you think, Simon?” He asked. “From whom do the kings of the earth collect customs and taxes: from their own sons, or from others?” “From others,” Peter answered. “Then the sons are exempt,” Jesus declared. “But so that we may not offend them, go to the sea, cast a hook, and take the first fish you catch. When you open its mouth, you will find a four-drachma coin. Take it and give it to them for My tax and yours.”

My Thoughts 

Did you catch it? Once again the lesson is buried under a miracle. Don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t mind being told to catch a fish and find enough money in its mouth to pay my taxes. That would be awesome! But there’s a deeper lesson here. One that is important for disciple-makers and anyone else that would like to preserve peace in relationships. It’s the miracle of diplomacy. Jesus’ question to Peter makes it clear that the tax collectors were not doing what was fair or maybe even legal in a normal society. Of course you don’t tax your own family. This is why the Jews hated the tax collectors. They were “traitors” taxing their own for the Romans and getting their cut on the side. 

Now Jesus could have righteously responded in several ways. He could refuse to pay the tax. He could rally a protest against the government demanding His rights. He could have called down hail, fire, and brimstone on these greedy tax collectors. But instead, He chooses a path that preserves peace and teaches a profound lesson in diplomacy. Jesus instructs Peter to pay the tax, not because it’s just or owed, but to avoid unnecessary conflict and maintain a witness that prioritizes humility over confrontation.

But before we go off the deep end on the idea of diplomacy, let’s look at Jesus in some other circumstances. What about confronting the Pharisees? He called them names like Hypocrites, Blind guides, Fools, Serpents, Whitewashed tombs, etc… (Matthew 23:13-33) Whew! That’s not very diplomatic in my book. What about making a whip and cleaning out the temple of all the “concessions.” (John 2:13-16) Nope, not very diplomatic either.

So how did Jesus know when to turn on the diplomacy or not? The simple answer is the Father told Him (John 5:19). We also know that Jesus was knee deep in the Scriptures, full of the Spirit, and prayed up. And as disciples and disciple-makers, it would be wise for us to do the same. 

My Story

I was being raked over the coals for a theological issue and it got down right ugly. The minor disagreement became a “Paul and Barnabas Event” and we had to part ways. I didn’t fight back, no screaming and yelling, no backbiting, or sabotage. I simply took it on the chin and left. Later one of the men I had discipled went through the same thing for the same issue. Now I let the leaders have it with both barrels! I didn’t lose my composure but I was firm and more prophetic than I usually am. So what was the difference? Why in one situation I “took one for the team” and the other I “came off the top ropes?” 

Two things come to mind. In the first situation it was a personal assault against me. I felt like maybe God was doing something like when David left Jerusalem and Shimei was hurling abuses and rocks at him. David trusted God with the circumstances and responded;

“Let him alone and let him curse, for the LORD has told him. Perhaps the LORD will look on my affliction and return good to me instead of his cursing this day.” (2 Samuel 16:11-12)

In the second situation with my friend I felt like it was my shepherding duty to fend off the attackers and defend my brother. I have a saying, “If you ever want to see a Shepherd go Prophet, mess with the sheep.”

The other reason was wisdom from the Word and Holy Spirit. I felt like I had a red light to defend myself and a green light to defend my friend. I’m sure this is how Jesus operated in every circumstance, receiving wisdom to do exactly the right thing.

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas;

  • Are you abiding in Christ enough to be guided by Him on when to be diplomatic or not?
  • Are you quick to engage or quick to run from conflict? What is Jesus telling you right now?
  • Discuss these questions with those you are discipling and find Scripture to guide the discussion.

In the end, Jesus shows us that diplomacy is a miracle worth learning, guided by the Father’s wisdom. As disciples, let’s stay rooted in Scripture and prayer to know when to speak up or hold our peace.

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El Milagro de la Diplomacia – #120

¡Bienvenidos de nuevo! Hoy analizaremos el Evangelio de Mateo para ver cómo Jesús usó la diplomacia para evitar ofender a otros y cuándo no.

Comencemos.

Mateo 17:24-27

Después de llegar a Capernaúm, los cobradores del impuesto de dos dracmas se acercaron a Pedro y le preguntaron: «¿Tu Maestro paga las dos dracmas?». «Sí», respondió. Cuando Pedro entró en la casa, Jesús se le adelantó. «¿Qué te parece, Simón?», preguntó. «¿De quién cobran los reyes de la tierra los impuestos y los tributos: de sus propios hijos o de los demás?». «De los demás», respondió Pedro. «Entonces los hijos están exentos», declaró Jesús. «Pero para no ofenderlos, ve al mar, echa el anzuelo y el primer pez que pesques. Al abrirlo, encontrarás una moneda de cuatro dracmas. Tómala y dásela por mi impuesto y el tuyo».

Mis Pensamientos

¿Lo captaste? Una vez más, la lección queda sepultada bajo un milagro. No me malinterpretes, no me importaría que me dijeran que pescara un pez y encontrara suficiente dinero en su boca para pagar mis impuestos. ¡Sería genial! Pero hay una lección más profunda aquí. Una que es importante para quienes hacen discípulos y para cualquiera que desee preservar la paz en las relaciones. Es el milagro de la diplomacia. La pregunta de Jesús a Pedro deja claro que los recaudadores de impuestos no estaban haciendo lo justo, ni siquiera lo legal, en una sociedad normal. Claro que uno no cobra impuestos a su propia familia. Por eso los judíos odiaban a los recaudadores de impuestos. Eran “traidores” que cobraban impuestos a los suyos para los romanos y se llevaban su tajada.

Ahora bien, Jesús podría haber respondido con justicia de varias maneras. Podría negarse a pagar el impuesto. Podría organizar una protesta contra el gobierno que exigía sus derechos. Podría haber invocado granizo, fuego y azufre sobre estos codiciosos recaudadores de impuestos. Pero en cambio, elige un camino que preserva la paz y enseña una profunda lección de diplomacia. Jesús le ordena a Pedro que pague el impuesto, no porque sea justo ni debido, sino para evitar conflictos innecesarios y mantener un testimonio que priorice la humildad sobre la confrontación.

Pero antes de profundizar en la idea de la diplomacia, veamos a Jesús en otras circunstancias. ¿Y qué tal cuando confrontó a los fariseos? Los llamó hipócritas, guías ciegos, necios, serpientes, sepulcros blanqueados, etc. (Mateo 23:13-33). ¡Uf! Eso no me parece muy diplomático. ¿Y qué tal si se azota y se limpia el templo de todas las “concesiones”? (Juan 2:13-16). No, tampoco es muy diplomático.

Entonces, ¿cómo sabía Jesús cuándo usar la diplomacia o no? La respuesta es sencilla: el Padre se lo dijo (Juan 5:19). También sabemos que Jesús estaba inmerso en las Escrituras, lleno del Espíritu y oraba con intensidad. Y como discípulos y hacedores de discípulos, sería sabio que hiciéramos lo mismo.

Mi Historia

Me estaban dando fuertes broncas por un asunto teológico y la cosa se puso fea. El pequeño desacuerdo se convirtió en un “evento Pablo y Bernabé” y tuvimos que separarnos. No me defendí, no grité ni vociferé, no murmuré ni saboté. Simplemente acepté las consecuencias y me fui. Más tarde, uno de los hombres a los que había discipulado pasó por lo mismo por el mismo problema. ¡Ahora les di la lata a los líderes! No perdí la compostura, pero me mantuve firme y más profético de lo habitual. Entonces, ¿cuál fue la diferencia? ¿Por qué en una situación “me salvé por el equipo” y en la otra “me lancé desde la cuerda superior”?

Me vienen a la mente dos cosas. En la primera, fue un ataque personal contra mí. Sentí que tal vez Dios estaba haciendo algo como cuando David salió de Jerusalén y Simei le lanzaba insultos y piedras. David confió en Dios ante las circunstancias y respondió. “Déjalo, que maldiga, porque el SEÑOR se lo ha dicho. Quizás el SEÑOR mire mi aflicción y me devuelva el bien en lugar de su maldición de hoy.” (2 Samuel 16:11-12)

En la segunda situación con mi amigo, sentí que mi deber como pastor era defender a los atacantes y a mi hermano. Tengo un dicho: “Si quieres ver a un pastor convertirse en profeta, métete con las ovejas”.

La otra razón fue la sabiduría de la Palabra y del Espíritu Santo. Sentí que tenía luz roja para defenderme y luz verde para defender a mi amigo. Estoy seguro de que así es como Jesús actuó en cada circunstancia, recibiendo sabiduría para hacer exactamente lo correcto.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es momento de aplicar. Aquí tienes algunas ideas:

¿Permaneces en Cristo lo suficiente como para que Él te guíe sobre cuándo ser diplomático o no?

¿Eres rápido para involucrarte o para huir del conflicto? ¿Qué te está diciendo Jesús ahora mismo?

Dialoga estas preguntas con tus discípulos y busca la Biblia para guiar la conversación.

En definitiva, Jesús nos muestra que la diplomacia es un milagro que vale la pena aprender, guiados por la sabiduría del Padre. Como discípulos, aferrémonos a la Biblia y a la oración para saber cuándo hablar o callar.

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They Don’t Get It – #119

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be looking at the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke to see how even the Master disciple-maker found it hard to get His point across.

So let’s get started.

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Matthew 17:22–23, Mark 9:30–32, Luke 9:43b–45

Going on from there, they passed through Galilee. But Jesus did not want anyone to know, because He was teaching His disciples. When His disciples gathered together in Galilee, Jesus told them, “Let these words sink into your ears: The Son of Man is about to be delivered into the hands of men. They will kill Him, and on the third day He will be raised to life.” And the disciples were deeply grieved and did not understand this statement, it was veiled from them so that they could not comprehend it, and they were afraid to ask Him about it.

My Thoughts 

As disciple-makers it is important to get concentrated time with those you are mentoring. I’ve mentioned before that Jesus got time alone with His disciples in a boat, a mountain top, and even on the shores of the Mediterranean near Tyre and Sidon. You can obviously see why He wanted to get time alone with them for this important announcement. But even being alone, without distraction, and focused on the few, they still didn’t get what He was trying to communicate. And here’s another crucial lesson for us as we pour our lives into others. Despite our best efforts, the men and women we are training may not comprehend our “crucial” lessons. 

Here’s eight tips to navigate this tough but common circumstance when disciples “just don’t get it.”

  1. Be patient! – Put yourself in their shoes and try to remember the times when some of the most simple truths eluded your understanding.
  2. Pray – Notice that “it was veiled” from the disciples’ understanding. It may take Divine intervention to reveal a clear picture of what you are trying to explain.
  3. Use Scripture – The Word of God is a powerful agent to bring understanding.
  4. Tell Stories – Jesus was the Master Storyteller. As we try to get our point across, it may take putting the cookies on the lowest shelf with a simple story.
  5. Draw It – Illustrations can be very helpful. A picture is worth a thousand words.
  6. Questions – Encourage them to ask questions and ask questions yourself to verify understanding through feedback.
  7. Come back and teach it again – Repetition is one of your secret weapons as a mentor. Repeat yourself in a repetitive manner. 🙂
  8. Use the “Cool Uncle” – Deb and I learned this from raising our sons. Have a relative or a friend teach the lesson from their perspective. You might get a comment from the mentee like “Why didn’t you ever teach me this?” Just roll with it.

Communication will always be challenging. This is especially true in discipleship where we have an enemy constantly trying to muddy the waters. Be persistent. Eventually, they will get it.

My Story 

I’ve been a disciple of Jesus for 45 years now and I’m amazed about how much I don’t understand about walking with Him. I’ve read my Bible daily, done intense Bible studies, and even been to Bible College and Seminary (some might say that explains everything, the seminary part that is). Yeah, I must confess, there are times when someone I’m discipling drops a little truth bomb on me and I let them know, “I’ve never seen that before!” I figure I’m talking to a pretty self-aware and humble crowd so I know I’m in good company. 

Now some might quote James to me at this point, “Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, knowing that as such we will incur a stricter judgment.” (James 3:1) But there are two problems;

  1. Jesus has commanded us to teach! Check it out… (Matthew 28:18-20).
  2. No teacher teaches everything accurately except for the Great Teacher Himself.

So you and I are stuck with a divine tension; To teach or not to teach, that is the question?

Here’s what helps me sleep at night. I teach people to read the Bible for themselves. This is a great safeguard for the disciple-maker and the best way to get to know the Master. So…if you’re reading my blog and not getting enough time in the Word, skip my blog and get the straight scoop from a Person who always gets it right! 

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas:

  • Create a “Learner’s Environment” for those you are discipling. It’s safe to not know all the answers, make mistakes, and ask questions.
  • Share your weaknesses and misunderstandings with them creating a level and humble playing field.
  • Do a Bible study with them and answer this question; “Did Jesus ever model weakness in front of His disciples?”

Well, there you have it, even Jesus faced challenges getting His message across, so let’s keep pourin’ into others with patience and trust they’ll catch on. Just keep sharing the Word, telling stories, and leaning on the Master Teacher to make it all clear to them in time.

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No lo entienden – #119

¡Bienvenidos de nuevo! Hoy analizaremos los Evangelios de Mateo, Marcos y Lucas para ver cómo incluso al Maestro hacedor de discípulos le costó transmitir su mensaje.

Comencemos.

Mateo 17:22-23, Marcos 9:30-32, Lucas 9:43b-45

De allí, pasaron por Galilea. Pero Jesús no quería que nadie lo supiera, pues estaba enseñando a sus discípulos. Cuando sus discípulos se reunieron en Galilea, Jesús les dijo: «Que estas palabras les penetren en los oídos: El Hijo del Hombre está a punto de ser entregado en manos de los hombres. Lo matarán, y al tercer día resucitará». Y los discípulos se entristecieron profundamente y no entendieron esta declaración; les estaba velada, de modo que no podían comprenderla, y tenían miedo de preguntarle al respecto.

Mis Pensamientos

Como hacedores de discípulos, es importante dedicar tiempo a la consciencia de quienes mentorean. Ya he mencionado que Jesús pasó tiempo a solas con sus discípulos en una barca, en la cima de una montaña e incluso en las orillas del Mediterráneo, cerca de Tiro y Sidón. Es evidente por qué quiso pasar tiempo a solas con ellos para este importante anuncio. Pero incluso estando solos, sin distracciones y centrados en unos pocos, seguían sin entender lo que Él intentaba comunicar. Y aquí hay otra lección crucial para nosotros al dedicar nuestra vida a los demás. A pesar de nuestros mejores esfuerzos, los hombres y mujeres que capacitamos pueden no comprender nuestras lecciones cruciales.

Aquí tienes ocho consejos para afrontar esta difícil pero común situación en la que los discípulos simplemente no lo entienden.

  1. ¡Ten paciencia!: Ponte en su lugar y recuerda las veces en que algunas de las verdades más sencillas se te escaparon.
  2. Ora: Observa que estaba velado para la comprensión de los discípulos. Puede que se requiera la intervención divina para que se revele una imagen clara de lo que intentas explicar. 
  3. Usa las Escrituras: La Palabra de Dios es un medio poderoso para brindar comprensión.
  4. Cuenta historias: Jesús fue el maestro narrador. Al intentar transmitir nuestro mensaje, puede que tengamos que dejar las galletas en el último estante con una historia sencilla.
  5. Dibuja: Las ilustraciones pueden ser muy útiles. Una imagen vale más que mil palabras.
  6. Preguntas: Anímalos a hacer preguntas y a hacerlas tú mismo para verificar la comprensión mediante la retroalimentación.
  7. Regresa y enséñalo de nuevo: La repetición es una de tus armas secretas como mentor. Repítelo de forma repetitiva. 🙂
  8. Usa el “Tío Genial”: Deb y yo aprendimos esto criando a nuestros hijos. Pide a un familiar o amigo que enseñe la lección desde su perspectiva. Podrías recibir un comentario del aprendiz como “¿Por qué nunca me enseñaste esto?”. Simplemente sigue adelante.

La comunicación siempre será un desafío. Esto es especialmente cierto en el discipulado, donde tenemos un enemigo que constantemente intenta enturbiar las aguas. Sé persistente. Con el tiempo, lo entenderán.

Mi Historia

Llevo 45 años siendo discípulo de Jesús y me asombra lo mucho que no entiendo sobre caminar con Él. He leído la Biblia a diario, he realizado estudios bíblicos intensos e incluso he ido a un instituto bíblico y a un seminario (algunos dirían que eso lo explica todo, al menos el seminario). Sí, debo confesar que a veces alguien a quien discipulo me suelta una pequeña bomba de verdad y le digo: “¡Nunca había visto eso!”. Supongo que estoy hablando con un grupo bastante consciente y humilde, así que sé que estoy en buena compañía.

Ahora bien, algunos podrían citarme a Santiago en este punto: “Hermanos míos, no os hagáis muchos maestros, sabiendo que como tales recibiremos un juicio más severo” (Santiago 3:1). Pero hay dos problemas:

¡Jesús nos ha mandado a enseñar! Fíjense bien… (Mateo 28:18-20).

Ningún maestro enseña todo con precisión, excepto el Gran Maestro mismo.

Así que tú y yo nos encontramos atrapados en una tensión divina: ¿Enseñar o no enseñar? Esa es la cuestión.

Esto es lo que me ayuda a dormir por las noches: enseño a la gente a leer la Biblia por sí misma. Esta es una gran protección para quien hace discípulos y la mejor manera de conocer al Maestro. Así que… si lees mi blog y no dedicas suficiente tiempo a la Palabra, ¡sáltatelo y obtén la información directa de una persona que siempre acierta!

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es momento de aplicar. Aquí tienes algunas ideas:

Crea un ambiente de aprendizaje para quienes estás discipulando. Es seguro no saber todas las respuestas, cometer errores y hacer preguntas.

Comparte tus debilidades y malentendidos con ellos, creando un ambiente de igualdad y humildad.

Organiza un estudio bíblico con ellos y responde a esta pregunta: “¿Alguna vez Jesús demostró debilidad frente a sus discípulos?”.

Bueno, ahí lo tienen: incluso Jesús enfrentó dificultades para transmitir su mensaje, así que sigamos inculcándolo a otros con paciencia y confiando en que lo entenderán. Simplemente sigan compartiendo la Palabra, contando historias y apoyándose en el Maestro para que con el tiempo se lo aclare todo.

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Frustrated Disciple-Makers – #117

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be looking at the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke to see how Jesus got frustrated with His disciples.

So let’s get started.

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Matthew 17:14–17, Mark 9:14–24, Luke 9:37b–42a

They returned to the other disciples and they saw a large crowd around them, and scribes arguing with them. As soon as all the people saw Jesus, they were filled with awe and ran to greet Him. “What are you disputing with them?” He asked. Suddenly a man came up to Jesus and knelt before Him. “Lord, Teacher, I beg You to look at my son, for he is my only child. I brought You my son, who has a spirit that makes him mute. Have mercy on him,” he said. “A spirit keeps seizing him, and he screams abruptly. It throws him into convulsions so that he foams at the mouth. He has seizures and is suffering terribly. Whenever it seizes him, it throws him to the ground. He foams at the mouth, gnashes his teeth, and becomes rigid. He often falls into the fire or into the water. It keeps mauling him and rarely departs from him. I brought him to Your disciples, I begged them to drive it out, but they were unable to heal him.”

“O unbelieving and perverse generation!” Jesus replied. “How long must I remain with you? How long must I put up with you? Bring the boy here to Me.” So they brought him, and even while the boy was approaching, the demon seeing Jesus slammed him to the ground and immediately threw the boy into a convulsion and he rolled around, foaming at the mouth. Jesus asked the boy’s father, “How long has this been with him?” “From childhood,” he said. “It often throws him into the fire or into the water, trying to kill him. But if You can do anything, have compassion on us and help us.” “If You can?” echoed Jesus. “All things are possible to him who believes!” Immediately the boy’s father cried out, “I do believe; help my unbelief!”

My Thoughts 

Now remember this series is primarily focused on disciple-makers not on the disciples per say. Most writers would look at this passage and write about the father’s response, “I believe help me with my unbelief.” Certainly, that’s a very appropriate and timely topic to address with all people. But there’s something here that I seldom hear leaders writing or preaching about and yet it’s just as important as the man’s faith (or lack thereof). Do you know what I’m talking about my fellow disciple-maker?

Yes! It’s the fact that Jesus is frustrated! 

“O unbelieving and perverse generation!” Jesus replied. “How long must I remain with you? How long must I put up with you?

As a disciple-maker do you ever get frustrated? If you haven’t, you will. And a lot of times we may feel guilty about it. But let me remind you that Jesus was sinless. He was able to be peeved and even express it without crossing the line of being unloving or untrue. Jesus’ frustration in this moment reveals His deep longing for His disciples to grasp the truth and grow in faith. As disciple-makers, we may feel similar frustrations when those we mentor struggle to understand or apply what we teach. Yet, like Jesus, we can channel that frustration into passionate perseverance, continuing to guide with patience and love, trusting that growth takes time. His example shows us that feeling frustrated doesn’t mean we’ve failed—it means we care deeply about the spiritual journey of those we lead.

Now let me give a warning. We will get frustrated at one time or another. But notice Jesus addresses the disciples and the crowd directly. He doesn’t go to John the Baptist and say, “Man, bro, I hope the men you’re discipling are better than the ones I got! What a bunch of boneheads!” No, that would be gossip and oh, by the way, sin. Oftentimes we complain about our frustrations to others and not to those who really need to hear it so they can make corrections themselves. If you’re frustrated, talk to the people you’re frustrated with. 

My Story

Confession Time! I’m more pastoral than prophetic. My idea of lowering the boom on someone with the truth is like tapping them with a Q-Tip. So most of the time the ones I’m discipling have to ask, “Did you just rebuke me?” Now I have friends that are much better at getting your attention when you’re messing up. And I have to say I admire these “truth tellers.” There have been times in my life where a more prophetic person asked a question and totally ticked me off! Ironically, those people had the most significant life transforming effect in my walk with Jesus. And that’s why I love them. 

Now I have had to tell some of the same people “Ratchet it Down a Bit.” There are times when the truth was not “received” in love. Delivery is just as important as the message. But let’s not vote the prophets off the island just because we got our feelings hurt or we didn’t like the delivery. The truth is the truth and if we are going to be transformed in the image of Christ, we desperately need these kinds of people around us.

Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But deceitful are the kisses of an enemy.

(Proverbs 27:6)

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas;

  • Take inventory – When’s the last time you had to confront someone and did it in love?
  • Are you as good at the delivery as much as you are at speaking the truth?
  • Do you need to learn how to be more shepherding or more prophetic? Work on it.

Well friends, disciple-making ain’t always easy, but Jesus shows us it’s okay to feel frustrated as long as we guide with love and patience. Let’s keep speaking truth, delivering it kindly, and trusting God to grow those we lead!

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Discipuladores Frustrados – #117

¡Bienvenidos de nuevo! Hoy analizaremos los Evangelios de Mateo, Marcos y Lucas para ver cómo Jesús se frustró con sus discípulos.

Comencemos.

Mateo 17:14-17, Marcos 9:14-24, Lucas 9:37b-42a

Volvieron con los demás discípulos y vieron una gran multitud a su alrededor, y escribas discutiendo con ellos. En cuanto todos vieron a Jesús, se llenaron de asombro y corrieron a saludarlo. “¿Qué discuten con ellos?”, preguntó. De repente, un hombre se acercó a Jesús y se arrodilló ante él. “Señor, Maestro, te ruego que cuides a mi hijo, porque es mi único hijo. Te traje a mi hijo, que tiene un espíritu que lo deja mudo. Ten piedad de él”, dijo. Un espíritu se apodera de él y grita de repente. Le provoca convulsiones que le hacen echar espuma por la boca. Tiene convulsiones y sufre terriblemente. Cada vez que se apodera de él, lo tira al suelo. Echa espuma por la boca, rechina los dientes y se queda rígido. A menudo cae al fuego o al agua. Lo ataca constantemente y rara vez se aparta de él. Lo traje a tus discípulos, les rogué que lo expulsaran, pero no pudieron sanarlo.

¡Oh, generación incrédula y perversa! —respondió Jesús—. ¿Cuánto tiempo he de permanecer con ustedes? ¿Cuánto tiempo he de soportarlos? Traigan al niño acá. Así que lo trajeron, y mientras el niño se acercaba, el demonio, al ver a Jesús, lo tiró al suelo e inmediatamente lo arrojó con convulsiones, rodando por el suelo, echando espuma por la boca. Jesús le preguntó al padre del niño: —¿Cuánto tiempo lleva con esto? —Desde niño —respondió. A menudo lo arroja al fuego o al agua, intentando matarlo. Pero si puedes hacer algo, ten compasión de nosotros y ayúdanos. —¿Si puedes? —repitió Jesús—. ¡Todo es posible para el que cree! —Al instante, el padre del niño exclamó: —Creo; ¡ayuda mi incredulidad!

Mis Pensamientos

Recuerden que esta serie se centra principalmente en quienes hacen discípulos, no en los discípulos en sí. La mayoría de los escritores analizarían este pasaje y escribirían sobre la respuesta del padre: “Creo, ayúdame con mi incredulidad”. Sin duda, es un tema muy apropiado y oportuno para abordar con todas las personas. Pero hay algo aquí que rara vez escucho a los líderes escribir o predicar, y sin embargo, es tan importante como la fe del hombre (o la falta de ella). ¿Saben a qué me refiero, mi compañero hacedor de discípulos?

¡Sí! ¡Es la frustración de Jesús!

“¡Oh generación incrédula y perversa!”, respondió Jesús. ¿Hasta cuándo debo permanecer con ustedes? ¿Hasta cuándo debo soportarlos?

Como hacedores de discípulos, ¿se frustran alguna vez? Si no, lo harán. Y muchas veces nos sentimos culpables por ello. Pero permítanme recordarles que Jesús no tenía pecado. Podía estar enojado e incluso expresarlo sin cruzar la línea de la falta de amor o la falsedad. La frustración de Jesús en ese momento revela su profundo anhelo de que sus discípulos comprendieran la verdad y crecieran en la fe. Como hacedores de discípulos, podemos sentir frustraciones similares cuando a quienes asesoramos les cuesta comprender o aplicar lo que enseñamos. Sin embargo, al igual que Jesús, podemos canalizar esa frustración hacia una perseverancia apasionada, guiando continuamente con paciencia y amor, confiando en que el crecimiento lleva tiempo. Su ejemplo nos muestra que sentirse frustrado no significa que hayamos fracasado, sino que nos importa profundamente el camino espiritual de quienes guiamos.

Ahora, permítanme darles una advertencia. Nos frustraremos en algún momento. Pero noten que Jesús se dirige directamente a los discípulos y a la multitud. No se dirige a Juan el Bautista. Bautista y decir: “¡Hermano, espero que los hombres que estás discipulando sean mejores que los que yo tengo! ¡Qué idiotas!”. No, eso sería chisme y, por cierto, pecado. Muchas veces nos quejamos de nuestras frustraciones con otros y no con quienes realmente necesitan escucharlas para poder corregirlas. Si te sientes frustrado, habla con quienes te frustran.

Mi Historia

¡Hora de confesar! Soy más pastoral que profético. Mi idea de calmar a alguien con la verdad es como darle un golpecito con un hisopo. Así que la mayoría de las veces, quienes discipulo tienen que preguntar: “¿Acabas de reprenderme?”. Ahora tengo amigos que son mucho mejores captando tu atención cuando te equivocas. Y debo decir que admiro a estos “veraces”. ¡Ha habido momentos en mi vida en que una persona más profética me hizo una pregunta y me molestó muchísimo! Irónicamente, esas personas tuvieron el efecto transformador más significativo en mi caminar con Jesús. Y por eso las amo.

Ahora he tenido que decirles a algunas de esas mismas personas: “Bájale un poco”. Hay momentos en que la verdad no fue “recibida” con amor. La forma de transmitirla es tan importante como el mensaje. Pero no descartemos a los profetas solo porque nos hirieron los sentimientos o no nos gustó cómo la transmitieron. La verdad es la verdad, y si vamos a ser transformados a la imagen de Cristo, necesitamos desesperadamente este tipo de personas a nuestro alrededor.

Fieles son las heridas del amigo, pero engañosos los besos del enemigo.

(Proverbios 27:6)

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es momento de aplicar. Aquí tienes algunas ideas:

Haz un inventario: ¿Cuándo fue la última vez que tuviste que confrontar a alguien y lo hiciste con amor?

¿Eres tan bueno comunicando la verdad como diciendo la verdad?

¿Necesitas aprender a ser más pastor o más profético? Esfuérzate.

Bueno, amigos, hacer discípulos no siempre es fácil, pero Jesús nos muestra que está bien sentirse frustrado siempre que guiemos con amor y paciencia. ¡Sigamos hablando la verdad, comunicándola con amabilidad y confiando en que Dios hará crecer a quienes guiamos!

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I’d Rather Be Humble than Be Humbled – #112

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be looking at the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke to see how Jesus addressed Peter’s pride and lack of insight into the ways of God.

So let’s get started.

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Matthew 16:21–23, Mark 8:31-33, Luke 9:22

From that time on Jesus began to teach and show His disciples that He, the Son of Man, must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things at the hands of the elders, chief priests, and scribes, and be rejected by them and that He must be killed and on the third day be raised to life. He spoke this message quite frankly, and Peter took Him aside and began to rebuke Him. “Far be it from You, Lord!” he said. “This shall never happen to You!” But Jesus, turning and looking at His disciples, rebuked Peter and said, “Get behind Me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to Me. For you do not have in mind the things of God, but the things of men.”

 My Thoughts 

Peter would later write this promise and warning in his first epistle;

You younger men, likewise, be subject to your elders; and all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, for GOD IS OPPOSED TO THE PROUD, BUT GIVES GRACE TO THE HUMBLE. Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time…

1 Peter 5:5-6

He had experience. He knew what it was like to go from hero to zero in a matter of minutes. Just a minute earlier he was being blessed by his Master and the next he was labeled one of the worst villains in the universe; Satan. Yes, Peter warns us from his own combat experience, “Take it from me, humble yourself because when God humbles you, it ain’t pretty.”

Here’s five indicators of true humility;

  1. Self-Aware: A humble person recognizes their strengths and weaknesses without arrogance or self-deprecation, staying grounded in who they are. Pride can come in two forms – elevating oneself or putting oneself down. Both are focused on self. (Romans 12:3)
  2. Grateful: They express appreciation for what they have and give credit to others, rather than acting entitled or self-focused. (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
  3. Teachable: They listen, accept feedback, and admit mistakes, showing they don’t claim to have all the answers. (Proverbs 12:15)
  4. Others Focused: They prioritize others’ needs or perspectives with kindness and respect, not for recognition but out of genuine care. (Philippians 2:3-4)
  5. Generous: Humble individuals give freely—of their time, resources, or support—without expecting anything in return, reflecting a lack of ego in their actions. (Luke 6:38)

My Story

I was in the Chaplain’s Basic Course as a brand new chaplain but not a brand new soldier. I had already served as an infantryman for 19 years. I knew I needed to enter into this new phase of my career with some humility but the obstacle course got the better of me. With a spirit of competition and pride swelling in my chest, I attacked each obstacle like I was 19 years old. One problem, I was actually 38! I did finish the course in record time and showed I was the man…with two broken ribs and a wacked out spine. I didn’t let on that I was in pain at the moment of my “grand victory.” But the next morning standing in formation with all my fellow chaplains, I crumpled to the ground in pain. They had to physically carry me to the ER. Pride comes before the fall…and pain.

Tisk, tisk. I keep reminding myself; “humble yourself before you get humbled…under the mighty hand of God.”

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application. Here’s some ideas;

  • Study the Bible to find instances where Jesus’ disciples acted arrogantly and note His response or actions.
  • Share the insights from your Bible study with those you are mentoring.
  • Take time in church to confess prideful behaviors in your lives.

There is great safety in the bunker of humility. Let’s learn from Peter’s combat experience and dodge those “Pride Mines.”

Prefiero ser humilde que humillado – #112

¡Bienvenidos de nuevo! Hoy analizaremos los Evangelios de Mateo, Marcos y Lucas para ver cómo Jesús abordó el orgullo de Pedro y su falta de comprensión de los caminos de Dios.

¡Comencemos!

Mateo 16:21-23, Marcos 8:31-33, Lucas 9:22

Desde entonces, Jesús comenzó a enseñar y a mostrar a sus discípulos que él, el Hijo del Hombre, debía ir a Jerusalén y sufrir mucho a manos de los ancianos, los principales sacerdotes y los escribas, y ser rechazado por ellos, y que debía ser ejecutado y resucitar al tercer día. Les habló con toda franqueza, y Pedro lo tomó aparte y comenzó a reprenderlo. «¡Lejos de ti, Señor! —dijo—. ¡Esto nunca te sucederá!». Pero Jesús, volviéndose y mirando a sus discípulos, reprendió a Pedro y le dijo: «¡Quítate de delante de mí, Satanás! Me eres tropiezo. Porque no piensas en las cosas de Dios, sino en las de los hombres».

Mis Pensamientos

Pedro escribiría más tarde esta promesa y advertencia en su primera epístola:

Ustedes, jóvenes, igualmente, estén sujetos a sus ancianos; y todos, revístanse de humildad unos con otros, porque Dios se opone a los soberbios, pero da gracia a los humildes. Humíllense, pues, bajo la poderosa mano de Dios, para que él los exalte a su debido tiempo…

1 Pedro 5:5-6

Él tenía experiencia. Sabía lo que era pasar de héroe a cero en cuestión de minutos. Un minuto antes estaba siendo bendecido por su Maestro y al siguiente era etiquetado como uno de los peores villanos del universo: Satanás. Sí, Pedro nos advierte desde su propia experiencia de combate: «Créanme, humíllense, porque cuando Dios los humilla, no es agradable».

Aquí hay cinco indicadores de verdadera humildad:

Consciente de sí mismo: Una persona humilde reconoce sus fortalezas y debilidades sin arrogancia ni autodesprecio, manteniéndose firme en su identidad. El orgullo puede manifestarse de dos maneras: enalteciéndose o despreciándose. Ambas se centran en uno mismo. (Romanos 12:3)

Agradecido: Expresa su aprecio por lo que tiene y reconoce el mérito de los demás, en lugar de actuar con presunción o egocentrismo. (1 Tesalonicenses 5:18)

Educable: Escucha, acepta la retroalimentación y admite sus errores, demostrando que no pretende tener todas las respuestas. (Proverbios 12:15)

Enfocado en los demás: Prioriza las necesidades o perspectivas de los demás con amabilidad y respeto, no buscando reconocimiento, sino por un interés genuino. (Filipenses 2:3-4)

Generoso: Las personas humildes dan libremente —de su tiempo, recursos o apoyo— sin esperar nada a cambio, lo que refleja una falta de ego en sus acciones. (Lucas 6:38)

Mi Historia

Estaba en el Curso Básico de Capellán como capellán flamante, pero no como soldado novato. Ya había servido como soldado de infantería durante 19 años. Sabía que debía afrontar esta nueva etapa de mi carrera con humildad, pero la carrera de obstáculos me venció. Con un espíritu de competencia y un orgullo que me inundaba el pecho, afronté cada obstáculo como si tuviera 19 años. ¡Un problema, tenía 38! Terminé el curso en tiempo récord y demostré que era el hombre… con dos costillas rotas y la columna vertebral destrozada. No dejé entrever el dolor que sentía en el momento de mi “gran victoria”. Pero a la mañana siguiente, en formación con todos mis compañeros capellanes, me desplomé en el suelo de dolor. Tuvieron que cargarme físicamente a urgencias. El orgullo precede a la caída… y al dolor.

Tic, tic. Sigo recordándome a mí mismo: “Humíllate antes de ser humillado… bajo la poderosa mano de Dios”.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es momento de aplicarlo. Aquí tienes algunas ideas:

Estudia la Biblia para encontrar ejemplos de cómo los discípulos de Jesús actuaron con arrogancia y observa su respuesta o acciones.

Comparte las enseñanzas de tu estudio bíblico con tus mentores.

Dedica tiempo en la iglesia a confesar comportamientos orgullosos en tu vida.

Hay gran seguridad en el refugio de la humildad. Aprendamos de la experiencia de combate de Pedro y evitemos esas minas del orgullo.

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Chapter 28 – Flight and the Final Tests

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They will mount up with wings like eagles.

Isaiah 40:31

Flight School

The morning sun painted Reynard 3’s sky in shades of amber and rose, casting long shadows across the fertile fields surrounding the base. Wade inhaled deeply, letting the rich scent of damp soil fill his lungs. Around him, the whine of anti-grav engines and the thunderous roar of atmospheric thrusters created a familiar symphony – one that had once filled him with childlike awe. Now, each sound carried a different weight, each vessel overhead a reminder of missions yet to come.

Beside him at the edge of the landing pad, Jay and Metro stood in contemplative silence. The moss beneath their boots released its earthy fragrance with each shift of their weight. Metro’s fingers absently traced the raised scar tissue on his forearm – a permanent reminder of their firefight on Carthis 7. The gesture wasn’t lost on Wade; every mark they carried told a story of survival, of lessons learned in blood and fire.

“Three months,” Metro murmured, his voice barely audible above the ambient hum of the base. “Feels like three lifetimes.” The words hung in the air, heavy with shared memories of lost comrades and near misses.

The barracks welcomed them with the sterile efficiency of military quarters, their gear stowed with the practiced precision that had become second nature. When dawn broke the next day, they found themselves facing a different kind of challenge. Gone were the thundering voices and predatory stares of their previous instructors. This phase of Ranger training carried a deceptive gentility, but Wade knew better – sometimes the deadliest predators wore the most disarming smiles.

Their first test waited below on the practice course: the Badger hovercraft. Its sleek hull caught the alien sunlight like liquid mercury, beautiful and lethal in equal measure. Wade’s pulse quickened at the sight. He’d survived combat drops and close-quarters firefights, yet something about this elegant machine made his mouth go dry. Perhaps it was the way it demanded perfection, offering no margin for the brute force solutions that had sometimes served him in training and combat.

“Sergeant Kovacs.” The instructor’s voice carried the calm assurance of someone who had seen countless recruits face this moment. “Show us what you got.”

The Badger’s cockpit enveloped Wade like a second skin, familiar yet foreign. His fingers found the controls, feeling the subtle vibrations that spoke of barely contained power. No violent shaking like the drop pods, no brutal impact of atmospheric entry – this was a dance of precision, of finesse.

The craft lifted with a whisper, responding to his touch like a living creature. Wade felt sweat bead on his forehead as he guided it forward, the rocky course stretching before him like an obstacle course designed by a sadistic enemy. A massive boulder formation loomed ahead, its jagged surface a challenge he would have once approached with hesitation.

But the Corps had changed him. Where he once saw obstacles, he now saw opportunities. The Badger responded to his subtle adjustments, banking against the natural curve of the rocks. He wasn’t fighting the terrain anymore – he was partnering with it, using the formation’s own geometry to maintain his momentum while bleeding off excess speed.

“Better,” the instructor’s voice crackled through his helmet, carrying a note of approval that meant more than any shouted praise. “But remember, Kovacs – she’s not a weapon to be wielded. She’s a partner in the dance. Let her lead sometimes.”

From their position in the observation stand, Jay and Metro watched with the knowing eyes of men who had shared suffering and success. Metro’s fingers tapped an unconscious rhythm against his leg, his body tensed as if he could feel every adjustment Wade made. They’d seen this side of him before, in moments when split-second decisions meant the difference between life and death. It wasn’t just skill they were watching – it was the quiet confidence of a born leader.

The F2-90 Stellar Scout

The days blurred together as they mastered the Badger, each session building on the last until the craft felt like an extension of their will. Then came the transition to the F2-90 Stellar-Scout simulators. The cockpit welcomed Wade and Jay like an old friend, its neural interface headset settling against their temples with intimate familiarity. This wasn’t just about flying anymore – it was about fusion, about two minds working as one.

“Pilots,” the instructor’s voice carried through the PA system, “you’ve proven you can handle the basics. Now we’ll see if you can dance in the devil’s ballroom. This neutron star field simulation has humbled better crews than yours. Remember – out there, pride kills faster than any enemy.”

The simulation erupted around them in a symphony of light and shadow. Gravimetric warnings screamed across Wade’s console like banshees, but beneath the chaos, he felt something clicking into place. This wasn’t about raw calculations anymore – it was about rhythm, about feeling the ship’s pulse and anticipating Jay’s next move before he made it.

“Gravitational shear spiking,” Jay reported, his voice carrying the same steady calm he’d maintained during their worst circumstances in training and combat. His hands moved across the controls with surgical precision, threading their way between competing gravity wells that could tear their ship apart in seconds. “Need new vectors, Wade.”

Wade’s mind raced through possibilities, combat instincts merging with mathematical precision. Perfect solutions could get you killed – he’d learned that lesson watching better men die while chasing optimal outcomes. “Feeding you new vectors… now.”

The Stellar-Scout responded like a creature born to dance among the stars, riding gravitational currents with ethereal grace. Warning indicators cascaded from danger to safety, but neither man celebrated. They weren’t just surviving anymore – they were transcending.

Hours bled into days, days into weeks, each session building not just skill but understanding. Every simulation reinforced what combat had already taught them: that trust wasn’t just about faith in each other’s abilities, but about reading the microscopic tensions in a shoulder, the subtle shifts in breathing that telegraphed intentions before words could form.

Late one night, reviewing flight logs in his quarters, Wade found himself smiling at a realization. The eager recruit who had first arrived on Rinart 3 would have seen these challenges as hurdles to overcome, tests to pass. Now he understood – they weren’t obstacles at all, but gifts. Each simulation, each flight, was another chance to refine the skills that would keep his team alive when theory gave way to brutal reality.

The familiar terrain of Reynard 3 hadn’t changed, but its meaning had. Every field, every training course, every moment in the cockpit wasn’t just about personal achievement anymore. It was about preparation for the moment when skill and trust would mean the difference between bringing everyone home or adding more names to the memorial wall.

The moment of truth arrived when they finally got to tour an actual F2-90 Stellar Scout. Lieutenant Commander Goering, a veteran Navy Flight Instructor with weather-worn features and sharp eyes, met them at the landing pad where the sleek spacecraft waited.

“Gentlemen,” he said, running a hand along the Scout’s polished hull, “this beauty is going to become your second home. She’s built for deep space exploration and reconnaissance – the kind where you might not see another human face for months.”

Wade watched Jay’s eyes light up as they approached the vessel. The morning sun caught the Scout’s aerodynamic curves, highlighting its military precision while hinting at something more elegant.

Goering led them to a recessed panel in the hull. With a practiced gesture, he pressed his palm against the access pad, and a section of the hull smoothly retracted, revealing a compact lift system. “Primary access point,” he explained as they stepped inside. “Gets you directly to the main deck. There’s emergency access hatches too, but this is your day-to-day entry.”

The lift hummed softly as it carried them upward, depositing them just aft of the Central Command Station. “CCS is your nerve center,” Goering said, stepping into the cockpit. “Two-person crew configuration – pilot and nav/comms. Everything within arm’s reach, no wasted motion.”

“Twin VTOL engines,” he continued, gesturing to the holographic displays. “She’ll lift off and land smooth as silk on just about any terrain you can imagine. Those retractable landing struts aren’t just for show – they’ll adapt to everything from crystalline ice fields to volcanic rock.”

Moving aft, he opened a sealed compartment. “And here’s something you’ll want to get familiar with – stasis pods. Latest generation cryo-sleep systems. For those extra-long hauls where even Rangers need to conserve resources. Four pods, medical-grade monitoring systems. They’ll keep you fresh for the deep space legs of your mission.”

“Armament seems light,” Wade observed, noting the modest weapon systems on a nearby display.

Goering nodded. “She’s not built for slugging it out with hostiles. But don’t let that fool you – she’s got enough teeth to get you out of a pinch. Remember, your job is to observe and report, not pick fights.”

“What about communications range?” Jay asked, his technical curiosity evident.

Goering smiled. “Thought you’d ask. State-of-the-art microwave antenna array and military-grade encryption suite. You could probably call home from the edge of known space – assuming Command lets you.”

They explored the galley and common area, where clever storage solutions and transforming furniture showed the Scout’s dual nature as both military vessel and exploration craft. “Every cubic centimeter serves a purpose,” Goering explained. “Take the crew quarters – six individual berths, but they don’t feel cramped. The designers knew Rangers spend months out there. Had to make it livable.”

A narrow stairwell led them to the lower deck, where the lab and specimen storage spaces waited. “This is where the real science happens,” Goering said, gesturing to the advanced analysis equipment. “You’re not just Marines out there – you’re explorers.”

At last, they reached the rear cargo bay. Goering touched another control panel, and the massive rear ramp began to lower, hydraulics humming smoothly. Sunlight streamed in, illuminating a rugged Badger secured in its berth. “And here’s your ground transport,” he said, patting the vehicle. “Because sometimes the only way to explore is to get your boots dirty.”

Standing at the base of the ramp, looking back at the Scout, Wade felt a new appreciation for the vessel. Goering’s voice carried the weight of experience as he concluded, “The F2-90 isn’t the biggest or most powerful ship in the fleet. But for what you Rangers do – pushing the boundaries of known space, facing the unknown – there’s nothing better. Treat her right, and she’ll bring you home.”

Their transition from simulators to the actual F2-90 Stellar-Scout proved smoother than even their instructors anticipated. The countless hours spent in virtual training had built muscle memory that translated seamlessly to the real craft. Where most trainees required six weeks to achieve basic proficiency, Wade and Jay demonstrated advanced maneuvering capabilities in just three. Their natural synchronization in the cockpit drew attention from the senior instructors, who began using their flight recordings as teaching materials for other crews. The duo’s ability to anticipate each other’s actions and maintain perfect coordination during complex maneuvers spoke to something beyond mere technical skill – it was the kind of intuitive trust that couldn’t be taught, only earned through shared experiences both in combat and training.

The familiar had indeed become new again, transformed not by time or circumstance, but by the weight of purpose that now infused every action, every decision, every breath.

Romance and Revelations

The barracks’ overhead lights had dimmed to their night-cycle setting, casting long shadows across the titanium-alloy floor panels. Wade’s boots barely made a sound as he returned from his evening maintenance shift, mind still churning over the day’s training flights. He stopped short at the familiar cadence of a voice – soft, melodic, Japanese accent distinctly out of place in the utilitarian surroundings.

“I can’t say I miss all that adventure but I sure miss you,” Mayumi’s holographic message flickered in the dim light. “I even miss your terrible jokes.”

Wade froze, suddenly feeling like an intruder. Through the half-open door, he caught a glimpse of Jay sitting on his bunk, head bowed toward the projection, a smile playing at the corners of his mouth that Wade had never seen before. It wasn’t the practiced grin Jay wore during training or the fierce determination that emerged in combat – this was something entirely different, something private.

“I keep asking Commander Chen when our security status is going to be downgraded and I would be up for reassignment,” Mayumi continued, her translucent image seeming to glow with warmth. “She told me there’s no telling when, but…” She paused, her expression softening. “Just make sure you stay in one piece, okay? The stars aren’t quite as beautiful without you here to name all the constellations wrong.”

Wade backed away silently, his mind racing through calculations of a different sort. How long had this been going on? The Jay he knew from training was all precision and protocol – seeing this other side of him was like discovering a new dimension to a familiar star chart.

His thoughts shifted to Kristen. Could she still be waiting for him? Is there any possible way she saw through the ruse of him being dead? He had to believe that the promises they made to one another as they trusted God for their relationship had to be his resting place. He reminded himself; “Always.”

Hours later, in the quiet corner of the station’s observation deck, Wade found Jay staring out at Rinart 3’s three moons. The aurora painted sheets of green and purple across the star studded sky.

“So,” Wade said, settling against the railing. “You and Mayumi?”

Jay’s shoulders tensed for a moment before relaxing. He turned, and in the shifting light from the aurora, Wade could see both embarrassment and pride warring on his friend’s face. “After what you told me about her reassignment in the Delphi Quadrant, I tracked her down and sent her a message. Just to check in, you know? I know I shouldn’t be trying to connect with the security risk and all, but then…”

“One message became two, became twenty?” Wade finished, remembering his own fumbling attempts at trying to pace himself when he was dating Kristen, trying not to seem too obsessed.

“Something like that.” Jay’s fingers traced the handrail as he leaned toward the stars. “She understands things – not just the quantum mechanics she works with, but…” he struggled for words, unusual for someone so precise in the cockpit. “She gets what it means to be out here, on the edge of everything. To love the void as much as you fear it. And Wade, her relationship with Jesus has grown leaps and bounds. It’s very…attractive.”

Wade nodded, letting the silence stretch comfortably between them. He thought about their shared history – the terror of the Skravak ship, the grueling training that followed, sharing the gospel and leading her to Christ, the way life had carried them all in unexpected directions. Yet here they were, still finding new ways to surprise each other.

“You know what’s funny?” Jay said finally, his reflection overlapping with the stars beyond. “All our training, all the simulation hours, everything we’ve survived in combat… and sending that first message to her was still the scariest thing I’ve done since enlisting.”

Wade clapped his friend’s shoulder, feeling the familiar weight of their shared experiences and this new dimension of their friendship. “Well, for what it’s worth, now I know why your landing approaches have been a little off lately. Maybe you’re a little twitterpated?”

Jay’s laugh echoed into the darkness, genuine and unguarded. “Don’t you worry bro. Even twitterpated, I’m a better pilot than you.” Playfully punching Wade in the chest.

Jay’s expression turned serious. ‘Have you tried to contact Kristen at all? Since… you know.’

Wade’s shoulders slumped. ‘You know I can’t, Jay. Not with everything that’s happened. The security protocols are there for a reason.’

‘But surely there’s some way—’ Jay started.

‘No,’ Wade cut him off firmly, though his voice carried a weight of sadness. ‘I won’t put her at risk. Not even a chance of it. The conspiracy we uncovered… it runs deep. Until everything’s fully exposed and dealt with, contacting her would be selfish.’

Jay studied his friend’s face. ‘You really love her, don’t you?’

‘Yeah,’ Wade admitted quietly, flexing his prosthetic hand. ‘That’s why I have to protect her, even if it means staying away. But I haven’t lost hope. I’m trusting God’s timing on this one.’

‘Well,’ Jay said, bumping Wade’s shoulder with his own, ‘then I’ll keep praying. This isn’t the end of the story.'”

As they stood there, watching Rinart 3’s moons slowly set beneath the horizon, Wade realized that some of the most important discoveries in space weren’t made on distant planets among the stars. They happened in these quiet moments, when the Holy Spirit reminded you that even in the vastness of space, the human heart could still chart unexpected courses.

Exploration Training

The holographic alien landscape shimmered around them, so detailed that Wade could smell what seemed like rotting vegetation. The simulation had rendered a jungle world with triple-gravity and a toxic atmosphere – exactly the kind of environment Rangers were expected to handle. Sweat trickled down his spine inside the environment suit, each movement requiring conscious effort against the crushing gravitational pull.

“Contact, two o’clock,” Jay’s voice crackled through the comm, steady despite the strain. “Biological signature. Nothing in the database matches.”

Wade’s heads-up display highlighted the movement – something serpentine sliding through the phosphorescent underbrush. Their squad had already lost two holographic members to similar unknowns. The simulation was brutally effective at teaching survival priorities: analyze, adapt, or die.

“Hold position,” Wade commanded, forcing his breathing to steady as he activated his suit’s biological analysis suite. The crushing gravity made even the smallest movements exhaust precious oxygen reserves. “Running spectral analysis.”

The creature emerged into the clearing – a writhing mass of tentacles and what appeared to be photoreceptors. Wade’s scanner beeped a warning: highly acidic secretions detected. He remembered their xenobiology instructor’s words: “Out there, everything wants to kill you. Your job is to figure out how…before it succeeds.”

“Pattern analysis suggests predatory behavior,” Metro reported from his position, the words coming in short bursts as he fought against the gravity. “Similar to the Skravak Sliders we studied from the Cygnus sector.”

Jay had already adjusted his position, using the terrain to create a crossfire zone. Three months ago, he would have just opened fire. Now, he waited, gathering data. Rangers weren’t just Marines; they were explorers, scientists, and when necessary, executioners of hostile life forms.

“Acid-based neurotoxin from the twin venom glands nestled beneath its iridescent carapace, it projects with laser-like precision.” Wade announced on the comms, watching the creature’s movements through his scope. “Similar to the Skravak’s secondary defense tactics. Metro, remember the countermeasures we developed during our last dance at the Zoo?”

“Already on it.” Metro’s suit dispensed a stream of base chemicals, creating a protective barrier around their position. The training scenarios weren’t random – they built upon real experiences, forcing the Rangers to apply past lessons to new threats.

The creature lunged, faster than its mass suggested possible. Wade’s squad responded with surgical persision, their movements economic in the crushing gravity. Their coordinated response wasn’t just about survival – it was about data collection, threat assessment, and preservation of valuable xenobiological samples.

“Clear,” Jay called out as the holographic creature dissipated. “But we’ve got atmospheric degradation incoming. Looks like this planet’s sun is about to go nova.”

Wade checked his suit’s readings. They had seventeen minutes of oxygen remaining, a damaged sample collection unit, and five kilometers of hostile terrain between them and their extraction point. In other words, a typical day in Ranger training.

“Status check,” he ordered, already calculating their optimal route.

“Suit integrity at sixty percent,” Metro reported. “But I saved the biological samples.”

“Nav system’s glitching from magnetic interference,” Jay added. “Going to have to do this old school.”

Wade allowed himself a grim smile behind his faceplate. Three months ago, this scenario would have seemed impossible. Now it was just another challenge to overcome. “Metro, take center with the samples. Jay, take point and plot us a course using stellar positioning. I’ll watch our six.”

As they moved through the hostile landscape, Wade reflected on how far they’d come. Flight school had taught them to master their vessels, but exploration training was teaching them to master themselves. Every challenge forced them to combine their skills in new ways – Jay’s intuitive grasp of spatial navigation, Metro’s encyclopedic knowledge of xenobiology, Wade’s tactical expertise.

The extraction ship appeared as a distant speck in the purple sky, a testament to their successful navigation. As the simulation faded around them, Wade caught Jay’s eye. They didn’t need words to express their shared understanding: this wasn’t just training anymore. This was preparation for a future where humanity would need every skill they were learning, and probably a few they hadn’t imagined yet.

The instructors had a saying: “In space, you improvise, adapt, and overcome or… you die. Rangers are masters of the first three.” With each passing day, Wade understood that philosophy more deeply. They were trained to the hilt and ready to graduate. They had passed the most extreme military gauntlet the Confederation had to offer. They were qualified Deep Space Rangers.

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Spiraling Out of Control – #94

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Welcome Back! Today, we’ll be combining the gospels of Matthew and Mark to see the downward spiral of poor decisions. 

So let’s dive in.

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Matthew 14:3–12, Mark 6:17–29 

For Herod himself had ordered that John be arrested and bound and imprisoned, on account of Herodias, his brother Philip’s wife, whom Herod had married. For John had been telling Herod, “It is not lawful for you to have your brother’s wife!” So Herodias held a grudge against John and she and Herod wanted to kill him, but had been unable, because Herod was afraid of the people, because they regarded John as a prophet. So Herod feared John and protected him, knowing that he was a righteous and holy man and when he heard John’s words, he was greatly perplexed; yet he listened to him gladly.

But on Herod’s birthday, her opportunity arose. Herod held a banquet for his nobles and military commanders and the leading men of Galilee. When the daughter of Herodias came and danced, she pleased Herod and his guests, so much the king said to the girl, “Ask me for whatever you wish, and I will give it to you.” And he swore to her, “Whatever you ask of me, I will give you, up to half my kingdom!” Then she went out and asked her mother, “What should I request?” And her mother answered, “The head of John the Baptist.” At once the girl hurried back to the king with her request prompted by her mother,: “I want you to give me the head of John the Baptist on a platter immediately.”

The king was grieved and was consumed with sorrow, but because of his oaths and his guests, he did not want to refuse her and he ordered that her wish be granted and sent to have John beheaded in the prison. So without delay, the executioner went and beheaded John in the prison. The man brought John’s head on a platter and presented it to the girl, who gave it to her mother. Then John’s disciples came and took his body and buried it. And they went and informed Jesus.

My Thoughts

Herod and his wife are making one bad decision after another and each one leads to deeper adverse consequences. Here’s a list of errors they made;

  • Getting married (Herod married his brother’s wife while he was still alive contrary to Jewish law)
  • Not listening to John the Baptist and repenting
  • Having his step daughter “dance” in front of all these men
  • Promising to give the daughter a blank check (up to ½ the kingdom)
  • Not being willing to do the right thing because of his reputation
  • Not having the moral courage to deny a request fueled by revenge
  • Having an innocent man executed (murdered) in order to save face

Now that’s what I call “spiraling out of control” with bad decision making. But that’s exactly what our enemy wants to do to us. He wants to start a chain reaction of sin that ultimately leads to our complete destruction. But God has given us an off-ramp for this craziness;

No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it. (1 Corinthians 10:13)

As disciple-makers, our responsibility extends beyond merely teaching principles; we must also embody them. It’s important to share our weaknesses and failures with those we mentor, as well as to provide examples of how to take the “off-ramp” when faced with temptations. This approach fosters authenticity and encourages growth in those we guide.

My Story

I’ve probably told this story before but it fits so appropriately, I have to share it again.

I had been training Ranger students for 36 hours straight and was finally back at the camp. I was tired and just wanted to get some sleep. But as I jumped off a helicopter, I saw my Platoon Sergeant waiting for me on the landing zone and he didn’t look happy. “Sergeant Wood,” he motioned for me to join him. “Did you tell a Ranger student to throw away ammo?” On the defensive I immediately said “No.” He relaxed his tense expression and said “I knew you of all people wouldn’t do anything stupid like that!” 

Only one problem. I had done something stupid like that. I had just lied to my Platoon Sergeant. He continued, “Well go talk to the Captain and tell him what you told me.” And here’s where things started to “spiral out of control.” I could have taken the “off-ramp” right there. But no, I told my Captain the same lie and he sent me to the Battalion Commander. And you can see where this is going. I was spiraling up the chain of command and spiraling out of control with my sin. I was getting ready to crash and burn.

The next morning during my time with Jesus I was reading the Psalms and I read;

I said in my alarm, “All men are liars.”  Psalm 116:11 

That was enough to cause me to repent and I immediately went to my Battalion Commander and told him the truth. Then I worked my way back down the chain of command, confessing my sin and telling them the truth. I was given a Letter of Reprimand by my C.O. but that wasn’t the worst of it. After the formal reading of the LOR my Captain said; “I thought you were a Christian Sergeant Wood?” That stung more than anything else.

I share this story for two reasons. First, I want to be real and share my weaknesses and failures. And second, I want all of us to see how easy it is to spiral out of control if we don’t immediately take the off-ramp.

Our Action Plan

Now it’s time for application, here’s some ideas;

  • You and the people you’re mentoring memorize 1 Corinthians 10:13
  • Discuss the “Off Ramp.” What does this look like in some common temptations?
  • Share your weaknesses and failures with those you are discipling

Looking at both Herod’s tragic story and our personal experiences, we can see how a single poor choice can spiral into a tragic chain of consequences if we don’t take the “off-ramp” God always offers  through repentance. The key to avoiding such spirals lies in having the humility and courage to admit our mistakes early, turn back to truth, and accept the temporal consequences rather than compound our errors through pride or fear.

Espiral fuera de control – 94

¡Bienvenidos nuevamente! Hoy, combinaremos los evangelios de Mateo y Marcos para ver la espiral descendente de las malas decisiones.

Así que profundicemos.

Mateo 14:3-12, Marcos 6:17-29

Porque el mismo Herodes había ordenado que Juan fuera arrestado, atado y encarcelado, por causa de Herodías, la esposa de Felipe su hermano, con la cual Herodes se había casado. Porque Juan le decía a Herodes: «No te es lícito tener la esposa de tu hermano». Así que Herodías guardaba rencor contra Juan y ella y Herodes querían matarlo, pero no pudieron, porque Herodes tenía miedo del pueblo, porque éste consideraba a Juan un profeta. Por eso Herodes temía a Juan y lo protegía, sabiendo que era un hombre justo y santo. Cuando oyó las palabras de Juan, quedó muy perplejo; sin embargo, lo escuchó con gusto.

Pero el día del cumpleaños de Herodes, se le presentó la oportunidad. Herodes celebró un banquete para sus nobles, comandantes militares y los hombres principales de Galilea. La hija de Herodías llegó y danzó, y agradó a Herodes y a los invitados. El rey le dijo a la muchacha: «Pídeme lo que quieras y te lo daré». Y le juró: «Te daré todo lo que me pidas, hasta la mitad de mi reino». Ella salió y preguntó a su madre: «¿Qué quiero pedir?». Su madre le respondió: «La cabeza de Juan el Bautista». Inmediatamente la muchacha se apresuró a volver al rey y le dijo: «Quiero que me des en una bandeja la cabeza de Juan el Bautista».

El rey se entristeció y se entristeció mucho, pero a causa de sus juramentos y de los invitados, no quiso negarle nada y ordenó que se le concediera su deseo y mandó decapitar a Juan en la cárcel. El verdugo fue sin demora y decapitó a Juan en la cárcel. El hombre trajo la cabeza de Juan en una bandeja y se la presentó a la muchacha, quien se la dio a su madre. Entonces los discípulos de Juan fueron y tomaron el cuerpo y lo sepultaron. Luego fueron y se lo hicieron saber a Jesús.

Mis Pensamientos

Herodes y su esposa toman una mala decisión tras otra y cada una de ellas conduce a consecuencias adversas más profundas. Aquí hay una lista de errores que cometieron:

Casarse (Herodes se casó con la esposa de su hermano mientras aún estaba vivo en contra de la ley judía)

No escuchar a Juan el Bautista y arrepentirse

Hacer que su hijastra “baile” frente a todos estos hombres

Prometerle a la hija un cheque en blanco (hasta la mitad del reino)

No estar dispuesto a hacer lo correcto debido a su reputación

No tener el coraje moral para negar una solicitud impulsada por la venganza

Hacer que ejecuten (asesinen) a un hombre inocente para salvar las apariencias

Eso es lo que yo llamo “salir de control” con una mala toma de decisiones. Pero eso es exactamente lo que nuestro enemigo quiere hacernos. Quiere iniciar una reacción en cadena de pecado que, en última instancia, conduce a nuestra destrucción total. Pero Dios nos ha dado una salida para esta locura;

No os ha sobrevenido ninguna tentación que no sea común al hombre; Y fiel es Dios, que no os dejará ser tentados más de lo que podéis resistir, sino que dará también juntamente con la tentación la salida, para que podáis soportarla. (1 Corintios 10:13)

Como hacedores de discípulos, nuestra responsabilidad se extiende más allá de simplemente enseñar principios; también debemos encarnarlos. Es importante compartir nuestras debilidades y fracasos con aquellos a quienes guiamos, así como también dar ejemplos de cómo tomar la “rampa de salida” cuando nos enfrentamos a las tentaciones. Este enfoque fomenta la autenticidad y alienta el crecimiento en aquellos a quienes guiamos.

Mi Historia

Probablemente ya he contado esta historia antes, pero encaja tan bien que tengo que compartirla de nuevo.

Había estado entrenando a estudiantes de Rangers durante 36 horas seguidas y finalmente había regresado al campamento. Estaba cansado y solo quería dormir un poco. Pero cuando salté de un helicóptero, vi a mi sargento de pelotón esperándome en la zona de aterrizaje y no parecía feliz. “Sargento Wood”, me hizo un gesto para que me uniera a él. “¿Le dijiste a un estudiante de Ranger que tirara munición?” A la defensiva, dije inmediatamente “No”. Relajó su expresión tensa y dijo “¡Sabía que tú de todas las personas no harías algo tan estúpido como eso!”

Solo había un problema. Había hecho algo estúpido como eso. Acababa de mentirle a mi sargento de pelotón. Continuó: “Bueno, ve a hablar con el capitán y dile lo que me dijiste”. Y aquí es donde las cosas comenzaron a “salir de control”. Podría haber tomado la “rampa de salida” allí mismo. Pero no, le dije a mi capitán la misma mentira y él me envió al comandante del batallón. Y puedes ver a dónde va esto. Estaba subiendo en espiral por la cadena de mando y perdiendo el control con mi pecado. Me estaba preparando para estrellarme y arder.

A la mañana siguiente, durante mi tiempo con Jesús, estaba leyendo los Salmos y leí:

Dije alarmado: “Todos los hombres son mentirosos”. Salmo 116:11

Eso fue suficiente para hacerme arrepentir e inmediatamente fui a mi comandante del batallón y le dije la verdad. Luego volví a bajar por la cadena de mando, confesando mi pecado y diciéndoles la verdad. Mi oficial al mando me dio una carta de reprimenda, pero eso no fue lo peor. Después de la lectura formal de la carta de reprimenda, mi capitán dijo: “Pensé que eras cristiano, sargento Wood”. Eso me dolió más que cualquier otra cosa.

Comparto esta historia por dos razones. Primero, quiero ser real y compartir mis debilidades y fracasos. Y segundo, quiero que todos veamos lo fácil que es perder el control si no tomamos la salida inmediatamente.

Nuestro Plan de Acción

Ahora es el momento de la aplicación. Aquí hay algunas ideas:

Usted y las personas a las que está asesorando deben memorizar 1 Corintios 10:13

Hablen sobre la “rampa de salida”. ¿Cómo se manifiesta esto en algunas tentaciones comunes?

Compartan sus debilidades y fracasos con aquellos a quienes están discipulando

Si analizamos la trágica historia de Herodes y nuestras experiencias personales, podemos ver cómo una sola mala decisión puede convertirse en una trágica cadena de consecuencias si no tomamos la “rampa de salida” que Dios siempre ofrece a través del arrepentimiento. La clave para evitar tales espirales radica en tener la humildad y el coraje de admitir nuestros errores pronto, volver a la verdad y aceptar las consecuencias temporales en lugar de agravar nuestros errores a través del orgullo o el miedo.

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